After having read Democratic Candidate for US Congress (NJ, 4th Dist.) Brian Froelich's blog piece on the Patch titled "It's Not Junk Science" I felt it necessary to take the opportunity to address what I believe is his charge that the Pro Life Platform, most notably Pro-Life Republicans, is rooted in people wanting to impose their religious beliefs on others while denying the "rights" of women that may not hold the same beliefs.
It is without doubt that his piece and so many others in the mainstream media as well as elsewhere on The Patch are a result of the comments made a week or so ago by Republican Representative Todd Akin from Missouri where he stated that women "rarely" get pregnant if they are victims of "legitimate rape". I will readily admit that Mr. Akin's inability to articulate a clear and concise Pro Life position compounded by his no less than idiotic substantiation that a woman's body can "shut down" during a rape to prevent pregnancy has made the Pro Life Platform an easy target for those to cry "religious zealots".
All too often the Pro-Life Platform is defined by its opposition, it is characterized by those on the Pro-Choice side of the aisle as against women's "rights" and wanting to impose its "religious views" on others. Very rarely can any individual of any prominent public attention, be it a politician, an actor, or an activist citizen make a clear and concise case for being Pro Life, and to be honest, even if they could, I highly doubt they would get the media attention required to allow the articulate definition of the Platform to be conveyed to the masses.
Despite what Mr. Froelich has presented, the Pro-Life Platform is NOT a religious one. It is NOT a religious view sought by zealots wishing to impose their "beliefs" on "non-believers". I say this to you as a Roman Catholic. I mention my faith specifically because I do not hold the Pro-Life position because I am Catholic, I defend it because I am Catholic. You may be asking yourself "what's the difference?" and there really is a simple explanation as to what the difference is.
If being Pro Life were a religious belief it would solely be argued on Biblical grounds by quoting scripture, the problem with that method is the Bible is silent on abortion, it does not come right out and say "thou shalt not abort". So if the Pro-Life Platform is not a religious one, why is it mostly defended and espoused by people of faith? This too is pretty simple, people of faith tend to believe in truth, moral truth to be exact, and it is their religious beliefs that move them to defend that truth.
I would highly doubt anyone reading this article would disagree with me that examples of moral truth are the fact that you should not kill a stranger because they cut you off while driving, you should not kill your neighbor because their dog pees on your grass, and you should not kill your child because he or she misbehaves in the supermarket. These are without question, simple, moral, truths. I highly doubt any community of faith would be so readily attacked defending the aforementioned moral truths as they are for defending the Pro-Life Platform.
So you may ask "if the Pro-Life Platform is not based on religion, what is it based on?" and to this there is also a simple answer. Truth. The truth that willingly killing an innocent human life is morally wrong. With that being said, the crux of the debate is no more than this, what is the unborn? If the unborn is simply a mass of cells not unlike those that shed from our skin or makeup our hair then there really isn't a debate at all is there? Unfortunately science tells us otherwise.
The Scientific Community has for quite some time acknowledged that a new human life does indeed begin at conception, there can be no other scientific or rational explanation where and when it begins. From the moment of conception, two entities that were once unique to their respective male and a female contributors become one to create an entity that is entirely unique unto itself with the blueprint and capacity to develop itself through the various stages of human life. Every single one us us went through the same exact stages of development I speak of. Putting science aside for a moment, is it even rational to say that while you were unborn, that which resided in your mother's womb wasn't indeed you just an an earlier stage of human development?
So with science firmly establishing a new human life begins at conception, those opposed to the Pro-Life Platform shift to the more philosophical argument that "even if the unborn are human, they're not a person yet". The "personhood" argument boils down to assigning value on the unborn based on what they can do, whether they are "viable" or even "self aware". It asserts that an unborn human life does not have intrinsic value, it must acquire that value once it can process deliberate thought and be "aware" of itself. The problem here is that every personhood argument made against the unborn can equally be applied to born people at various stages of their post-birth development.
When an unborn child is born does it magically become "a person" because it made the 12 inch journey through its mother's birth canal? In those twelve inches did the child somehow become "aware" of who he or she was, capable of deliberate and rational thought? The answer is obviously no. If that is the case does the child acquire personhood a few hours after birth, a few days, weeks, or months? If it is one of those timeframes then why can we not, as Princeton Professor Pete Singer and author of Practical Ethics proclaims, abort that child for some time after birth. I think every rational person would immediately discredit that notion as morally wrong.
If personhood is not acquired outside the womb then it must be at some point inside the womb while unborn, but when is that? Is it when the brain develops? When the heart starts to beat? When facial features are recognizable? Maybe it is when the unborn becomes "viable" as the Pro-Choice advocates like to proclaim. The Pro-Choice Platform assigns "personhood" wherever and whenever it is convenient to support their position without any consistent application of the philosophical argument, only because they said so.
The Pro-Life Platform is simply this, the belief in the moral truth that it is wrong to willingly kill innocent human life, that human life begins at conception, human personhood is inherent by that life not because of some developed skill or acquired characteristic but because of the intrinsic value human life possesses.
Now I am fully aware that the next logical attack from the opposition is "do you hold that position under all circumstances?" and we all know what is meant by that question. The question that is really being asked is if the Pro-Life Platform is against the "right to choose" even during cases of rape and risk to the mother's health. These are the two bedrocks of the Pro-Choice stance once the notions of "right to privacy", "you can't tell me what to do with my body", or any of the other popular straw men that are used to defend the Pro-Choice position are rationally defeated.
In the case of "risk to a woman's health", one assumes that means to save the mother from imminent death if the pregnancy were to go to full term. On the surface this is appalling to think someone or some group would deny a woman an abortion to save her life. The reality is, a woman's health, as defined by Roe v. Wade can mean anything the woman wants it to be such as emotional distress, anxiety, or even financial hardship which are not justifiable reasons to condone the willful killing of the unborn.
The only foreseeable risk to a pregnant mother's life is that of an Ectopic Pregnancy where implantation occurs outside the uterus and it is very likely the mother could die from internal rupture if there were an attempt to bring the pregnancy to term. It is in this case that the Pro-Life Platform recognizes a genuine risk to the mother's life, acknowledges it is a pregnancy the unborn child would not be able to survive, and stand firmly on the principle that it is morally justified to terminate the life of the unborn to save that of the mother. I welcome any other examples of genuine risk to the mother's life.
As for the case of rape I want to first acknowledge that I am not going to address the semantics of "forceable rape" or "legitimate rape" because that discussion requires its own forum and for the purpose of this article rape is rape. Defined by the dictionary as "the unlawful compelling of a person through physical force or duress to have sexual intercourse". Without any doubt, rape is a heinous crime and not for one second should it not be acknowledged that it is NEVER the fault nor provoked by the woman who is undeniably the victim in every case. Any man who chooses to rape a woman should be prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law and every resource made available to the woman to cope with the aftermath.
With the aforementioned in regard to rape in mind, if human life has intrinsic value from the moment of conception, why do the circumstances under which that conception took place serve in any way to devalue it? How does adding a second victim to the aftermath of rape somehow heal the wounds of the first victim. I fully understand that a few sentences on this aspect of the debate is not sufficient. I fully understand that the written word is not sufficient enough to express the compassion and desire Pro-Life and Pro-Choice advocates have to help rape victims cope with the aftermath of their experience, but condonation of creating two victims out of one is not a practice Pro-Choice advocates are willing to accept.
In summary, the Pro-Life Platform is not a religious belief as Mr. Froelich lays claim to and not an attempt by a religious group to impose their views on those who don't hold them. It is a platform that is held by both people of faith as well a people of no faith at all. The only real difference between the two is that people of faith are more willing and feel more compelled to defend it therefore tend to be the loudest voice for those with no voice at all.
If you have managed to get to this point I want to sincerely thank you for your time and willingness to endure the entire piece. I fully expect folks from both sides of the issue to engage in this topic and respectfully ask that if you choose to do so you proceed with substance and not rhetoric as I have made every attempt to do so here.
Thanks in advance for your comments,
Robert Way
robertway@me.com
anonymous
8:02 am on Friday, August 31, 2012
You make a very interesting and compelling argument. I think, however, that nothing will ever convince the other side from debating their position. It is now entrenched in the new America, a country which no longer is moral at its base. Thank you for your thoughts.
Robert Way
10:05 am on Friday, August 31, 2012
Thanks you for your compliment. My intention is not to convince the other side of the argument to change their mind, only they can do that after willingly taking the time to listen to and rationalize the Pro-Life position. It is the same reason I am willing to listen to and try to rationalize their position. Despite what I "feel" is right or wrong, I try to let science, philosophy, and ultimately truth reveal whether or not the Pro-Life Platform is right or wrong.
I am going to have to respectfully yet strongly disagree with your assertion that America has lost its moral base. I truly believe that the silent majority of this country is aligned with the Pro-Life Platform but because of an inability to articulate their position substantively and successfully refute the Pro-Choice Platform by deconstructing their straw man arguments and ad hominem rhetoric they choose to stay silent.
I thank yo again for your comments and you willingness to read the entire piece.
Lifetime Resident
6:56 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
First I would like to acknowledge that I too am Roman Catholic, but I do not share the authors or the churches view. I believe in a indiviuals right to make their own decisions concerning their bodies. No one has right to force someone to carry a pregnancy to term. In the first few weeks from a medical stand point it is not yet a child. I believe that abortion in the first 8 weeks should be a anyone womans right to choose but it should not be used as a form of birth control. I am against partial birth abortions, I also believe that it is a very personal and private decision and that if it doesn't involve you personally , mind your own damn business...
Mattie
9:33 am on Saturday, September 1, 2012
Thank you! Lifetime Resident!
David Daur
5:51 am on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
I believe in pre-planning. That's why I have my wife take the "Plan B" pill the night before. Two kids is enough with this economy!
Sherri, Long-time resident of GTwp
10:03 am on Friday, August 31, 2012
I love your article! Thank you!
Robert Way
10:26 am on Friday, August 31, 2012
You are more than welcome. Thanks you for taking the time to read it.
Lifetime Resident
4:38 pm on Wednesday, September 5, 2012
Mr Daur,
The Plan b pill, if it is what is also referred to as the morning after pill. Is a basically supposed to be used as a last resort. It can actually cause damage, and it not meant to be used as a for of regular birth control. It will either prevent a fertilized egg from attaching or If a fertilized egg attaches to the uterus, if it is the pill I think you refer to, than it causes a miscarriage (spontaneous abortion) But it DOES NOT prevent fertilization. So what is the difference between causing a deliberately miscarriage and having an abortion? So all you Pro Life people who claim that life begins at conception how do you justify this pill??
Uncle Moe
10:31 am on Friday, August 31, 2012
I agree with some of your points. I believe that the whole abortion push is part of something darker, population control and eugenics. For this reason, abortion should be outlawed, not for religious grounds. See more here. http://www.naturalnews.com/035276_Pepsi_fetal_cells_business_operations.html
Robert Way
12:08 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Moe, thanks for your input. While I am not familiar with the issue you reference with your link, although I will take the time to read it, I do agree with you to the extent that I believe the Pro-Choice position allows for a slippery slope to be established where at some point in time it will be permissible to discard human life solely based on much more superficial criteria and that "right" will start to extend further and further out of the womb.
A not so unfathomable example would be a pregnancy that were determined to be a female during early ultrasounds but upon birth wound up being male because "I guess he had his legs crossed". Well the mother didn't want a boy, she wanted a girl, and the slippery slope that is being established would allow for the termination of that child after birth.
All you have to do is look at China and the imbalance that has been created through sex-selective abortions since the one-child policy was enacted in 1979. The slippery slope allows for other criteria to come into play and eventually extend to outside the womb in order to make the best determination for the mother and the child's "quality of life".
http://www.allgirlsallowed.org/global-war-against-baby-girls-sex-selective-abortion-becomes-worldwide-practice
Anthony Cooper
12:08 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Thanks to Robert Way for his informative article. Moral issues aside, I am concerned about the disastrous ECONOMIC impact of our national abortion program, which to date has cost the U.S.A. about 55 million workers.
Since retiring after a 41 year career, I am now using the Social Security and Medicare benefits for which I've already paid via their established and supposedly dedicated taxes. The abortion-caused deaths of 55 million prospective American workers and the resulting loss of their Social Security and Medicare taxes is the key threat to stable funding for Social Security and Medicate -- hence a grave concern to me and all Americans who are now retired, or plan to some day retire.
President Obama's heavy attacks on Social Security (3% reduction in Social Security payroll taxes for his ill-fated ":Stimulus" efforts) and on Medicare (planned removal of over $700 billion to help fund his problematic "Obamacare"), should bring into sharper focus the impact which the abortion-caused losses of 55 million American workers is having on the future of Social Security and Medicare.
It is time to abort our national abortion program for the protection of Social Security and Medicare.
Thank you,
Anthony Cooper
Martin
2:10 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Unwanted accidental babies would cost billions by working age. When a raped woman gets pregnant, for example, or her health is at risk while pregnant, you want her to give birth so in 18-21 years another worker will contribute to Social Security. Really? Only a man would think that way, an irrational man at that.
Why won't Repubs simply make today's workers contribute to Soc. Sec. on wages from $98,000 to $250 million (Romney)? Soc. Sec. would instantly be solvent!
Robert Way
3:08 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Anthony, thank you for taking the time to comment. While I would agree with your assessment from an economic perspective, i.e. an underfunding of entitlement programs due to a reduction in the working population, I respectfully disagree that it is a plank to be stood on to make the case for life. The case for life is not rooted in economics, it is rooted in morality and truth.
Clown Baby
3:15 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
Just because something is moral to you doesn't make it so for other people and cultures. Your "truth" might be quite different from others.
Robert Way
9:00 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
@Clown Baby - "Just because something is moral to you doesn't make it so for other people and cultures. Your "truth" might be quite different from others."
Clown Baby, that is a very relativist view, the mindset whereby my "right" might not be your "right" and my "wrong" might not be your "wrong". That way of thinking has a very slippery slope that can lead to some very bad things. We are not talking about what flavor of ice cream you like compared to what I like.
Whether you are willing to acknowledge it or not, practically every single law on the books that prevents you from doing something is someone else's "morality" being imposed on you.
rehab
9:19 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
baloney - its a moral issue plain and simple.
stop spreading lies. the $700mm number reflects payment cuts to providers accepted based on increased volumes of newly insured patients. this is why the insurance program in this country is so broken. finally, we are making progress to efficiency and ignorant people like you can't take the time to do the research but spew non-factual "statistics".
what are you even saying? that you are voting ryan-romney? they want medicare and social security out of the governments hands. read ryan's budget.
they will seal the deal for bankruptcy in this country. you can't pay the debt without raising taxes. period.
KC
1:11 am on Sunday, September 9, 2012
This is a complex issue. IF we are to consider the issue not from a moral and ethical standpoint, but merely from a bottom line financial one (and I don't know that we should) - then it is surely more "economical" to control or terminate unwanted early term pregnancies. The alternative would be to continue to fund failed attempts to remediate the lives of unwanted and unsupervised children as we now have with so many of our social programs. It doesn't take a village to raise a child - it takes a mother and a father in an intact family unit. The pragmatist in me also finds holes in your argument, because we don't have jobs for those people who ARE alive, let alone for another fifty- five million.
Clown Baby
1:37 pm on Monday, September 17, 2012
So if a cop kills someone he is a hero, but if the bad guy kills the cop he is a bad guy? People still get killed either way, the truth is in the spin. Either I don't really care about your invisible sky wizard. I'm 100% down with abortion and your point of view is slowly dying out.
Monk
5:11 pm on Monday, September 17, 2012
Clown Baby, if you don't recognize nearly universally accepted moral principles such as, "You must not kill" and "Killing in self-defense is justified", and if you insist on mocking what is sacred to many people by using a phrase like "invisible sky wizard" for "God", why bother engaging anyone in a dialogue?
Are you sure you do not recognize any universal moral norms? For you anything goes? Really?
Donna Griffin
5:43 pm on Monday, September 17, 2012
Clown Baby - I might recommend that you not dial 911 in the event that you are being assaulted. The assaulter is merely expressing himself. Human sacrifice is "cool" too? It's a twisted view of the world when you start getting into moral relativism in the manner in which you present it.
Lauren P
12:08 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Are you kidding me? "why do the circumstances under which that conception took place serve in any way to devalue it? How does adding a second victim to the aftermath of rape somehow heal the wounds of the first victim" you and your ilk are the reason the country is in the state it is. Soon all us lefties are coming out to vote for ANYONE who does not share your beliefs, and you will thankfully be on the back burner together.
Robert Way
12:36 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Lauren, your substance is astonishing, I am defenseless and at a total loss for words. It is without doubt that everyone on your side of the issue should praise your complete deconstruction of the Pro-Life position and finally putting this issue to rest.
Aside from that, let me clarify that my statement is meant to show that just because a human life was created out of a horrendous situation doesn't mean that human life should be any less valuable.
I shall now proceed to take my place on the back burner. I thank you again for your substantive contribution to the debate.
J
1:29 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Lauren, you and I are the only opposing comments here...which is either very scary or very telling. (We also seem to be among the only women.)
Among the many other arguments that could be made that rape victims MUST have the option to abort, pregnancy changes a woman's body, often in unpleasant ways. Can anyone honestly say that months of morning sickness, weight gain, the possibility of permanent damage to one's body, etc, just don't matter? Why would a woman whose body was violated be forced to go through nine more months of even more violation?
Robert Way
3:27 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
J, the argument you use which is usually known as "the invasion argument" seeks to dehumanize the human life that might result from a rape. I want to reiterate that rape is heinous act and a complete violation of a not only a woman's body but also their mind and emotion. The "invader" or "violator" you speak of is a human life. I will ask once again, why do the circumstances under which a life was created determine the intrinsic value that life has? If a mother gives birth to a first child as a result of a loving relationship with her husband but is unfortunate later in life to be the victim of rape, become pregnant from it, but decide to give birth to the child, is her first child any more valuable than the child that resulted from the rape?
Is pregnancy hard on a woman, absolutely, I have been a first hand witness to a wife that has gone through it four times. The physical and emotional stress of raising a child continues long after birth, are we to assume you mean that after birth if raising the child becomes to physically and emotionally stressful that the mother can choose to "terminate" then as well?
If that is not the case, reverse the timeline of development of that born child and tell me at what point termination is acceptable either specifically in the case of rape or not.
J. Truth
12:08 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Jeremiah 1:5: "Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart; I appointed you as a prophet to the nations."
I'm not religious either, I just believe in God's word....
Silly McLies
3:20 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Well if we're using quotes.....Gensis 2:7 defined the beginning of life. "then the Lord God formed man of dust from the ground and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living bein." Only a very late term fetus can survive and breath without support.
Further, if you're not into Bible interpretations, let's take a look at the Constitution.....Amendment 14 - Citizenship Rights. Ratified 7/9/1868. Note History
1. All persons born or naturalized in the United States, and subject to the jurisdiction thereof, are citizens of the United States and of the State wherein they reside. No State shall make or enforce any law which shall abridge the privileges or immunities of citizens of the United States; nor shall any State deprive any person of life, liberty, or property, without due process of law; nor deny to any person within its jurisdiction the equal protection of the laws.
"All person's born or naturalized in the United States" The key word "born". The amendment simply states that if you are born or naturalized in the the US you are entitled with certain US rights, nothing about fetus'. Thus, the government holds no standpoint on the topic, nor should it. The individual should decide what is right and what is wrong, not someone else.
Robert Way
3:54 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Silly McLies, based on your argument it is perfectly legal for me to kill an illegal alien who was neither born here or naturalized.
Your argument states exactly that, nothing more, nothing less....
Now obviously that is ridiculous, anyone with half a brain of intellectual honesty would not willingly think it be permissible to kill someone who were here but not born here or naturalized so obviously there is a lot more to the issue than where you "popped out" or got your "papers".
Silly McLies
4:05 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Wow Robert, I thought you would do a better job than that in trying to support your belief. I reply with a Bible verse that contradicts the above Bible verse and then cite the Constitution to support the subject that YOU are writing about, and you reply then it's ok to kill illegals by my citation?
You then backpedal and say "so obviously there is a lot more to the issue than where you "popped out" or got your "papers"."
Wrap this debate in morality all you want, it's a control issue.
If you don't want anyone in your family to have an abortion, then don't allow them.
As far as anyone else's family, I think not.
Robert Way
1:35 pm on Sunday, September 2, 2012
Silly, when I first read your comment I took it as you saying that because the unborn are not "born" nor "naturalized" that they are not entitled to the rights that are defined in The Constitution and The Declaration. It is now apparent that you were merely saying that because they are neither "born" nor "naturalized" that the government has no position on the unborn.
I apologize for hastily interpreting your comment and not replying in the proper context, it is what I always ask folks not to do with my posts and instead wound up doing that to yours.
You mention that this is really just a "control issue" but don't all laws seek to control some behavior? Behavior that if left uncontrolled would infringe on the rights of others. There is "control" everywhere in law, is the law against random murder of innocent people not an attempt to control people? People control you on a daily basis whether you like it or not or choose to recognize it or not.
Lifetime Resident
4:42 pm on Wednesday, September 5, 2012
To Silly McLies,
I applaud your response! Thank You
marylou
12:08 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
So,where do you and stand on contraception?If life begins at conception,you should have no problem with contraception,including the morning after pill.
Robert Way
12:50 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Mary, thank you for getting engaged, I had a feeling you would be a willing party to the conversation.
You question requires a few different answers and I will take the necessary time and space to address each and I believe they can be broken into the following;
In regard to contraception in general there is what I would consider a "faith-based" view and a "non-faith-based" view.
The "faith-based" view follows the teachings put forth by The Vatican and Pope John Paul VI in 1968 (http://www.catholic.com/tracts/birth-control) that reemphasized the long-standing belief of The Church that "it is intrinsically wrong to use contraception to prevent new human beings from coming into existence".
Not all people are people of faith and not all people of faith are perfected to the extent that they follow the teachings of The Church at all times. It is why people of faith understand that they are indeed fallible but strive to be as faithful as possible. I happen to fall into the latter category whereby I acknowledge the teachings of my faith and will eventually be accountable for upholding them at all times.
Robert Way
12:50 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
In regard to the morning after pill it is not as easy as "are you for it or against" it because in actuality it works in three different ways. It either alters the normal menstrual cycle delaying ovulation, it can prevent ovulation so the egg is not released from the ovary therefore preventing it from possibly being fertilized, or it can irritate the lining of the uterus thereby preventing implantation after conception has already occurred. (http://www.morningafterpill.org/how-does-it-work.html)
The first two instances are theoretically acceptable by the Pro-Life Platform, it is the third one that breaks the deal in that conception has already occurred and the morning after pill has essentially induced a "chemical abortion". And with the line in the sand being so blurry as to when the morning after pill goes from a "before conception" measure to an "after conception" measure because of our inability to essentially see what is going on inside the potential mother, I would err on the side of being against the morning after pill.
Robert Way
12:50 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
By the way, sorry if my responses seem out of order, wasn't sure in what order to post across different posting due to character limitations.
Peter Koenig
2:18 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Oh, my.
"The Church" - as if the Roman Catholic Church were the only Church. And then: "[N]ot all people of faith are perfected to the extent that they follow the teachings of The Church at all times."
I am a Christian. I am not a Roman Catholic. I do not consider my understanding of faith to be imperfect by reason of the fact that I am not a Roman Catholic. I understand that some members of the Roman Catholic Chuch deny the validity of any and all other expressions of Christianity but their own. For my part, I do not deny the validity of their understandings of faith, and am bold to call them fellow Christians, despite our differences.
But enough of the theocratic dimension of this discussion, which Mr. Way purports to eschew even while he proclaims it.
If freedom of reproductive choice is the law, then each of us are free to practice our religious (or moral, or ethical) beliefs on the subject. The law will not compel either the termination or the continuance of pregnancy.
If termination of pregancy is illegal (or if it is so burdened by deterrent legal requirements as to become a practical impossibility), then those of us who do not believe that a zygote is a human being from the moment of conception will be compelled to submit to the religious (or moral or ethical) beliefs of others. They would impose their will upon us, in derogation of our fundamental freedoms of religion and conscience.
Peter Koenig
2:24 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Pardon the continuation.
In a free society, the law will inevitably tolerate certain forms of conduct that some of us consider religiously (or morally or ethically) unacceptable. As a matter of religious faith and practice, I consider church-sponsored gambling and the sale of indulgences to be unacceptable. I do not begrudge my Roman Catholic brethren their Bingo games and raffles and indulgences, and I certainly would not want them all clapped in prison for doing it. No, not in a free country. Neither the pronouncements of the pope nor the Book of Concord constitute a norm for secular law.
Robert Way
3:49 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Peter, thank you for taking the time to elaborate your position.
I first want to apologize if I in any way made it seem that the Catholic Church was "The Church" or the only Church. It was not my intention. Being Catholic it just happens to be my most familiar point of reference and don not, and I repeat, do not intend to project the notion that if you are not Roman Catholic you are by any means imperfect. I honestly don't know how to be any clearer, my point was that I as a Catholic/Christian am not perfect and in now way attempted to marginalize or discredit any other Christian of non-Christian faith.
In regard to your comment "In a free society, the law will inevitably tolerate certain forms of conduct that some of us consider religiously (or morally or ethically) unacceptable." If a court were to establish a law allowing for the termination of a born child because of the emotional and financial burden that child places on its parents up to the adult age of 18, would you hold the same position in your comment?
You argument distracts from the issue at hand. Even though we live in a free society we are not free to do whatever we want if it infringes on the rights of others. So once again the discussion circles back to the root issue at hand,what is the unborn, and do they possess the same right to life that the born do?
marylou
4:47 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Well,Robert,it's fine to be against something and not use it yourself or to even advise others not to use it.But,to require that others,who do not share your beliefs to follow the teaching of your faith is down right arrogant.You do realize that there are "people of faith" that are not Catholic,don't you?I'm one of them.
Peter Koenig
4:50 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Robert, I apologize for seeming a tad arch on the "Roman Catholic is the only Church" issue, but please understand my theological forbears and I have heard that for just short of 500 years now.
"So once again the discussion circles back to the root issue at hand,what is the unborn, and do they possess the same right to life that the born do?" That is indeed the root question. It is a question government in a free society should not attempt to answer. If you believe that a zygote has all rights from the moment of its conception, then you are free to act upon your belief, to advocate for it, to try to convince others of it. I respectfully disagree, though I've never tried to convince anyone else that I am right. This must be left to the individual.
And no - I would not countenance killing after birth. There is an overwhelming societal consensus that a human being is human after birth. No such overwhelming consensus exists as to a zygote.
I shan't discuss contraception, except to say that if we allow government to compel women to give birth against their will, government will next compel women to become pregnant by outlawing birth control.
May I commend to you Romans 3:28.
marylou
5:12 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Peter,thanks for your comments.It seems that many Catholic thinktheat their church is the only one and that they are the only"people of faith." As you said,there are othe religions who don't believe in gambling or drinking alcohol.Some don't believe blood transfusions,eating pork and.or shellfish.And they have every right to their beliefs,as long as they don't try to make everyone else follow them by making these things illegal.
Robert Way
5:27 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
marlylou please read my response to Peter above, I clearly state that my intention is NOT to make it seem that Catholics are the ONLY people of faith. And the point of the article is the fact that the Pro-Life position is NOT a religious belief that is trying to be forced onto someone else. I made it very clear that people of faith, ANY FAITH, are usually more willing and more compelled to voice and defend their principles.
If this does not clearly refute your assumption, please let me know how I can expand on the thought although I an not sure what else I could say to be more clear.
Lifetime Resident
4:50 pm on Wednesday, September 5, 2012
First, Robert.. For you to suggest (even as a joke) that it would be legal for you to kill an illigal immmigrant, is first a foremost a childish response. And if you are as you say a person of faith, than why would you suggest you should be alloewed to kill someone and violate one of the 10 commandments?
Mary Lou, the morning after pill doesn't prevent fertilization of an egg, it prevents the egg from implanting and resulting in an unwanted pregnancy.
I also think that if someone Robert loved were raped and became pregnant, he would be singing a different tune
Lisa
12:50 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
For myself only, I believe in pro choice. But I respect how pro life folks feel and believe. I mean, who the heck am I to tell anyone on either side here that he or she is wrong? I won't disrespect people that way.
Robert Way
1:00 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Lisa, while I understand your point of view and appreciate your willingness to share I have to respectfully point out the fact that that mindset is significantly rooted in relativism. The notion that "your right and wrong" may be different than "my right or wrong" and ignoring the possibility that truth really exists.
There is by no means an assumption of disrespect, not intention or desire to prove anyone right or wrong, instead there is a desire to substantively and rationally try to find what the truth of the issue is. I am not trying to make this sound like lofty notions of rhetoric, just trying to point out that this is not about two sides proclaiming "I'm good and you're evil" or "I'm smart and you're stupid".
Jennifer
9:27 am on Thursday, September 6, 2012
I can't believe I have scrolled down this far and so far, no one has really challenged you in an intelligent way.
I am sort of Roman Catholic, in the way that Jewish people can be Jewish without being particulary religious. It is in my family. I celebrate Christmas. I cook lamb or ham on Easter. That kind of Catholic. Just a disclaimer.
I am not a vegetarian or vegan. But I do know that some people fully believe that " meat is murder" . I also believe that they should not be forced to eat meat, shop at places that sell meat, or do anything otherwise meat-related. But they can't stop me from enjoying a cheeseburger, because my belief system, which is shared by many, allows me to do so. Oh, yeah, I also don't believe vegans should be allowed to influence agricultural policy, say, by refusing to pay taxes if the US Government is going to subsidize cattle farmers or whatever. But I digress.
I do understand that, at another stage of development, I was a fertilized egg. But I was also a sperm, too, billions of which perish anonymously in tube socks and tissues in the bedrooms of teenage boys all over America. Nocturnal genocide.
If you claim our legal system should not distinguish between unborn and born life, you are assuming that there is no legal gradation of value once born. Not true. If three people were killed in the same negligent accident - a highly paid bond broker, a dishwasher, and a child, we might all feel the child's death had more...bathos. Continued
Jennifer
9:44 am on Thursday, September 6, 2012
(cont.). But in the ensuing legal arguments and settlements, we would see that in addition to wrongful death and emotional distress, the wives of the bond broker and the dishwasher could also sue for lost wages, projected over a lifetime. Guess who is worth more? And the parents of the child? Sorry, but that kid might have gotten hit by a car at 12. Sure, he might have been a surgeon, but he also might have been a heroin addict.
As to medical risks, when you get your medical degree, let me know. Besides ectopic pregnancy,, off the top of my head, I can come up with placenta previa, separated placenta, uterine rupture, hemorrhage, molar pregnancy, leukemia, kidney failure, preeclampsia,.....but I am not a doctor, either. I am just not a guy, and I actually have been pregnant, so I actually had to think about these things as if they were, kind of, important.
I don't know when the unborn become worthy of benefit-of-the doubt. I, too, think that an 8- month pregnancy is a baby. But I do not believe that you can confer full personhood on "someone" who does not yet POSESS A BODY. That is to say, if I gave a fertilized egg to you for safekeeping, would it have " all the potential to develop through all the later stages"? Without the help of anyone other than the very concerned and morally straight Robert Way? Good luck with growing a body to match the civil rights you would confer. I think I'm done.
mary54
1:33 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
I look at pro-choice from a practical point of view. One commenter noted that he is concerned that there have been so many abortions that the viability (sorry) of future senior benefits is being threatened. But, we already have too many people on the earth and the environment cannot be sustained if we add more and more. I’ll take the environmental health of the world over the potential loss of some of my benefits. A policy of choice or no choice can be promoted by both believers and non-believers. In Eastern Europe, during the cold war, women were not allowed to abort because the atheistic communist countries wanted more people available to fight future wars, but in communist China, with an overpopulation problem, only one child per couple was allowed. Practicality. Further, an unwanted pregnancy, by rape or otherwise, can be such a burden on the woman who has to carry the fetus, or who has to provide for the child after birth, that she should have the right to carry to term or night. No one else should be able to stick their nose in and make a decision for her that they have no, or little, future responsibility for.
marylou
5:43 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
I wonder what would happen to a woman who is emplyed by 1 of these so called"faith based" institutions becane pregnant and did what they considered the right thing and decided to carry her pregnancy to term.My guess is that if she wasn;t married or wasn't married long enough,she be fired for behaving immorally.If she had an abortion,no one but she and her doctor would know.Hypocrites!
Robert Way
6:24 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
marylou, you continue to try and distract from the issue at hand, the issue of wether or not the unborn is a human life that has the same right to life as a born individual. In your scenario, it doesn't matter what you guess would happen nor does it add to the conversation in any way.
Lifetime Resident
5:00 pm on Wednesday, September 5, 2012
I agree with Mary, the decision to carry a pregnancy to term, is a very personal and private decision. It should be an individual's choice. The government of this country was founded by men of christian faith who believed in the separation of church and state, specifically so that no one indivdual could force their religious beliefs on anyone else. This country was founded by people seeking freedom from persecution based on their beliefs. But yet here we are, in 2012 , with men like Robert Way and Mitt Romney who are seeking to impose their religious beliefs on others. I can say that as a Catholic, who believes my faith is a very personal and private and would never dream of stripping anyone else of their basic freedoms because of religious beliefs
KC
1:27 am on Sunday, September 9, 2012
I think one needs to also consider the totally random hand of Mother Nature. How is it that when a pregnancy is problematic many women will miscarry, but many others will go full term to deliver sometimes severely handicapped children? I feel Nature is fickle in this regard . I have very mixed emotions on the issue and do not feel logic alone can give us answers.
MILITANT ANTI-THEIST
1:52 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
republicans will never overturn roe v wade because it would'nt be the issue that it is today when they are in need of roping in the poor religious vote. they will talk about it, but they will never get it done because they'd never win another presidential election without the thumpers of the south...
Robert Way
3:38 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
So Pro-Life politicians are only Pro-Life so they can get votes of let me guess, the folks that "cling to their bibles and their guns"?
Thank you for adding undeniable substance to the conversation.....
Robert Way
4:07 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Sadly, I believe I have to admit defeat at the hands of such an articulate person of principle. I thank you for your contribution to the conversation and will recuse myself from further comments on your insurmountable points.
Robert Way
6:30 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Such stunning brilliance you exude....
Nora
2:25 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
I am pro choice myself, but I do believe that there should be time restrictions. The problem then of course would be to determine at what point it should no longer be allowed, and this point would probably always be a subject of discussion. Is an 8 weeks old unwanted embryo any more worth than something else that is alive? (fertilized chickens egg, frog etc) I don't feel that it is, nor do I feel that it has any more rights, it does not think more or feel more. I would not have an abortion myself at this point in my life, but 10 years ago I might have? Once the times are set, it should be up to the woman. I also feel that there should be room for late term abortion in cases where it is a matter of life or death for the mother.
uniony
12:51 pm on Wednesday, September 5, 2012
Actually, Catholic hospitals allow abortions when the life of the mother is at stake. But people even ignore guidance by their churches.
Anonymous
9:12 am on Saturday, September 8, 2012
Did you really just compare an 8 week old unwanted embryo to a chicken or frog egg?? come on now
Nora
11:09 am on Saturday, September 8, 2012
Yes I did and I stand by it, it has no more worth than any other type of life as far as I am concerned, it is a lump of unwanted cells.
Nora
11:22 am on Saturday, September 8, 2012
P.S. I know exactly what an embryo looks like at 8 weeks, even though the cells have started to make formations it is still at this point no more worth than anything else in my opinion.
Now a wanted little embryo on the other hand, anyone who ever wanted to be a parent knows that to that parent it is worth the world.
Robert Way
11:42 am on Saturday, September 8, 2012
@Nora - "it is still at this point no more worth than anything else in my opinion"
Nora, this is the core of the issue that the Pro-Life position is trying to address. You say it is not worth anything else, and I know that is your opinion, but what are you basing that on. Why is it not worth anything else or in more concrete terms, why does it not have any value.
When does that embryo earn or acquire its worth. Is it not just a stage of human development that we all went through? Who is the arbiter of worth in this case? Is the mother the arbiter of when that new life is worthy enough to have a right to life. What happens if a mother decides her toddler is no longer "worthy".
As much as others don't like my continued use of the toddler example, it is necessary because nobody has been able to tell me or argue why a toddler is more valuable than a zygote, an embryo, or a fetus. Is value mot intrinsic?
Where is the line in the sand that divides worthy and unworthy, having value or having no value. If drawn only by the mother, when is it that she is no longer allowed to draw that line?
I think it was @Ric that may have been the only one that came close to drawing a line in the sand by saying when the unborn become born but he still didn't completely define that. Is it when the ENTIRE child is outside of the mother, before or after the cord is cut. When the child is partially outside the mother?
When is it exactly that she can no longer terminate?
Nora
11:55 am on Saturday, September 8, 2012
Please note that I did not say it is not worth anything else, I said it is not more worth than anything else. I do not kill anything if i can help it, I catch spiders I find in my house and throw them out the window (Unless they try to attack me at that point they do go splat)
As I have told you before, people do draw the line in the sand so please stop it with the toddler talk already. Personally I draw the line at 12 weeks, but if you want to go in to argumentation on why that is I suggest you google it because it is too much for me to want to write it here. I'm sure it is possible for a mother to despise her 8 months old fetus, or her 2 year old todder but at this point it is considered able to survive outside of the mother and has legal rights, so thats how that is. And again the born/unborn terms aren't really good to use.
Robert Way
12:19 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
Nora, my apologies for the slight misquote of your comment where you did indeed not "more worth anything else", I wasn't trying to misrepresent what you said but my response to you remains the same.
You are one of the few in here that I feel I can walk through things with so I don't want to alienate you from engaging me but I do have to say that just because you don't like the toddler example does not invalidate it. Instead, please elaborate on why I should not be able to use it, I will be more than happy to let you walk me through that and answers any questions you put to me to try and get me to have to refute you as to why the toddler example is invalid.
By your admission that 12 weeks is where you draw the line I am assuming that viability is the line in the sand for you, please correct me if I am wrong in this regard. I am also making the viability assumption here based on your comment which you seem to acknowledge that since an 8 month old fetus can live outside the mother it "has legal rights" (your words).
Based on your comment, it seems to me you are of the opinion that the legal rights of a new life are acquired after conception but not before "viability", am I incorrect in this assumption?
Nora
1:09 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
Robert, the term abortion cannot possibly be applied to a toddler. As for whether or not terminating a human at any age is right or wrong, then we have the discussion of when something becomes a person and also who's rights are more important to us and more discussions surely. As for my drawing the line at 12 weeks, it does have to do with the developmental stage, however a 13 weeks old fetus would not survive outside of mothers body. I do feel that viability should be a major factor in when a fetus has legal rights, however because development can vary somewhat I feel the line must be drawn way before viability. Also there is the aspect of suffering, at 12 weeks the development is not very advanced and there is in addition to no viability, no sensation of pain such as we know it. I have heard of late term abortions where the fetus comes out and is gasping for air trying to live, that breaks my heart.
Robert Way
1:25 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
@Nora - "the term abortion cannot possibly be applied to a toddler".
I'd be more than happy to use another term but my point isn't whether or not the term "abortion" can apply to a toddler as it does a fetus and I would hope that be obvious. The use of a toddler is specifically to provoke the discussion of personhood, I have mentioned personhood many times in my comments throughout this conversation.
The entire issue is indeed "personhood". Is personhood an acquired trait or an intrinsic one? That IS the whole issue is it not?
In regard to viability, does a fetus becoming "viable" change the nature of what the fetus is?
Nora
1:49 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
Robert, personhood is not the whole issue, it is only one part of a large debate with many things to consider. Does viability change what a fetus is? Yes and no. It's still a fetus, it does however change many other things, at least for us who are pro choice.
In my opinion, the life that might have been is inferior to the life that is. (in this case the mothers life) Live human tissue is discarded a lot, and before there is any sense of sensation or thought, physically speaking that is what a fetus is. P.S. for this I am going from my view that 12 weeks is the line, sensation does develop before the time of viability.
Robert Way
2:29 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
@Nora - "personhood is not the whole issue".
Nora, here is where I will disagree with you and it may be one of those "agree to disagree" moments for you. Once the "when does an new human life begin" question was answered by science, the Pro-Choice position could only and has only stood on "personhood" as its justification for abortion and to deny the right to life from a human life as either a zygote or at its embryonic or fetal stages of development.
You said "Does viability change what a fetus is? Yes and no". I didn't ask if viability changes what a fetus is, I asked if it changes the NATURE of what it is, what it inherently is which is a human life. The NATURE of something is not acquired or developed or earned, it is intrinsic. Does viability change the NATURE of the fetus. This may be annoying you, but words having meaning and those words have bearing on the conversation.
You said "In my opinion, the life that might have been is inferior to the life that is". Not sure I follow that logic, what do you mean by "might have been". The life we are talking about exists already, is a fetus not a human organism? Both life's in question do indeed exist, one just happens to be inside another.
continued....
Robert Way
2:30 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
@Nora - You said "Live human tissue is discarded a lot and before there is any sense of sensation or thought, physically speaking that is what a fetus is".
Am I then to assume that an embryo or fetus is no different than the mother's finger, or skin, or hair? And after "sensation and thought" are developed, are we therefore no longer made up of live human tissue. Are you and I not made up of "live human tissue" even though we have sensation and thought. According to your comment we are not, so then, what is it we are "made up of"?
Nora
2:45 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
Robert, science has determined that it is alive, not that is has a life. There is a difference. I for one do not think the human DNA to be holy in any way. And as far as personhood being the main issue, yes we will just have to agree to disagree on that one. As for the other stuff, let me quote you and answer.
"Am I then to assume that an embryo or fetus is no different than the mother's finger, or skin, or hair?" Yes that is exactly right, unless the mother wants to have the baby, at an early stage it might as well just be a fetus-shaped tumor.
"And after "sensation and thought" are developed, are we therefore no longer made up of live human tissue." In the case of a developed human, one does not exclude the other, of course we are still human tissue.
Robert Way
3:09 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
@Nora - "Robert, science has determined that it is alive, not that is has a life. There is a difference."
There absolutely is a difference and science supports my argument. This Princeton University posting sites over a dozen scientific publications as far back as the 70's; http://www.princeton.edu/~prolife/articles/embryoquotes2.html
Your assertion that a fetus is nothing more than a "fetus-shaped tumor" assumes that the fetus is indeed "part" of the mother much in the same way her finger, skin, and hair are. Science is once again not on your side in that respect because the fetus has an entirely different genetic make-up when compared to the mother and is viewed as a separate and distinct entity;
http://academic.wsc.edu/mathsci/hammer_m/separate.htm
http://www.epm.org/resources/2010/Mar/29/unborn-part-mothers-body/
The placenta is the barrier between the two entities; http://www.sciencedaily.com/articles/p/placenta.htm
If the assertion stands that a fetus is part of the pregnant mother's body and therefore the mother is the sole arbiter as to whether or not that fetus has a right to life, is that still the case a few seconds before the umbilical cord is cut? The human life is still "part of the mother" at that point is it not?
Nora
3:22 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
If I were to take a stand in the personhood debate, I would say that an early stage fetus has the potential to become a person, but it is not yet. Because a person is more than just something in possession of human DNA.
Hm, when using the life term, I was thinking about actually having a life as in being something conscious rather than just alive. But the actual term might mean something else.
Despite the fetus having different DNA than the mother, if it is in the very early stages and unwanted then I would still compare it to a fetus-shaped tumor or other foreign object for that matter, it is something unwelcome in the womans body.
While I understand your argumentation that if it were a part of the mother she could just cut it off 2 days before birth blabla, this is exactly the same thing that has been discussed earlier only in a different wrapping and I have told you my views on this. My line in the sand is at 12 weeks, anything before that should be the mothers decision.
wheres murrow?
2:40 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
I assume the pro-life platform is opposed to the death penalty.
MILITANT ANTI-THEIST
2:44 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
yeah right, pro-life & the death penalty both are stances that the republican party endorse. it is quite confusing...
Robert Way
4:26 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Where's Murrow, while the purpose of this conversation is not necessarily focused on the death-penalty I will say that the Pro-Life position is a right to life from conception until natural death. Please don't confuse the Pro-Life Platform with either politicians or people in general that may be Pro-Life when it comes to the unborn but advocates for the death-penalty otherwise. The Platform itself has not changed, the right to life, from conception to natural death.
The Pro-Life position cannot have people that pick and choose what part of the platform they choose to accept held against it.
The death penalty is one that I myself continue to struggle with. There is the notion that if an individual knowingly and willing takes the life of another they forfeit the right to their own. This notion goes completely against the Pro-Life Platform itself but is held but many.
I didn't want to avoid your question but I also want to make sure we stay on topic so I hope that answers your question.
stuffin
3:02 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
"If being Pro Life were a religious belief it would solely be argued on Biblical grounds by quoting scripture, the problem with that method is the Bible is silent on abortion, it does not come right out and say "thou shalt not abort". So if the Pro-Life Platform is not a religious one, why is it mostly defended and espoused by people of faith?"
That is your problem, trying to explain things using the bible. Because it doesn't say thou shall not abort, makes it non-religious??? Are you crazy? The conception is when the mass of cells takes on a soul. This abortion issue is based on pure religious superstition.
And the reason the bible is silent on abortion is because the Bronze Age goat herders who wrote the bible did not possess the knowledge/science at the time to include it the bible. DUH!
Robert Way
6:35 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Stuffin, my intention is not to say that because those words are not in the bible verbatim that it is silent on abortion, just that it is silent on the issue, regardless of what the "goat herders" of the time would call it.
And who said "conception is when the mass of cells takes on a soul". A "soul" has not even been mentioned by myself or anyone else in this conversation and at not time do I or the Pro-Life position pretend to defend the Platform based on any kind of "soul".
Mary anne
11:57 am on Saturday, September 22, 2012
The death penalty is one that I myself continue to struggle with. There is the notion that if an individual knowingly and willing takes the life of another they forfeit the right to their own.
SO I'm I correct in thinking that Robert Way whould put to death a women who chose to terminate a fetus @ 3wks?
Lisa
3:04 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Hi, Robert -- to reply to your reply to me, I was simply voicing my own feeling, not a reflection of your outstanding article. Personally, I think you did a masterful job with this. I hope you continue to write more.
Robert Way
4:32 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Lisa, thank you again for your contribution and now your follow-up. At no time did I gather from your comments that you were reflecting negatively on the article.
AStar Gazer
3:10 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Tagg Romney has twin boys through surrogate. Who would know?
Seems Mitt, the flip/flopper, thinks it is okay to destroy embryos, which the surrogate process always does. So, don't even think that Mitt is pro life.
uniony
12:52 pm on Wednesday, September 5, 2012
Shhh, do as I say, not as I do.
Everyone who is Pro-Life should be 100% against IVF as by definition embryos are killed.
And also pro-Octomom.
Aly
3:19 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
I feel like I need to add my comments here, as I am a LIVING result of an unwanted/unplanned pregnancy. I was adopted by parents who tried for 10-years to concieve, and waited two years to go through the adoption process. My biological mother was young and already caring for a child and knew that I would have a better life with other parents. I never knew my biological mother, and within the past few years due to the Internet, we began exchanging emails. She said that she had contemplated aborting her pregnancy, but knew that someone out there wanted a child, so she choose adoption. My younger sister is also adopted, and all we know about her biological parents is that they were teenagers. This is why I am pro-life, and I am disgusted by people who think abortion is an acceptable form of birth control. It's 2012, condoms and the pill (which is now FREE!) are readily available at the pharmacy, and with the exception of rape, incest, and risk of death to the mother, abortion is killing a life and should be illegal. It's not a political issue, and as a WOMAN I would even argue, it is not a woman's right issue, I would not be here if abortion was chosen in my situation, it is a LIFE OR DEATH issue. That is just my very personal opinion.
My 2 cents
3:56 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Aly, I'm glad you had a good outcome. I do NOT mean that in any snarky way.
I believe in a woman's right to choose an abortion. You seem to also when it involves rape, incest or health of the mother.
While I do not agree with that restrictive a view, I still respect your view.
My issue is when we have the author of this piece, the republican vice-president candidate, and many others who are on the extreme right, and yes many motivated by their religious views, you say "no abortions, no exceptions for rape or incest".
Vice president candidate Ryan was quoted just last week that the "method of conception does not change the meaning of life". I can provide the video link if anyone doubts my exact quote of him.
I'm sorry, when someone believes that and wants to legislate that a rape or incest can be considered just "another method of conception", I will fight to the end to defeat that legislation. The first step is to NOT cast my vote for a ticket who so arrogantly is happy to push that agenda.
speak
4:00 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
That is such an excellent and touching response. Someone mentioned earlier that there must not be any women commenting on here because of the pro-life responses. I am also a woman and I am pro-life. I had my daughter at 21 and contemplated abortion once because I wasn't sure I could handle the responsibility. However, she has been the best thing to happen to my life. We are a happy, successful family (I went on to graduate college and complete a master's degree!). My point here is, what right do I have to say that my daughter's life should have been ended? Like Aly stated, it is a life or death issue.
Aly
4:43 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
My 2 cents- thank you. I do happen to agree with Ryan's statement about the method of conception doesn't change the meaning of life, it doesn't, but what the method of conception does change, it the life of the mother. I cannot imagine how terrifying it is to be a rape victim, and if in that situation, I could say, get yourself to a hospital within 48 hours and get the morning after pill, then you don't have a reason in that scenerio to consider abortion. But I understand that rape is often not reported right away, and like I said, must be terrifying for a woman, and emotionally she shouldn't have to be forced to have that child. Also- if you listen to the rest of Ryan's statement, he does say that the Romney-Ryan view on abortion does allow for abortion in situations of rape or incest, which is an improvement in the abortion laws we have now.
amanda- I don't know how old your daughter is, but I do hope when she is old enough, you share that story with her. It really put things in perspective for me, and made me think twice about choices I was making. I feel lucky and blessed every day that I have my life, because I could not have easily not have been here.
marylou
4:57 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Aly,I undertand why you feel the way you do.I'm guessing that you were not born addicted to drugs,HIV positive or disabled in any way.You are probably also white.That's the type of child most adoptive parents want.If abortions becomes illegal,many of the children these women are forced to carry to term may not be perfect and will in orphages unitl the are 18 and in some other type of facility after that.I adopted waht many consider a less than perfect child.He is multi-racial.
marylou
4:59 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Aly,also,you mentioned in your later comment that a rape victim should take the morning after pill to prevent pregnancy.You do realize that most of the pro-life crowd,including Robert Way,oppose the use of that also.
Robert Way
5:33 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
marylou, while I know you and I will willingly agree to disagree on the issue at hand. I want to set it aside for a moment to commend you for being an adopting parent. Please know I do so with the utmost sincerity and respect. Folks that adopt a child into their own care do not always receive the credit they deserve.
Robert Way
5:34 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
"Aly,also,you mentioned in your later comment that a rape victim should take the morning after pill to prevent pregnancy.You do realize that most of the pro-life crowd,including Robert Way,oppose the use of that also."
And I explained why above......
uniony
12:56 pm on Wednesday, September 5, 2012
You are only here because your mother was strong enough to make that choice. But a lot of people are not, and are forced to choose abortion because they cannot make that choice.
The saddest aspect of the anti-abortion/pro-choice movements is that what we all SHOULD be focusing on is prosecuting people who kill their born children. The case in Basking Ridge, where a mother killed her 9-year old son because he was diagnosed with epilepsy, resulted in a not guilty verdict because she was "severely depressed". She was in the psych ward for a few years and is now out, because she is "CURED".
Face it, if the government does not punish people who can afford lawyers after killing their kids, how could abortion ever be illegal again?
Mary anne
12:06 pm on Saturday, September 22, 2012
Aly,
I am very happy you had a great outcome. But...I have to ask if you think it would have been the same, if you were born a crack addict or born with your spinal cord on the outside of your body. THIS is why I am Pro-choice...I do not think I could ever have an abortion....But I am not about to live knowing I FORCED someone to do something I might not be able to do. Do you ever think that someone might be thinking of the suffering of the unborn
Spooner
3:38 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Mr Way: with all your end run word niceties. . .let me know when you write an argument against abortion being an indictable offense? That was the issue in Roe v. Wade around 1971 in Dallas County, Texas? The Court ruled against the County, arguing that the Constitution, based on the 1st, 4th, 5th, 9th, and 14th amendments gave woman the right to chose. . .not the state. . . who had subjected them to trial & punishment.
Otter09
3:45 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
While I find many points of both sides of the argument valid, the amount of attention it receives by those that will never have to make this choice not only puzzles me but also frightens me. If we are to be moral, and to do the right thing, than it is up to the individual to be able to decide what (her in this situation) morals tell her is the correct action to take. Men do not bear the burden of child birth, they do not and cannot understand to the joy and or pain a woman endures when she chooses to have a child or abort one. How someone with no chance of ever being in that situation themselves can decide what is right or wrong leaves me dumbfounded with exception to the long history of mans need to control women. Is this the United States' burka?
Robert Way
8:34 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Otter09, you establish yourself on a very slippery slope of relativism with your argument. If I am to agree with your argument than I too can possess my own definition of morality whereby it is moral "to me" to terminate my toddler in the supermarket if they continually misbehave. Rather far reaching is it not, but it is where the slippery slope of moral relativism can eventually lead.
The issue at hand here is why is it an immoral act to terminate the misbehaving child but not immoral to terminate the unborn child. It can only be justified if the unborn is indeed not a human life possessing the same intrinsic value as the toddler and I have yet to read a single argument in this entire conversation that can draw that line in the sand.
Otter09
3:47 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
John, yes it was, Mary54 and I both told you several times the exact date and time is when the woman and the doctor decide it is not the best option for her to take. Every situation is different and there will never be one number to satisfy your quesion.
Robert Way
4:00 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Let me ask this simple question, what if the mother and doctor were to decide five minutes after the baby were actually born? Obviously the answer to that question is "that is not an option". So what is it exactly that happens in the twelve inch path the unborn goes through to become born to not allow that same decision to be mage five minutes or even five seconds after birth?
Nora
5:28 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Robert if the mother decides after birth that she does not wish to keep her child that would result in adoption. What happens during pregnancy is gradual development, and at some point if it comes out it is labor.
Robert Way
8:27 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Nora, my main point is to try and focus on what the distinction is between the born and the unborn using a hypothetical example of "termination" occurring immediately after birth with is actually a view held by Professor Peter Singer from Princeton University as I mention in my article.
I of course acknowledge that adoption is the obvious next step in such a situation.
Nora
9:44 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Robert, I see. I guess born/unborn is not a very good set of words when debating termination, unborn could mean anything from 1 day after conception to 9 months. Most pro-choice people would notsay that all unborn can be terminated, it would be more a distinction between developmental stages in the unborn that would be relevant. Until what point people think termination is ok vary widely, when the heart starts to beat, when it has limbs, when it is able to live outside the mother etc. Extremely few people would agree that termination right up until birth is ok, so I thought it was a strange hypothetical question even if Peter Singer from Princeton holds the view that there is no difference between a lump of 12 cells and a 9 month old baby.
John Jay
4:00 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Comparing the United States to a Muslim theocracy is laughable at best.
You cannot disqualify men from having a legal say in the matter because they don't give birth is absurd. In case you didn't notice, conception requires male and females. Using your logic, females should have no say on anything concerning a male's body.
Absurd.
Jennifer
9:57 am on Thursday, September 6, 2012
I'm curious. Can you give me an example of what that would be? Like, mandatory circumcision, or the banning of same? I mean, something that has actually been proposed, that affects the bodies of men and not women?
wheres murrow?
4:20 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Still wondering if the pro-life platform includes abolishing the death penalty
Martin
4:32 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
No -- Repubs want death penalty, unlimited-ammo clips for guns, kill-Medicare budget and more tax breaks for the rich. America laughed in 2008 when they ran Sarah Palin, and we're laughing again. They just don't get it.
Robert Way
4:39 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
I answered you on that one above....
John Jay
4:35 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
wheres murrow? -- Killing an innocent child is much different than sentencing a mass murderer to the electic chair, don't you think? What a silly question.
August West
1:11 pm on Wednesday, September 19, 2012
What about all of those sentanced to death, only to find out they were innocent thanks to advances in DNA evidence testing? Oops! It isn't just mass murderers who the death penalty kills. Where is the outrage from the pro-choice or the Right? Still a silly question?
John Jay
4:36 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Martin -- Why are you screaming about the Dept. of Homeland Security ordering 1.4 billion rounds of .40 hollowpoint handgun ammo to be used by their agents against American citizens?
The guns the agent carry are high-capacity semi-autos.
George
7:18 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
So you want Joe the Plumber to be able to buy 1,000 clips of 96 bullets each?
Dologirl
4:37 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
And just what would men say if women decided that vasectomies, a form of birth control, were illegal? My take is this, if you don't want abortions, use contraceptives and don't make a baby. But since the Catholic Church won't sanction any type of contraception, abortions will just go on and on. Abortion is not pretty, and I would not ever have wanted to abort a child, but no one should be able to tell me what to do with my body.
Monk
5:38 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
The Catholic Church recommends a method called "natural family planning". It is 99% effective and 100% natural. Only committed Catholics need be concerned about this. The rest can hash it out with God later, if there is a god. Committed Catholics find that practicing their faith enriches every aspect of their lives, even the conjugal act. In fact, since NFP is symptom-based, it is effective when used in reverse. That is, it can help a couple who want to conceive a child, but have difficulty.
As for abortion, it is basically the killing of an unwanted child. If you can accept the moral responsibility for it, that's your prerogative. But I don't know why we outlaw other lesser crimes, if abortion is legal.
John Jay
6:09 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Great Dologirl! So you OPPOSE OBAMACARE, right? Because you are going to be FORCED to take vaccines mandated by the government; submit your medical data to faceless/nameless government "agents"; by forced by the ARMED IRS agents to pay for health insurance you don't want...
Shall I go on?
marylou
6:49 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Monk,you do know what they call people who use "natural family planning",don't you? The answer is parents! This method my be effective for women who have regular mesntural cycles,but many women do not.And then there are those who are told by doctors that they cannot have children and don't become pregnant until they are well over 40and run the danger if endangering their own health by carrying a fetus.
Robert Way
8:46 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Dologirl, your vasectomy argument would be more valid in a strict contraceptive discussion and whether or not mandating contraception is right or wrong. Contraception prevents pregnancy, it does not terminate one no matter how someone opposed to that statement wants to twist the semantics of what contraception is.
As for you charge that "no one should be able to tell me what to do with my body", that is commonly known as the Bodily Autonomy Claim. This particular argument is is one that takes much greater length to deconstruct than the space on this blog will allow so I would like to refer you to a position statement that addresses Bodily Autonomy found at the following links. I ask only that you take the time to read the resources as I would be more than happy to read andy resources you feel support your argument. I will readily admit that these links are to Pro-Life sites but ask that you do not immediately discount them based on that rather do so if you will by refuting their substance.
http://tinyurl.com/8sgrjcb and http://tinyurl.com/6spkhjj
Jennifer
9:59 am on Thursday, September 6, 2012
Because abortion is NOT a crime, at least not so far, Mr. monk.
MILITANT ANTI-THEIST
4:56 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
dologirl is on point.
stuffin
5:40 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
So if a woman is raped and becomes pregnant, wouldn't that be like the devil planting his seed in her? Obviously the rapist is filled with evil and when he impregnates a woman against her wishes, surely he is doing as the devil commanded him. So through rape the devil spreads evil.
If you were the woman who was impregnated by a rapist, how would you feel with the devil’s seed growing inside you?
Robert Way
6:21 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Really? I am assuming this is because I am a religious zealot and just have neglected to lay out the role the devil plays in this whole thing. But I am not surprised, after all, I was exposed for believing Adam and Even rode on dinosaurs 600 years ago further up the comments section.
Nora
5:46 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
In my opinion, what this all comes down to in the end is: Who's rights are more important,those of the woman, or those of the unborn? They can't both be equally important because this is a life changing event, and taking away the option to have an abortion is the same as forcing the woman to have a child or an illegal abortion.
Do we really want to go back to the days where women bled to death in back alley "abortion clinics"? To the days where desperate teenage girls and women tried aborting their babies with sharp objects or dangerous medication? This is something you all pro-lifers should think about before trying to outlaw abortion, because thinking that these things wouldn't happen is too naive.
mary54
5:57 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
By forcing women to carry all pregnancies to term, self-righteous believers, and conservatives who support them, maintain control over the lives of women. This is the approach, keep them barefoot and pregnant so they can't develop an independent life of their own. Like the catholic church only allows male priests, and Saudis won't let women drive cars. The conservatives know how to control their women, but us liberals would rather see women develop their full potentials and lead lives of their own choosing.
marylou
6:12 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Yes,Robert you did,and,Aly,who says she is pro-life disagrees with you.Your beliefs and your reason for them give you no right to force them on others my trying to outlaw things you think are wrong.
My personal feeling,if you care are these.If a women doesn't want to become pregnant and are sexually active,use effective birth control.If a woman or young girl is raped in any fashion,or if she has unplanned,unprotected sex,she should take the morning after pill.I do believe in abortion if the mother's health is endangered by continuing the pregnancy or if the fetus is unhealthy.But,this is my opinion only,the way I would like to see thing,not something that I would want to be enforced by laws..
Robert Way
8:21 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
mary45, based on your line of thinking am I supposed to gather that you believe that the wife of every conservative, pro-life male is a controlled and mindless individual perfectly willing to accept her role as not having any independent thought or influence over issues related to her husband, herself, or her children? Kinda sounds like what you're saying unless of course I am mistaken.
mary54
9:20 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
To Robert Way: No, of course I'm not saying anything as extreme as that. What I am saying though, is that the conservative approach includes controlling their women, and anyone else who might come under their control. I used the examples of Saudis not letting women drive and no female priests in the catholic church and could add that our country did not let women vote for some time, and we had slaves that could not vote and were not entirely free (if then) until the 1960s. Not allowing women to have abortions acts to keep them in a state of pregnancy and caring for children so they will have difficulty operating on the same level as men. Also, the idea that women should always be willing to submit to their husbands is part of it. It's all a matter of control and it’s part of the conservative philosophy. The conservative attacks on science (e.g., questioning evolution and denying man made global warming) also seem to be along this line. That is, keep people uneducated in science so they don’t have the critical thinking skills to question your often debatable statements.
Robert Way
9:38 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
mary54, please believe me when I say I absolutely mean no disrespect in what I am about to say but this comment is a complete train wreck of rhetoric.
There is no conservative philosophy that condones controlling their women, site the source.
The Pro-Life position does not seek to achieve the goal of preventing a woman from achieving the same level as a man, again, site the source. It is to prevent the killing of an unborn human life.
Your notion of "submit to their husbands" requires much more context than what "liberated women" are willing to allow for as it wouldn't serve as the sound bite it so often is. It does not mean a wife must do what her husband says, take the time to understand that phrase in its proper context.
And your accusation that conservatives reject science flies in the face of the fact that I initially base my arguments above on science. And regarding evolution and global warming, or is it global climate change this week, or wait it was the coming ice age a few decades ago, are not science, they are consensus, and consensus is not science. There is just as much "science" on the other side of both those debates. You have absolutely no ground to stand on to defend your claim that conservatives want to keep people uneducated so they can't debate the issues.
John Jay
6:14 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Here's a novel concept: Don't engage in sexual practices that put a woman or man at risk.
John Jay
6:20 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
...and frankly, women should press for laws that give them the right to carry firearms legally.
It's hard for a rapist to commit any act when he's got a .357 slug between his eyes.
I'm serious about women suing for the right to carry -- they ARE deserving of equal protection under the law. The Supreme Court has ruled the police are not responsible for your safety since they can't be everywhere at once.
So ladies -- if the subject of rape is on your mind, I suggest you arm yourselves. I would rather be judged by 12 than carried by 6.
marylou
6:51 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
john,if i had a gun and a man tried to rape me,I wouldn't put the slug between his eyes.
uniony
12:58 pm on Wednesday, September 5, 2012
What you say is confusing. Any woman has the right to carry, unless she is unconscious and cannot make the decision for herself, and her life is at stake.
There was a recent case in Central America where a pregnant teenager would not be given chemotherapy for leukemia because of her pregnancy, and would not be given an abortion because Catholics run the country. Guess what? She died and of course the fetus died too. Good job, anti-abortion nuts.
Dologirl
6:34 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Obamacare is good for me. I can cover my over 23-yr. old kids till they're 26, and don't have to worry about my son's pre-existing condition. Stop listening to the Obamacare detractors; nothing wrong with not having to worry about healthcare. Your screed against Obamacare is valueless; must be listening to Rush, Glenn and Hannity.
John Jay
6:42 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Dologirl -- So it's OK to have armed federal agents being dispatched to your neighbor's house who doesn't want to buy something they don't want from the government.
Michelle Krystofik
6:45 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
This conversation has been very interesting to read and probably represents what the split our entire country feels. However, I'd like to speak as one who has dealt with healing for both men and women who have suffered through an abortion and its aftermath. If any of you knew the devastation abortion causes, you wouldn't be arguing for adding that trauma to the trauma of rape. In abortion, a child dies, but something inside a woman dies as well, and surprisingly the men involved are affected adversely as well. While abortion may solve an immediate problem, the pain, guilt, shame and loss continue for a lifetime. Abortion has many victims and I have seen them - men, women, the parents, grandparents, siblings, friends who helped...the list goes on. I deal with helping these victims of abortion find hope, healing and reconciliation. Just wanted to interject that there is more than a child's life to consider. A woman, who has an abortion, regardless of the reason, is never the same again. MRK
Nora
7:00 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Michelle Krystofik. Good post I thought, but keep in mind that while this can change a person it does not always lead to bad things. Some feel pain, guilt, shame etc, where as others feel relief, closure etc. Making the right choice for yourself isn't always easy, and humans sometimes tend to think of the what-ifs of our lives. And of course, sometimes people feel that they actually did not make the right choice. But still, it should be theirs to make
Laura
11:27 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Michelle,
You were probably dealing with broken individuals to begin with.
Commenting
9:57 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Bull.
uniony
1:00 pm on Wednesday, September 5, 2012
That's not necessarily true, some people have much more shame giving birth to a child out of wedlock.
Jennifer
10:03 am on Thursday, September 6, 2012
Not always, Michelle.
Jennifer
10:04 am on Thursday, September 6, 2012
Not always, not even most of the time. Sometimes, yes. Sometimes people regret things they do. But we still allow adults to make their own decisions.
Dologirl
7:20 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Sorry to disappoint you, but I pay for my children's health care with every single paycheck through my health insurance plan. And as for armed federal agents, that is the most ridiculous nonsense I've ever heard. I can only think this is the radical right wingers talking and distorting the truth.
John Jay
7:36 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Dologirl: You're so ignorant, it's laughable. Did you read the Obamacare bill that was signed into law? It's over 2,000 thousand pages -- and it's pretty darned boring!
As for armed IRS agents -- do you deny there are HUNDREDS of armed IRS agents? Yes or no?
Pat
8:59 pm on Monday, September 3, 2012
I agree, armed federal agents at your neighbor's door is a tad extreme. The IRS will just attach a lien on your neighbor's house, evict them and sell the home out from under them.
George
7:23 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
...instead of carrying an unwanted child for 9 months after a rape or incest, and then raising him/her and paying the bills for 18-25 more years, as the Republicans and the Church would mandate in all such cases.
John Jay
7:31 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Ok George -- How many children are concieved due to rape and incest? Can you give me some statistics, please? Valid sources only (Ex. HIH, CDC; etc.)
AStar Gazer
7:56 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Don't be silly, the Church, Republicans, and all rational and caring people never burden or mandate is such cases that the birth mother raise the child. Their approach has always bee to give the child up for adoption, which maintains the sacredness of life. Choose life is what the Creator mandates, all other solutions are an embrace of evil.
marylou
9:16 am on Saturday, September 1, 2012
AStargazer,As I mentioned before in my reply to Aly,not all children put up for adoption are adopted.Many adoptive parents want a child they can pass of as their biological child.They also want a healthy child.which may sound selfish,but not everyone can afford to quit a job to care for a handicapped child or one with medical needs.And their health insurance may not cover the costs,either.
I must also add the any single,pregnant woman runs the risk of losing her job,and with it,her health insurance."faith based"organizations have been known to fire single women who become pregnant because of "immoral behavior."If she has an abortion,no one knows she was pregnant,except her and her doctor.
Michelle Krystofik
7:26 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Nora - You are right that some people feel relief, closure etc. In fact the first feeling usually is relief. Unfortunately years after the abortion triggers can cause feelings of guilt, shame, pain, remorse . We deal with people from months after an abortion but some men and women come for help 35 and 40 years after. Sometimes, a trigger event, like the birth of their first child, or the sound of a vacuum cleaner, the anniversary of the abortion can cause severe trauma to return. Many women who have had an abortion suffer from what's called Post Abortion Trauma, not unlike what our soldiers feel when they come home from war - Post Traumatic Stress - abortion is a traumatic event. Unfortunately, I don't think enough is told to women BEFORE they make their "choice". In fact I hear all the time from post abortive women that they had no "choice". Perhaps if more accurate information is given before women make their choice, or if assurances that their is help for the mother, they would be more inclined to choose life for themselves and their child. It is a hard subject to talk about but I just wanted everyone to know that there is help and hope if they are hurting from a poor or uninformed choice.
Dologirl
7:47 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
John Jay, is it really necessary to belittle those whom you oppose with words like "ignorant"? This tells me you are not be reasoned with. We can agree to disagree, but hurtful, nasty words are totally unnecessary.
John Jay
9:13 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Dologirl: Here are your words: "...radical right wingers talking and distorting the truth."
For your information, Dologirl: The Internal Revenue Service (IRS) has a special unit called the Criminal Investigation Division (IRS-CI).
* There are ~2,800 special agents assigned to IRS-CI;
* The designation of "special agent" falls under the GS-1801,1810,1811 or FS-2501 classification;
* Under federal law, the have the power to arrest and carry side-arms conduct investigations into the violation of federal tax laws;
* The standard issed side-arm is the .40-cal. Glock 23; they are also issued SIG Arms 9mm
-- So -- I guess it's Sean Hannity or Rush Limbaugh that posted the information at the the IRS' web site huh? (Ref: http://www.irs.gov/irm/part9/irm_09-011-003.html#d0e816 ).
Beihng skeptical is fine -- but when you don't know what you're talking about, you should choose your words wisely -- especially when there are subject matter experts out there.
"Dologirl 7:20 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012 Sorry to disappoint you, but I pay for my children's health care with every single paycheck through my health insurance plan. And as for armed federal agents, that is the most ridiculous nonsense I've ever heard. I can only think this is the radical right wingers talking and distorting the truth."
faith
8:17 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
our editor has asked ALL of us not to ATTACK one another.
Robert Way
8:22 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
I would absolutely second that request as it distracts from the issue at hand.
John Jay
9:30 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
I'm doing just fine. It amazes me that I am attacked when I point out that Obamacare enforcement will be made by the IRS -- and that means ARMED AGENTS from the IRS's Criminal Investigation Division.
This is great -- buy Obama's corrupt government-run health scam insurance or they'll send in the SS Kriminalpolizei!
Fred M
8:33 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
People seem to believe in God but don't believe God gets upset when something he created gets destroyed...Maybe the Person that was going to find a cure for cancer was aborted before he got the chance. .
John Jay
9:49 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Fred M -- good point. Until recently, I had no idea that some 50 MILLION babies have been aborted over the past few decades. That's the population of some nations!
uniony
1:01 pm on Wednesday, September 5, 2012
And maybe that single mother who can't finish college because of her child can't find a cure for cancer. Do you even understand what is being weighed here? Do you understand how much of a burden raising a child can be, even if you are ready for it?
Fred M
8:39 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Bible talks about the greatest gift to give is when a person gives his own life so others can live...Message I believe is Pro Life related..
uniony
1:07 pm on Wednesday, September 5, 2012
Actually, you could interpret that as pro-woman, that the fetus gives its life so that SHE can live.
Wall Resident
8:57 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Religious ideology is no foundation for any law. Freedom of religion is guaranteed to any citizen in the United States; so why would the beliefs and values of one religion mandate actual laws for all citizens?
Robert Way
9:15 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
It seems you are missing the entire point of my article in that the Pro-Life position is NOT a religious belief. The belief that murdering an innocent toddler is held by people of faith, that does not make it a religious belief. The religious aspect of the conversation is solely to point out that people of faith usually have more of a tendency and are compelled more to be vocal about their Pro-life position. There are plenty of non-religious people that hold the same Pro-Life positions.
Jennifer
10:07 am on Thursday, September 6, 2012
Toddle means to walk unsteadily. Toddler means a child of walking age. If you don't have legs, you can't walk.
Donna Griffin
9:45 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Amen, Mr. Way. The argument is clearly made that life begins at conception, and you articulate the logic in that statement beautifully. Growth/development ensues thereafter. It is uncomfortable, at best, for pro-abortionists to identify conception as the point wherein life begins, because the ensuing act would then be a heinous assault on that newly formed life. Instead, the pro-abortionists assign an arbitrary "deadline" for which a pregnancy can be terminated.....8 weeks, 12 weeks... What is it that changes so radically from the first trimester of development to the 91st day of development? Our President is at least consistent in his logic when he supports the ability of a physician to end the life of a child "born" during an unsuccessful abortion. Clearly, he has determined that life inside or outside the womb does not possess any inherent value and is disposable.
Robert Way
8:09 am on Saturday, September 1, 2012
Donna, thank you for your comments not only in regard to my statements but also in your further support of the Pro-Life position.
Dologirl
9:45 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
John Jay...you answered my comment by attacking again. The word you used was very personal. Rush and Hannity may not have posted that stuff about IRS agents, but they certainly promote that sort of nonsense. And as for telling me I don't know what I'm talking about, do you see yourself as the sole expert on every subject mentioned in this blog?
John Jay
10:18 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Dologirl -- I never claimed I was an expert on abortion or theology.
* I asked all of the pro-abortion people at what time is it NOT acceptable to perform an abortion on an unborn child, and I all received were smart a$$ comments.
* Someone stated there is no religion involved in our laws -- and I point out that overwhelming majority of the Founding Fathers were men of faith and that first act of Congress was a prayer to God -- and I was villified for it.
* I pointed out that the IRS is charged, by federal law to be the enforcement arm of Obamacare -- and that people who don't pay the tax WILL be investigated by armed federal agent of the CI division of the IRS -- and YOU challenged me on that.
--like I said, I am not theological man or even a doctor -- but I know my history and I know the law when it comes to federal agencies that have special agents with arrest authority.
John Jay
9:47 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
NEWS FLASH, Wall Resident -- Moses and the 10 Commandments are ALL OVER thee United States Supreme Court building! Are you going to throw a cloak over them?
"Wall Resident 8:57 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012 Religious ideology is no foundation for any law."
John Jay
10:02 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
* It really is amazing -- point out to people that Margaret Sanger was a Socialist and eugnetics proponet, and you're called a liar or that you hate women. (The books and papers documenting there are EVERYWHERE!)
* Point out Obamacare is going to force people to buy it, or armed IRS agents will come after you, and your called "extreme right wing". (I already posted the IRS' web site info).
* Tell people they will be FORCED to take vaccines (they don't need or want) -- but they will be forced to take them in order to comply with Obamacare regulations. Talk about this and you're called a nut. (See: "Demonstration Program to Improve Immunization Coverage" anywhere on Google.)
Like I said -- good luck Obamacare lovers! If you think aborition is bad, wait until you have to get your healthcare rationed!
Michelle Wolfson
10:27 pm on Friday, August 31, 2012
Ordinarily, I would not touch an abortion debate with a ten foot pole-- and really my comment has nothing to do with abortion per se-- or the original post of the author-- but rather states my opinion on one of the issues that has been raised in the subsequent comments section of the article.
How can we create laws based on SOME people's religious ideologies and expect ALL citizens to obey them? Why would a Hindu or Buddhist or a Muslim who are citizens of this country wish to abide by laws that are based on the principles of Catholocism, Christianity or any other religion of which thy do not subscribe? Or vice versa. What if we start basing our laws here in the US on the fundamental beliefs of the Buddhist religion? I suppose everyone would wish to abide by those?
Unless everyone is abiding by and practicing the same religious tenets, how can they abide by the same laws created based on them?
THAT is why I feel that laws need not be based around religious ideologies.
Robert Way
7:55 am on Saturday, September 1, 2012
Michelle, thanks for getting involved. I want to reiterate once again what the main point of the article I posted is. The Pro-Life position is NOT a religious belief. I don't know how many times I have to explain that. It is based on and I have expressed in the article that it is rooted in both science (human life begins at conception) and philosophy (human personhood exists from conception as a result of human life having intrinsic value). There are an untold number of people in this country that are NOT people of faith but still support the Pro-Life position.
The only religious aspect to the debate that I have acknowledged is that people of faith tend to more willingly and openly defend the Pro-Life position. People of faith believe it is immoral and unlawful to kill an innocent toddler, does that make it a religious belief they are imposing on people that don't share their faith or have no faith at all.
The "it's a religious belief" argument so readily falls on its face because that argument can easily be attached to the Pro-Life position because it avoids the root issue of answering the question "what is the unborn".
Jennifer
10:09 am on Thursday, September 6, 2012
Robert, you don't see it as being a religious argument, but it kind of is.
stuffin
12:00 am on Saturday, September 1, 2012
Would like to thank Robert Way for taking the time to respond to our comments. I will try to further evaluate his position and make comments.
Robert Way
7:57 am on Saturday, September 1, 2012
Stuffin, thank you for recognizing the time and thought I have tried to inject into this conversation. Your willingness to further evaluate the issue is all I ask of anyone.
Thanks you.
Spooner
12:10 am on Saturday, September 1, 2012
Mr Way- yous continue to ignore the historical record as outlined in the Roe v. Wade regarding abortion. Your attempting to be originalists when it comes to this issue, as if you have no knowledge, that goes back literally thousands of years on this subject? What irks me: is that people here who profess freedom, liberty, and individualism, are by and large the same people who want to legislate morality, and shackle other peoples liberties. . .using every cunning and deceptive little act at first...that they might get away with, like you with this moral sentimentalism looking to surreptitiously garner support to make abortion illegal? You want to make abortion illegal. . .fine. . .as long as their's no trial or punishment. Let me know how we can work that out.
Robert Way
8:06 am on Saturday, September 1, 2012
Spooner, am I to believe that there is no law that is based in morality? If not based in morality, what is it based on? The only alternative to law based on morality is law based on relative morality, i.e. the slippery slope of what is right and wrong to one group may be different than what is right or wrong for another group.
As for trial and punishment, I'll be the first to admit that I would not support the incarceration of a woman who has an abortion, on the other hand, the doctor that performs the procedure and it ultimately the one that takes the life, that I would be more willing to get behind.
You also stretch the context of freedom and liberty, while we absolutely enjoy those notions in this country we cannot not due so at the expense of another individuals' right to life. So once again we circle back to the root issue. What is the unborn and does the unborn possess the same right to life as those of us who are born?
stuffin
12:36 am on Saturday, September 1, 2012
All of this has exactly one purpose- ‘personhood’. Todd Akin, Chris Smith, Paul Ryan, Mitt Romney and the Republican Party all support a constitutional amendment on personhood. A personhood amendment says “we assert the sanctity of human life and affirm that the unborn child has a fundamental individual right to life which cannot be infringed”. It says that ‘life’ begins, and is sacred and protected, at conception. It requires the logical destruction of abortion. It abides no exceptions. Rape is not an exception, incest is not an exception, a woman’s health is not an exception. Consequences be dammed. Only the imminent death of the woman can potentially stand astride this mighty and sacred right. Personhood rights also call into legal question many existing infertility, reproductive, and contraception practices
Robert Way
8:11 am on Saturday, September 1, 2012
Stuffin, you are absolutely correct in your assessment that the debate has in large shifted to the debate about personhood. The scientific community has for some time now acknowledge that a new human life begins at conception so the philosophical debate in regard to personhood rages on.
stuffin
12:38 am on Saturday, September 1, 2012
Of course all of that makes sense if you hold that religious position and are willing to legally impose it on women that do not hold it. So, in the end, it is not about junk science it is about religious and personal freedom. Republicans Chris Smith and Todd Aikin believe that women have the legal right to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness- unless they are pregnant. Based on these Republican religious beliefs, at conception women forfeit their legal rights to someone else. The real point of Aikin’s discussion was that women have ceretain rights and the Republicans want to take them away
War on!
Robert Way
8:14 am on Saturday, September 1, 2012
Stuffin, unfortunately for you and others in this thread. It doesn't matter how many times you say the Pro-Life position is a religious belief, it is just NOT TRUE. It is held by scores of non-faith-based individuals and if we are to believe that just because people of faith openly defend a position that it is then inherently religious then the fact that I cannot walk next door to my neighbors house and kill them because their dog peed on my grass must be a religious belief as well, after all, I am a person of faith and I believe that is morally wrong.
stuffin
12:50 am on Saturday, September 1, 2012
"All of this has exactly one purpose- ‘personhood’. Todd Akin, Chris Smith, Paul Ryan, Mitt Romney and the Republican Party all support a constitutional amendment on personhood. A personhood amendment says “we assert the sanctity of human life and affirm that the unborn child has a fundamental individual right to life which cannot be infringed”. It says that ‘life’ begins, and is sacred and protected, at conception. It requires the logical destruction of abortion. It abides no exceptions. Rape is not an exception, incest is not an exception, a woman’s health is not an exception. Consequences be dammed. Only the imminent death of the woman can potentially stand astride this mighty and sacred right. Personhood rights also call into legal question many existing infertility, reproductive, and contraception practices"
You are saying the abortion issue is not a religious issue, correct?
Then why is abortion against religious belief? If there is no soul in the fetus, disposing of it should not offend god.
Don't like the format for posting here, unable to review and highlite, quote and other things..
Spooner
2:22 am on Saturday, September 1, 2012
stuffin- that has been a recurring argument(i.e. soul in the fetus) The Greeks used the term:"animated" After Christianity, the term animated was identified has the soul. This creation period of being animated or acquiring a soul was considered to be from 40 to 80 days after conception based on sex.
Robert Way
8:21 am on Saturday, September 1, 2012
Stuffin, personally I would agree that the notion of a "soul" is a religious one. I don't profess to know, understand, or assume when a "soul" enters the body. The problem for you here is that the Pro-Life position is not part of the Pro-Life Platform. Just because some people may try to use it to argue in favor of the Pro-Life position to perhaps appeal to a certain audience, it is NOT a plank that is stood on.
Abortion is against religious belief because most religions believe it is morally wrong to willing kill a human life. Once again, there are scores of people that are not "of faith" that believe the same thing so when a group of atheists are running around defending the Pro-Life position, what do you say to them?
Siobhan
12:54 am on Saturday, September 1, 2012
I do not have the right to end a life which exists inside of me as much as I do not have the right to end any life which exists outside of me. Yet, as a pro-choice person for most of my life, I believed in my right to choose. It was only after I had three children, carried 3 babies, that I truly understood what being pro-choice meant. I am now pro-life. Who am I to take a life, I wonder? To say that life doesn't begin at conception doesn't make any sense to me- if it is not life that has begun, what is it?
stuffin
1:25 am on Saturday, September 1, 2012
Who am I to take a life?
Ever squash a fly?
Robert Way
8:24 am on Saturday, September 1, 2012
Your assertion assumes that human life is no more prescious than a fly I am guessing?
uniony
1:11 pm on Wednesday, September 5, 2012
Do you believe in "Stand Your Ground"? If yes, then you cannot say you are Pro-Life.
stuffin
1:27 am on Saturday, September 1, 2012
Deuteronomy 22:28 If a man happens to meet a virgin who is not pledged to be married and rapes her and they are discovered, 29 he shall pay the girl’s father fifty shekels of silver. He must marry the girl, for he has violated her. He can never divorce her as long as he lives.
stuffin
1:42 am on Saturday, September 1, 2012
If he isn't discovered, does he have to pay the fifty shekels? Also, does he have to marry her and never get a divorce?
Robert Way
8:25 am on Saturday, September 1, 2012
I don't follow you stuff in, I thought I was the one trying to argue this issue based on the Bible? Care to elaborate on why you copied and pasted what you did?
uniony
1:12 pm on Wednesday, September 5, 2012
In Israel, a woman cannot get divorced if her husband does not give her permission. Most custody cases are automatically settled in favor of full custody by the father.
sp resident
7:15 am on Saturday, September 1, 2012
Here we go again with a typical guy writing about women issues. Don't have a clue about being raped, or pregnant or having to make a desicion about your body? Please could someone who has any experience of the above mentioned write an article about pro -choice or pro -life!
Robert Way
8:26 am on Saturday, September 1, 2012
A classic ad hominem comment, attack the messenger instead of addressing the issue.
Summit Mom
9:44 pm on Saturday, September 1, 2012
sp, abortion is the irresponsible/nefarious man's best friend and savior. why would you attack a man who is trying to stand up for women and the sanctity of the life they carry and bear? News flash: Robert is one of the "good guys"! It is men who argue in favor of abortion who are truly selfish and misogynistic.
Donna Griffin
7:37 am on Sunday, September 2, 2012
Well said, Summit Mom. Lest we forget that 51% of aborted life is female life....no value, no substance, in no need of protection. Who exactly is it that is misogynistic, sp?
sp resident
7:25 am on Saturday, September 1, 2012
When are men going to be held accountable for their actions? It's always on the woman because she can get pregnant! Society looks down on the pregnant teenage girl, but the teenage father is totally ignored, why? because he doesn't have a pregnant stomach for everyone to see! A guy doesn't need to use contraceptive, that's a girl's problem. It always on the woman and what's between her legs!
Robert Way
8:29 am on Saturday, September 1, 2012
sp resident, can you please elaborate further on the point you are trying to make and how it relates to the issue at hand. I want to make sure I fully understand what you are trying to convey before I respond instead of misrepresenting your comments.
Mattie
10:00 am on Saturday, September 1, 2012
Robert, you know 'exactly' what sp resident is saying.... but just in case;
How about we implement some new "Mandatory Celibacy Laws"?
Yeah, that sounds good, doesn't it?
NO SEXUAL ACTIVITY - of any kind- for any Male person of any age, unless legally married under the eyes of the Law and/or (a) Religion! Bingo!
Let's put the Church, and the local Sheriff right into a man's pants, just like we want to put the Church and the government right into a woman's uterus!
Any act of sexual activity by any unmarried Male will be punishable by law.....
We can cut back on probably 75% of the abortions in America if men kept it in their pants, if you know what I mean. How's that sound??
But really, how about you, the church, the government and everyone else stay out of EVERY woman's business between herself and her medical caregiver? See? Isn't that much more practical?
michelle Krystofik
9:01 am on Saturday, September 1, 2012
stuffin and sp - Just like to interject that this issue isn't JUST about the innocent child in the womb - if you believe this child has no soul in the womb, what about the mother? In my experience working with women and men hurt by abortion , a common statement from them is that after their abortion they felt like their soul was ripped out with their child. Perhaps this discussion also needs to include the damage done to the women AND men who make this tragic choice - a choice that affects so many.
uniony
1:14 pm on Wednesday, September 5, 2012
That is the point - the abortion debate should be a serious one. A pregnant woman considering abortion should have counseling for and against abortion. I know MANY women who feel they have lost their souls to the children they have given birth to, and these women were married with supposed "full support" from the fathers of their children.
Of course someone can be "hurt" by abortion. Both sides hurt women by making believe that THEIR answer is the only answer.
marylou
9:24 am on Saturday, September 1, 2012
Robert,for the umpteenth time,you have the right to your beliefs,religous or other wise.What you don't have is the right to force others to live by them.Even among people who considered theirselves to be pro-life,opinions differ.Many do not believe in using any form of contraceptives.Many believe that there are valid reasons for a woman to abort her fetus.Yes,I am glad the my son's birth mother chose to bring him into the world.I will always be grateful for that.But,it was her choice to make,not your's or anyone else's.
Mattie
10:02 am on Saturday, September 1, 2012
^5 High Five, Marylou!
marylou
9:28 am on Saturday, September 1, 2012
Sorry again,"themselves."I wish we could edit our comments.
stuffin
10:04 am on Saturday, September 1, 2012
Yes, I wish they had a slightly better format.
WBelmarmom
9:32 am on Saturday, September 1, 2012
no vagina = not allowed to have a say.
Paul J. DiBartolo
10:50 am on Saturday, September 1, 2012
Now that's one of the more intelligent things I've read here. Let's all get our baseballs and go home.
BTW, while your vagina is making its decision does the unborn child in the womb have any say?
Robert Way
11:57 am on Sunday, September 2, 2012
@WBelmarmom - "no vagina = not allowed to have a say."
Initially I was not going to respond to your argument but after thinking about realized that it deserved the same attention I have paid to others.
If one is to accept your premise than one can also assume that a political utopia of sorts for you would be a vagina as President (sticking with your use of terms here), there would be super majorities of vaginas in both the House and Senate, and the Supreme Court would be populated with nine vaginas.
If that were indeed the case, what say you if the President with a vagina were advocating a Pro-Life platform, the Congressional vaginas acted on that by legislating abortion illegal in direct conflict with Roe v Wade, and once that law was challenged in court it was upheld by the nine vaginas on the Supreme Court?
Based on your argument I would think you would be ok with that decision because it was determined by people with vaginas. You ignore the fact that there are indeed people with vaginas that don't hold your position and their numbers may eventually be in the right places at the right time to make my scenario become a reality.
As an aside, the so called "right" you seek to defend seems to have been bestowed upon you by seven of the nine penises on the Warren Court. I guess when persons with a penis agree with you then everything is fine and their opinion, or ruling in this case, actually matters.
Mary Jones
11:12 am on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
RIGHT ON WBelmarmom!
uniony
1:16 pm on Wednesday, September 5, 2012
There are probably more Pro-Life women out there than Pro-Life men. Most religions teach women to be subjugated to their men - a pig cannot decide who to have sex with and when to have piglets.
stuffin
10:14 am on Saturday, September 1, 2012
This is the Catholic Church's teachings. I will include a link.
366 The Church teaches that every spiritual soul is created immediately by God - it is not "produced" by the parents - and also that it is immortal: it does not perish when it separates from the body at death, and it will be reunited with the body at the final Resurrection.235
http://www.scborromeo.org/ccc/p123a11.htm#997
"The Church teaches that every spiritual soul is created immediately by God"
Could you please give me your interpertation of "created immediately by god?
Mary Jones
11:15 am on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
well you would have to believe in the bible and its teachings to believe that line. Personally, the ONLY person who has any say in abortion is the one carrying the fetus! PRACTICE BIRTH CONTROL AND CONTROL YOUR FREEDOM!
stuffin
10:21 am on Saturday, September 1, 2012
This is because they, like older children, have souls, even though marred by original sin. David tells us, "Surely I was sinful at birth, sinful from the time my mother conceived me" (Ps. 51:5, NIV). Since sinfulness is a spiritual rather than a physical condition, David must have had a spiritual nature from the time of conception.
http://www.catholic.com/tracts/abortion
Here David is experiences sin from the time of conception. To be sinful you have to have a soul.
So I think that is enough to prove, at least from The Catholic church's point of view, that the soul is created at the time of conception.
uniony
1:17 pm on Wednesday, September 5, 2012
The word "soul" is religious, anything said anti-abortion or pro-choice related to it is meaningless. Unless we are in a theocracy, and we're not.
Michelle Wolfson
11:14 am on Saturday, September 1, 2012
Robert,
I do understand your assertion that "the Pro-Life position is NOT a religious belief". And, for the most part, I am inclined to agree. Though I might add that it is not JUST a religious belief.
I mean, I think it's far to say that it is, in fact, a belief held by a large majority of those who faithfully subscribe to the tenets of Catholicism- is it not?
I think it might be better to say that it not JUST a religious belief or not JUST a "Christian" or "Catholic" belief, as I know people of all faiths who support the Pro-Life position.
I also agree with you that often (though not always) it is people with a strong religious foundation or belief system who tend to defend the Pro-Life position most whole-heartedly.
My comments above were brought up as I said, not to disagree with you necessarily, but more to address some of the comments that seemed to be going down the path of support for religious idelogies dictating laws in this country.
My opinion was based solely on my disagreement with that.
Again, I appreciate your opinion, your right to hold it, your willingness to share it in a public forum, and the zeal with which you defend it. Just as I support the Pro-Choice sides right to do the same.
Like I said, ordinarily I "wouldn't touch an abortion debate with a ten foot pole" and I am sticking to that plan. ;-)
Brian Froelich
12:37 pm on Saturday, September 1, 2012
Robert, we all struggle with the important issues of abortion, the death penalty, and other life and death issues. No one ever wants to have to consider an abortion or take another life- whether for a crime, self defense, war, etc. Loss of life from inaction in natural disasters, famine, etc is also an issue.
But, even if you say it is a moral, not religious, conviction, you still claim that it is an ‘absolute truth’ that you can impose on others. Asserting your claim and rejecting all others (for example, accusing them of relativism) doesn’t make it an absolute truth. For example, many people would see a real and relative difference and a moral distinction between taking the life of a misbehaving child and that of a newly formed zygote- even if you don’t. The question is not ‘when life begins’ but also what is ‘life’? And that is not a scientific question and circumstances and competing rights matter. It is why, for example, that we have differences in criminal penalties when a life is lost (e.g. manslaughter versus first degree murder.)
In sum, these matters have been debated for ages, there are legitimate arguments on both sides (e.g. as many people accept other arguments as accept yours), and it is a conceit to claim you hold the absolute truth about it. Carrying a baby involves the rights of a woman even if you believe her rights are subservient to some other right. The question is, in a free society, who gets to balance/impose those competing rights.
Robert Way
12:27 pm on Sunday, September 2, 2012
Mr. Froelich, I want to thank you for taking the time to get involved in the conversation. I want to apologize to you specifically for not making the effort to reach out to you directly or as a comment on your original piece to let you know I had referenced it and was using it as the launching point for my article.
If I may get clarification from you on a couple of things it would help me to make sure I do not respond to you out of context. The question are pretty simple actually and yes or no would suffice but I am going to assume you will elaborate.
1. Would you consider it to be an absolute truth that the willful killing of a three year old child is morally wrong?
2. You say "many people would see a real and relative difference and a moral distinction between taking the life of a misbehaving child and that of a newly formed zygote- even if you don’t". Then I ask you, what side of that particular statement are you on? I will further qualify that question by saying that it is not suffice to answer by saying "it is up to the woman and her doctor" as that is a cop-out.
I fully understand that this debate is the "third-rail" of politics, for lack of a better expression. But I as well as countless other would expect those wanting to be our leaders would be willing to fully engage in this conversation as it seems you are willing to do.
Spooner
12:47 pm on Saturday, September 1, 2012
Mr Way- it's easy to use the term "morality" But what is morality that you and others make assumptions of. . .Morality is a code of conduct or social mores of cultural values. We don't have that in this country. . .that's why we needed the Courts to step in and codify a standard of conduct.
...and I don't agree with you in punishing doctors, which was also part of that case as one of the three party Plaintiffs in Roe v. Wade, James Hallford was a doctor. By punishing the doctor you encourage quacks to do the procedure, endangering the life of both the fetus and the mother. I'm sure that your religion will condone that as collateral damage. . .I guess the devil(evil) lurking in the hearts of mankind...is in the details? How does it go: and eye for an eye. . .you kill the unborn and you will be killed. . .well punished severely for now?
John Walton
3:41 pm on Saturday, September 1, 2012
Ooh your a scary little guy.. American Taliban is what you are, you're entitled to your opinions whether they're based in fact or fantasy but you don't make laws because of moral opinions. Thankfully there's a lot of intelligent people between you and Roe V Wade.
John Walton
3:42 pm on Saturday, September 1, 2012
Scary little bayville hick who has probably never left ocean county.
Robert Way
4:41 pm on Saturday, September 1, 2012
This one is classic, you are in a dead heat with WBelmarmom's "no vagina" comment above for my favorite of the thread so far. I travel through Ocean County quite often to be honest, although I don't live there. I live further north with my wife who is also my sister and third cousin and my multiple kids who are somehow my second cousins... go figure....
Demi
4:39 pm on Saturday, September 1, 2012
Insightful article! I must add that growing up in the 80's and 90's, even though I was raised as Catholic, I believed it was a woman's choice. It wasn't religion but technology that has now brought me to "the other side" of the aisle. Seeing ultrasounds and prenatal scans have convinced me that is a living being inside a woman. As a woman in her forties, I know it is my body. However, I, as an adult, realize my actions may result in a baby.
uniony
1:19 pm on Wednesday, September 5, 2012
That's actually a very important point, related to general comments about "how much worse the world is" compared to years ago. IT'S NOT WORSE! It's just that we don't read about it.
If you see a picture, that makes it real. If a kid starves to death in Ethopia, or is raped in Thailand, you don't see it, who cares? You only care if you see it.
That also means that pictures and words can be manipulated to sway you. Human embryos look a LOT like animal embryos, and it has been proven that some anti-abortion folks use images of animal embryos because they don't know the difference.
John Jay
5:11 pm on Saturday, September 1, 2012
Demi -- you are so on the money. I heard a beating heart at just a few weeks -- and I was changed for life.
Mattie
2:23 pm on Wednesday, September 5, 2012
There is no heart beat to hear before 12-16 weeks. Period. Don't you realize that at 12-14 weeks the actual embryo is the size of this: |---------------------| about an inch and a half. Imagine what size the heart would be, IF it was even fully formed by this time. You will not hear it beating through the embryonic fluid, the uterus, and the walls and muscles of the abdomen until much later than this. So let's keep it real...ok? Might have heard the heartbeat a "few weeks" after your wife announced she was pregnant, or knew she was pregnant... but you don't hear a heartbeat during the first trimester.
Nora
3:26 pm on Wednesday, September 5, 2012
Mattie, while it is not possible to find it without using internal ultrasound, the heart can start to flutter at as early as 5 weeks. The hearts are tiny tiny tiny, and are as you say not even close to fully formed at that time.
2much2say
6:33 pm on Saturday, September 1, 2012
2012 lets move on to the important stuff here. If a woman makes that choice not to carry the unborn "cells" at this point that's her right. I do not believe it's okay to abort a unborn baby that has become a fetus whatever weekly stage that is. This will never end. Do you really want to go back to the day when woman were giving themselves abortions? They bleed to death and die as well, and horrible things happen. No one should have a say in what the woman chooses to do with her issue. It's her body, her choice and something that she will live with the rest of her life. Men have no business discussing what a woman should do. Move on already.
Wall Resident
8:14 pm on Saturday, September 1, 2012
Robert Way - A zygote has no brain, it isn't conscious, it has no beating heart. It is just a bunch of cells. At 12 weeks it is still little ore than a blob with arm buds. And since we are not talking about religion, than we certainly can't talk about the fact that it has or does not have a soul. So why should a woman be forced to carry a baby to term if she knows within the first trimester that she does not wish to bring a baby in the world. That she does not want the emotional or financial responsibilities of a baby. Just because her birth control failed, she should be forced into a lifetime commitment? Roe v Wade led to a dramatic improvement in the lives and health of women. You want to bring women back to the dark ages.
Donna Griffin
3:09 pm on Sunday, September 2, 2012
Wall Resident - A simple question for you then, is when does this adorable little "blob with arm buds" become a baby and do we have the moral and or legal right to terminate the life of a baby?
Robert Way
3:21 pm on Sunday, September 2, 2012
Wall Resident, the argument you make is one that tries to justify abortion based on level of development. Whether a human life is a zygote, an embryo, a fetus, an infant, a child, an adolescent, and so on, they are simply stages of development of a human being, human person, human life, human organism, whichever human "something" you want to call it.
How does level of development qualify or disqualify a human life from a right to his or her own life?
Please explain to me where in the progression of human development the line is drawn between it being acceptable to terminate and then not able to terminate. Then proceed to explain to me what is it that makes the difference between the moment immediately before that threshold and immediately after.
The Pro-Life position has a definitive line in the sand, conception. Where is the Pro-Choice line in the sand? And it is not suffice to say "it depends" or it is "up to the woman and her doctor". What if that doctor is Peter Singer, the Princeton University professor that advocates termination of a human life up to months after birth because they have not yet acquired "personhood"?
Summit Mom
8:51 pm on Saturday, September 1, 2012
A really thoughful and welcome analysis -- thank you for taking the time to post it, Mr. Way. I used to be "pro-choice" in my younger years, college and just out, when I was immature and self-centered. Later in life, when I began to ponder life's "big questions" and began to think about abortion in a philosphical way, it took me all of about 5 minutes of truly open-minded analysis to come to the conclusions you reach in your post. This was further solidified when I had my first child and experienced the joy and excitement of my own pregnancy. My friends and I treasured the experience of the first sonogram -- and at that point I became INCREDULOUS that anyone had been able to convince me that this "fetus" was not a human being in every sense of the word. To this day, I do not understand how any mature, truly thoughtful person, without a politically or racially (see debate on eugenics) motivated agenda, could not come to the same conclusion. I am certainly open to a reasoned, open-minded debate on this, but no argument has swayed me yet. Abortion is an extremely convenient way to deal with many of the problems people have cited in these comments. Unfortunately, the truth is the truth, whether we "choose" it or not.
ASimon
8:53 pm on Saturday, September 1, 2012
Everyone is entitled to their own opinion but I can't help but think the personhood for zygote faction has no real experience with how pregnancy works. Rare is the woman who realizes on conception day she is pregnant. By the time a woman has a positive pregnancy test, she may well have done any number of things to endanger this zygote which some consider a person. Smoking, excessive drinking, drugs, perhaps engaging in in intense exercise not realizing she has a weakened cervix. If the zygote has been put at risk, should we not jail the woman to save the zygote from the reckless mother? Maybe a special prison where they are shackled down lest they throw themselves down some stairs.?
Perhaps when we buy a dozen eggs, we should actually be paying for 12 chickens?
Summit Mom
10:12 pm on Saturday, September 1, 2012
I'm confused -- what do lifestyle choices of any given sexually active woman have to do with whether or not the life of the sperm + egg (zygote, person, whatever) in her womb is worthless, meaningless, and deserving of extermination? Many healthy babies (mine included) attended a few cocktail parties in their first few weeks of life....so what? This seems to be a straw man argument.
ASimon
9:24 pm on Saturday, September 1, 2012
Nowhere in Mr. Way's article does he address the practicalities of enforcement of the Republican Pro-life platform. If a zygote is now declared a person, with all the rights of any US Citizen, what would a woman be charged with if she takes matters in her own hands and self-aborts. Murder? If she merely is reckless in a manner that leads to a miscarriage, would she be charged with manslaughter? If the woman fled to an enlightened country to have her abortion, could a relative seek extradition? Why do all those who support this personhood law never tell us how it will be enforced? Any personhood for zygote people here care to enlighten the public on how women will be punished if they flout the law?
Robert Way
9:36 pm on Saturday, September 1, 2012
There are others that articulate the response to this common argument so I will provide a link to one for the time being; http://lti-blog.blogspot.com/2007/08/why-only-prosecute-doctor-serge.html
ASimon
9:41 pm on Saturday, September 1, 2012
It is very "big" of Mr, Way to make an exception for ectopic pregnancies where a woman may bleed to death. Since the great Republican abortion tribunal has generously left this small opening for abortions, I could forsee compassionate physicans performing abortions under that exception whether it is true or not. When the Great Republican Abortion Tribunal starts to smell something fishy, how will they prove these abortions were ectopic? Surely they will not snoop around our medical records, since you all seem to get in a tizzy when you claim that is part of The Affordable Care Act (Obamacare to you folks). Are you sure you want to leave bleeding to death as an exception? This may prove troublesome to those who enforce your personhood law.
Martin
9:23 am on Sunday, September 2, 2012
So "the Great Republican Abortion Tribunal" would be Mitt's "Death Panel" for zygotes after rapes, incest and serious health threats to the impregnated women.
ASimon
9:45 pm on Saturday, September 1, 2012
I don't open external links lest my computer be infected, Why don't you or one of your defenders describe enforcement and answer all my questions? I can see some of them have alot of time.
Robert Way
12:09 pm on Sunday, September 2, 2012
Asimon, I apologize for assuming everyone is willing to follow external links as I too usually have the same policy out of fear of virus and malware. I have created a PDF of the document and attached it to the blog post as a document if you wish to read it.
Just because I don't take the time to fully articulate a response to your question because I feel there are others that are better equipped to fully explain it does not mean that you can readily discard my rebuttal to your comment via another's writings.
If anyone wanted me to refer to a sited source I would have no problem doing so. Some folks want to make sure they don't misrepresent and argument and would rather defer to text from another they feel makes the point clearer than they presently can and that space on a blog post would allow.
ASimon
9:53 pm on Saturday, September 1, 2012
How would you know whether an abortion was due to an ectopic pregnancy without violating a woman's right to privacy? I know you are big on government intervention into our private lives so how would you know why a woman had an aboriton by a doctor? And please answer the other queries as well. If a zygote is person, the woman must be punished as stringently as if she terminted the life of a chlld after birth. That is the basis for the Republican platform.
ASimon
10:44 pm on Saturday, September 1, 2012
Guess those Republican talking points on enforcement of their personhood language is buried pretty deep since they really prefer not to talk about it. Guess I will have to contact Todd Akin or Chris Smith for some clarification. Good night folks.
Summit Mom
6:56 am on Sunday, September 2, 2012
These are obviously serious and complicated issues. So are many aspects of crime and punishment. But just because they are tricky does not mean we should not address them. Many in BOTH political parties, and certainly a large part of the U.S. population, believe your "zygote" is also a human being, with a (some would say God given) right to his/her life. Many also believe that Roe V. Wade was a completely political decision without legal merit -- there is no "right to privacy" in the Constitution. You raise good points, but clearly you think the other side should shut up and go away. Liberals are so often the intolerant ones who can't accept other points of view. What do you say to a person who believes a woman seeking an abortion is no different than Andrea Yates contemplating her own "choice"? Others, like Obama, believe it's appropriate to "finish the job" when a baby actually survives an abortion. Two very different points of view. Obviously this is an ongoing and important debate that is appropriate to engage in. And P.S.: one thing everyone can agree on is that Akin's comments were completely awful -- the only reason to cite them is for political points, not a serious discussion.
Concerned
8:12 am on Sunday, September 2, 2012
in the years to come, humanity will look back at abortion with shame and will wonder how a society could allow for abortion. how is it that society will ultimately conclude that abortion is wrong? it will not be religion, nor the courts, nor politics. Science will prove that life is extraordinary and it has a beginning and end. It is already happening in hospitals across the country. Today babies are delivered premature at well under a pound in weight and are surviving, while down the hall in these same hospitals babies are being killed via abortions that are the same in terms of age and weight. This inconsistency in terms of valuing human life is unsustainable. Today doctors are performing surgery to babies in the womb. Down the hall in the same hospitals doctors are killing babies. Science is already providing insights into the unique DNA of every person from conception to death. Humanity will look back and say how could society allow for abortions? Similar as today when we look back and say how could society allow for slavery or black and white bathrooms etc. It will be knowledge that will change peoples hearts and minds. Science will show that the humanistic based value system of "me and mine and I" above all else is flawed and causes distorted thinking when we value one life over another.
sp resident
8:40 am on Sunday, September 2, 2012
To the response of Robert Way. Yes you are probably one and I mean only one of the good guys. The majority of guys is not responsible and don't really care about what happens during sexual relations. My point is it doesn't matter what you think or what anyone thinks, you can live your life without being judged because you are not the one who gets pregnant. I don't care how good you are you will never experience what a woman goes through! Shame, dropping out of school ,judgemental friends and strangers and the whole world on her shoulders. What you should do is write an article for guys. Tell them to be reponsible ,that it's a life they will be destroying ,that it's wrong to put a girl through an abortion,(that's why most girls have abortions anyway because the guy doesn't want the baby) and to support and experience the journey for the next nine months and the next eighteen years. Hey you mean well, but I am tired of guys talking about issues they will never understand or experience. Your job is to educate guys about the their destruction to the female population!
sp resident
8:57 am on Sunday, September 2, 2012
How many women who are raped really keep the baby. Imagine her husband saying, honey we will love and raise your rapist offspring and he/ she will be my child, or the parents saying, you was raped by a minority ,but we don't like minorities, we will raise this child and love this child. Give me a break. Imagine if Romney had a daughter and she got raped and pregnant by Jose or Tyrone he will say ,let's rise this child into our family! and the entire nation will not question or judge you and us, I am pretty sure an abortion will be scheduled! Most people preach pro life, but if it happened to them , most will not be. They would go to some private, private doctor, and it will be done, then tomorrow will come and they will preach pro life, hypocrites.
marylou
11:05 am on Sunday, September 2, 2012
I agree with you! I wonder how many daughter from pro-life families have had abortions.I know of 1 such family myself.What really amazes me is once the fetus is carried to term,the pro-life crowd loses interest in the baby.I guess it's their responsibility to see that the bay is born and it's the mother's responsibility after.If she can't support the child or doesn't want it,tough shite.Having female parts does not mean that a woman wants a child or that she will make a good mother.
Concerned
12:18 pm on Sunday, September 2, 2012
MaryLou,
What a nasty post to state that pro life people as not interested in a baby after it is born!
My Wife and I are pro life and we have 4 adopted children. We treasure our family. One of my children and his girlfriend had a baby and no one ever thought of an abortion as an option. Today she is our first grand child and we treasure her. They also married in due course and are a great couple. In families things happen and what is so important is to love and forgive and then love even more. Funny all my children are pro life, and they are so grateful that their birth parents did not choose abortion.
jerseyswamps
12:45 pm on Sunday, September 2, 2012
Concerned,
That's Marylou. In another article still up she suggests the unborn who are not perfect or of mixed race would be unwanted for adoption and so are not worth saving. She would have made a good Nazi. Look it up, the Akin story.
Concerned
2:33 pm on Sunday, September 2, 2012
Jersey swamps, thank you for the note. So MaryLou is the author of a comment on mixed or biracial children not being adopted or wanted!! That is sad. One of my sons is bi -racial and he is so gifted. Being his father is a joy and honor. To see him grow up and define himself as a person of worth and positive self esteem has been very special for me. He is my Son and I am so thankful for him everyday.
Donna Griffin
3:17 pm on Sunday, September 2, 2012
marylou - I agree with you that "having female parts does not mean that a woman wants a child or that she will make a good mother." Can we agree though that even a moderately educated woman understands that sexual intercourse can result in a pregnancy or are we, as women, simply reduced to being dogs in heat? Do we have any control over our willingness to engage in actions that have cause and effect consequences? My point here is one of personal responsibility. Nature has set it up such that women bear the brunt of pregnancy and the ensuing child. However, outside of the case of rape, I do not know many women who do not have the ability to abstain from the act which causes an "undesired consequence."
marylou
10:47 am on Monday, September 3, 2012
I am pro-choice and I also have an adopted child.He was born healthy.Isn't that what every parent wants,a healthy child?If their mothers are unable or unwilling to care for them<what happens to them.Most of us don't have health insurance that would cover the cost associated with adopting a handicapped or very sick child.And if you cannot provide for the child,you aren't allowed to adopt him or her,or at least that's how it was when we adopted our child.
And my dear jersey swamps,I never said that the gov't should dictate who is allowed to be born .That is up to the woman who is carrying a sick or handicapped fetus and her doctor.It is a fact that handicapped children are less likely to be adopted than those who are not handicapped.Many people even consider multi-racial children less desireable.So, the next time you see white parents with a mixed race child,don't give them looks.They could me me and my family.And no,I don't want to be told what a wonderful thing my husband and I did when we adopted him.We are the lucky ones.
marylou
10:58 am on Monday, September 3, 2012
Concerned,the fact is that your daughter-in-law made the right"choice" for herself.it's not the right choice for every female has an unplanned pregnancy.They were in a commited relationship and wanted the child and had the support of their families.Good for them and all of you.It's just not always the case and the rest of us shouldn't assume that every family is like yours.
Donna,yes women should realize if they have unprotected sex,they might become pregnant. Even among educated girls and young women,I've heard a million times that they didn't fell it could happen to them,they had sex when they thought it would be "safe",or they got drunk and had sex without protection.And then there are the ones who were raped,whether legitimately or not.The pro-life crowd may not like it,but children born addicted to drugs or alcohol,those of mixed race,and handicapped children are often not adopted.
Donna Griffin
11:13 am on Monday, September 3, 2012
marylou - Then again, it seems that, in the case of a disabled or drug-addicted child, we have gradations of "value" when it comes to life. How about at the other end of the life's spectrum? When does life become too old or sick to have value? As in the case of abortion and its more common first trimester standard, should we then not say someone over 80 y.o. should not be treated for pneumonia?
Concerned
1:49 pm on Monday, September 3, 2012
Marylou, mixed racial children are as wonderful and always wanted in adoption. Stop making such awful comments. It seems you do not comprehend the capacity to love all children weather healthy, handicapped, black, white, Asian whatever.
jerseyswamps
4:37 pm on Monday, September 3, 2012
marylou,
You are putting a dollar value on unborn children. An unborn child that YOU don't think is as valuable as a "perfect" child is a financial burden to the mother or the state if the state has to take care of the child. Nice Nazi thinking.
Now you try to put lipstick on your ugly comment by telling us you adopted a child? If someone adopts there's a good chance they don't know the child's complete medical history. Suppose some kind of medical issue surfaces? Are they or you going to love the child any less? Going to feel cheated?
Catherine Felegi
12:40 pm on Sunday, September 2, 2012
Robert:
While I can't say that I agree with everything that you state, I do appreciate that you posted this article. As a person who is pro-restriction (I hate using the terms "pro-life" or "pro-choice" because then it boils down to the concept that the other side is "anti-life" or "anti-choice," both of which are entirely wrong), I do hear often that I am against women's rights, that it has to be all religious (being religious myself and of the belief that, since not everyone believes in God like I do, nor should they have to, that all arguments need to be taken out of a religious context), etc. While some are open to honest dialogue and discussion regarding the matter, others simply shoot you down automatically, which I fear is the norm.
I give you credit for posting on such a hot topic and, while I would like to say that one day, there will be peace regarding the matter, I do not see that happening. However, it does not mean that either side should stop talking (in a constructive matter, which you seem to be attempting to do). Thank you again for the intriguing post, and I wish you the best regarding all the hate mail that I am sure that you are getting at this point.
Spooner
5:06 pm on Sunday, September 2, 2012
Mr Way- the blog "forloveofgodandcountry" has an attorney named Diane Rufino arguing in a lengthy piece, that if it wasn't for the Bill of Rights regarding abortion, we wouldn't be having this argument. So are those who profess Pro Life arguing for the repeal of the Bill of Rights?
http://forloveofgodandcountry.com/2012/02/19/the-social-reformers-definition-of-life-demeaning-the-sanctity-of-life-for-an-enhanced-quality-of-life-roe-v-wade-revisited/
Robert Way
5:39 pm on Sunday, September 2, 2012
Spooner, thanks for the reference, that is a very lengthy piece that I will take the time to read through. Just skimming through it initially I think I came across the crux of the piece whereby it states that "by reasoning that many of the rights expressly granted and protected by the Bill of Rights are grounded in a fundamental right to privacy".
On the surface I would argue that one's "right to privacy" which current abortion law wraps itself in does not subvert another's "right to life". Once again, that is just on the surface based on what I was able to quickly gather by perusing the article quickly and I will follow-up again once I have some time to read the entire piece a couple of times.
Thank you for submitting such an extensive piece for review, it only adds to the value of the conversation that is being had.
I will reply directly to your comment as I have here just so you know where to look for it as posts tend to get lost in a thread as long as this one.
Robert Way
11:04 pm on Monday, September 3, 2012
Spooner - I just finished reading the piece and believe you are misinterpreting how it addresses the Bill of Rights.
As the author explains;
"The thing is, there is no express right of “privacy” in the Constitution. But the Court had already gotten around that in 1965, in Griswold v. Connecticut, by reasoning that many of the rights expressly granted and protected by the Bill of Rights are grounded in a fundamental right to privacy."
Furthermore she refers to the Griswold (married couples contraception case) ruling by stating "Griswold was the first case that created a right relating to reproduction without naming a specific clause in the Constitution, because, of course, there is no such provision."
As her piece continues, she logically steps through how the Warren Court (which ruled in Roe v Wade) wrapped abortion in this fabricated "right to privacy" and at no point does she make the case nor suggest anyone else is recommending the repeal of the Bill of Rights.
The only mention of the Bill of Rights in regard to addressing it legislatively is in her fifth summarizing point where she refers to HR300 sponsored by Rep. Ron Paul (R-TX) which seeks to adjudicate the Federal Government from ruling on issues of "privacy" because it does not possess the enumerated right to do so in either the Constitution nor the Bill of Rights.
Probably needless to say, but Pro-Life advocates do not call for repealing the Bill of Rights nor any Republican that I am aware of.
Spooner
1:18 am on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Mr Way- Ms Rufino discusses the need for the Bill of Rights? She quotes Hamilton's Federalist 84...
...Alexander Hamilton, a leading Federalist argued that a Bill of Rights was not necessary and in Federalist No. 84, he posed: Why do we need a Bill of Rights to “declare that things shall not be done which there is no power to do? Why, for instance, should it be said that the liberty of the press shall not be restrained, when no power is given by which restrictions may be imposed?”...
...she makes this statement regarding the 9th Amendment...
...Many claim that the right to an abortion potentially falls within the purview of the Ninth Amendment, which reads: “The enumeration in the Constitution, of certain rights, shall not be construed to deny or disparage others retained by the people.”
Space here limits me from adding more of her writings, but my point again: is that if there was no Bill of Rights, we would not be having this conversation?
Robert Way
10:58 am on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Spooner, as much as you may try to put words in my mouth, I did not say "Rufino discusses the need for the Bill of Rights" much in the same way I don't say that she is discussing the need for repealing it. You are implying that is what I said and it is just not so.
I am also not going to deny that Hamilton argued against the Bill of Rights and as she points out, so did Madison, but their arguments didn't prevail did they, and they were both Federalists, nor did the arguments from the anti-Federalist side that was against the need therefore the inclusion of the Bill of Rights.
I'll be totally honest here, I don't understand what point you are trying to make here by mentioning Rubino's reference to the 9th Amendment and your initial question of "So are those who profess Pro Life arguing for the repeal of the Bill of Rights?" so please explain, I am more than willing to understand your point even if you have to dumb it down for me to do so.
I would agree with you in regard to your notion that "if there was no Bill of Rights, we would not be having this conversation" primarily because the fabricated "right to privacy" wouldn't be able to wrap itself in the cloak of The Bill of Rights.
Having said that, you don't go cutting off your nose to spite your face. I will say it again, neither I nor any Pro-Life advocate or Republican is putting forth the notion of repealing The Bill of Rights. That was you initial question and I have answered it.
Fred M
2:26 pm on Monday, September 3, 2012
I am so grateful that my mom didn't abort me...What funny is the fact that it's illegal to do drugs etc..Why is it illegal? Can't I do whatever I want to my Body? Guess not..
Monk
4:58 pm on Monday, September 3, 2012
Like I said, as for abortion, it is basically the killing of an unwanted child. If you can accept the moral responsibility for it, that's your prerogative. But I don't know why we outlaw other lesser crimes, if abortion is legal.
marylou
6:22 pm on Monday, September 3, 2012
jersey swamp,I am not puttin a dollar value on an unborn fetus.The mother may have no health insurance or insuffient health insurance to provide the necessary care for a sick or handicapped child.Adoption agencies ask prospective adoptive parents if they have suffient health insurance to care for their chidl.If they don't,they cannot adopt that child.So a handicapped child may not be adopted and be institutionalize for life.As I said,I am grateful that my son's birth mother decided to give him life and a better life.It' s possible that her family would have never accepted a mixed race child as a member of their family.She was 15 yrs.old and couldn't raise him on her own.But,it was her decision,not your's,mine or anyone else's.
jerseyswamps
7:38 pm on Monday, September 3, 2012
marylou,
Going back to your comment in the Todd Akin blog. Your short comment swirls around the cost of the less than perfect and in your mind less wanted unborn child. "Who's going to support", "Money it costs for a premature baby", "she may not have the means to support", etc. It sounds like you are saying it would be a good idea to abort a less than perfect or bi-racial child because no one wants them and they cost too much to raise.
This is the last I'll comment on this.
BTW, never said I was against abortions. I am all for keeping it legal. I just find some of the arguments of pro abortion zealots nauseating.
Robert Way
8:12 pm on Monday, September 3, 2012
marylou, your arguments are putting you on VERY thin ice in that they are arguing for it to become common practice where some people are the arbiters of other people's "quality of life" and if those arbiters determine that the prospect of a "quality of life" above some arbitrary threshold were not to be achieved then the only "compassionate" thing to do would be to "save them" from the struggles of their less than "quality" life.
There is no promise of life without struggles, without discomforts, and without mental or financial or physical stress. That utopia exists with a more "progressive" mindset.
I reject your charge that even though the possibility does exist that a handicapped child may never be adopted and upon becoming an adult still unable to care for themselves therefore being institutionalized for life is a justifiable reason to argue the Pro-Choice position. Who are you to deny such an individual the opportunity to define their own "quality of life". As already mentioned in replies to you by other folks, when end of life decisions are to be made as well, are these same arbiters responsible for determining when to stop investing in granny's "quality of life"?
This Country was founded on the notion that such an individual have that opportunity and not leave it to "compassionate intellectuals" to decide otherwise.
Please understand that I am not attacking you directly with my reply here but instead the path that your arguments eventually lead to.
marylou
9:05 am on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Jerseyswamps,It's up to the woman whether or not to abort her fetus.And many of the very people who claim to be "pro-life" don't want to pay what it costs to provide care for a premature baby,a full term baby,a toddler or a child if the mother cannot do it herself.My mention of the cost of caring for a premature baby was an attempt to explain that,and that mhy dear,is what nauseates me.
A read an article that mentioned a woman who gave birth to twins when she was a teenager.She was working at a fast food outlet to help support herself and the kids.All of the comments about this young,single mother were negative.She chose life and was bad mouthed for that. Fetuses become babies.If the mother cannot support them,the taxpayers do.You can't have it both ways.
Brian Froelich
8:43 pm on Monday, September 3, 2012
Mr. Way, Sorry for the delay in getting back to you. (I am running a campaign against an entrenched incumbent!) You are correct that the answers to your two questions are simple.
1) The willful killing of a three year old child is obviously morally wrong and it is hard to believe that such a conclusion would be anything but a natural and virtually unanimous conclusion.
2) My position is and has been clear. As is yours and that of Rep Chris Smith.
I accept the Supreme Court decision in Roe v Wade when they had to face that very real and difficult legal, moral, and human choice in balancing the constitutional rights and circumstances involved. They held that, at least in the first trimester, the women’s individual constitutional rights trumped other public interest rights and considerations. While you don’t like the answer, the decision is in fact up to the woman, her doctor, and her God.
Chris Smith’s opinion is equally clear and simple- He, and not the woman, has full right and control over her body once she is pregnant (and regardless of how she became so or any other circumstances or consequences.) In effect, Smith believes he can extinguish her natural and creator endowed rights to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness based on his own logic and beliefs- religious or otherwise.
Beyond that, I believe this issue has been discussed more than adequately here. I have a campaign to run. I invite you and others to join me in this important endeavor.
ASimon
9:10 pm on Monday, September 3, 2012
Robert, while I appreciate your effort to answer my question about enforcement of the Republican platform on abortion, your link seems to indicate you are unfamiliar with the actual language adopted by the GOP. The blog you link to seems to indicate that there would be no proscution of women having abortions, just the doctors performing them. However the GOP language quite clearly states.. "the unborn child has a fundamental and INDIVIDUAL right to life which cannot be infringed." This even goes beyond the normal extreme right wing position that abortion should be an illegal procedure. It states that a zygote has ALL the same rights as a person already born. Therefore, anything done to hurt the zygote would be prosecutable. While your blog speaks of "mercy" for the mother, the GOP seeks to codify personhood in our constitution- this would take mercy out of the hands of "christian charity" and into the hands of judges. The sentiment in your blog, that women seeking unsafe abortions on the street would be given mercy, while those seeking legal and safe abortions by doctors would put the doctors at risk, is quite clear. However the language in GOP platform is even more extreme- making mercy on women a subject left to the judicial system.
Robert Way
10:07 pm on Monday, September 3, 2012
@ASimon
Entertain the following scenario if you will...
When a mother stands by and watches another person brutally beat her toddler to death and not only did nothing to try and stop it but instead asked the person to do it for whatever reason that may be, to what extent would current law prosecute that mother?
I would respectfully ask that you only address the question that I just asked and not try to jump ahead. It seems you are more than willing to have an open mind with me as I have with you in this conversation and it is important that we step through this logically together.
As an aside, you are correct in assuming that I do not know the exact language or what the GOP has proposed and will make the effort to find it unless you can refer me to the appropriate resource that shows it. Perhaps a link to the particular Bill that it is in.
ASimon
10:42 pm on Monday, September 3, 2012
Robert, the 2012 Republican platform can be found on gop.com and any number of reputable sites like the Washington Post. Unlike other aspects of their platform, this language is not touted on their webiste, but is buried pretty deep - so to save you the time, the personhood language can be found on pages 13 and 14. Quite frankly, it's shocking that you have not actually read the "pro-life' platform that you are apparently defending in this blog.
While you won't answer any of my questions about enforcement of this personhood language, I'm happy to answer your question. If a mother requested that someone beat her toddler to death, I woud expect she would be prosecuted to the full extent of the law. If, as Republicans and yourself would like, this same standard is applied to women having abortions, I would expect they would be prosecuted as well. So, as I posed to you several days ago, what can we women expect? There are so many horrific ramifications for us women, I think we have a right to know.
Robert Way
12:28 am on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
ASimon, allow me to clarify the fact that the Republican Party does not establish the Pro-Life Platform, it stands on its own and the Republican Party chooses how it is going to interpret it and promote it.
Primary example is in the cases of rape and incest, for as long as I can recall whenever a Republican is asked about abortion they always make exceptions for rape and incest which are not exceptions expressed by the Pro-Life Platform itself.
I don't want to get wrapped around the axle with semantics and probably didn't get the point across as well as I hoped I would.
Beyond that, just because I didn't know the verbatim language of the "GOP" position on abortion doesn't mean I don't know what the Pro-Life Platform is, I have defined it several times throughout my article and comments.
And yes, the GOP language of "the unborn child has a fundamental and INDIVIDUAL right to life which cannot be infringed" is directly in line with the Pro-Life Platform in that the unborn from conception possess the same right to life as born persons, and yes that includes the zygote which is merely a stage a human development not unlike that of an embryo, a fetus, and infant, a toddler, an adolescent, or an adult. The "level of development" justification for abortion has been rebutted by me elsewhere int he conversation.
continued.......
Robert Way
12:32 am on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
In regard to "what you can expect as a woman", to use your terms, first of all I will readily concede that the blog I referred you to probably didn't choose the right word when it used "mercy" as it has a religious context and myself would have preferred the term "leniency" since it provides more relevant context within the judiciary when conveying the notion of "going easy on someone".
As for the enforcement, I would expect AT A MINIMUM the same leniency to be extended to the pregnant mother as would be extended to the mother who stood idly by as her toddler was beat to death but that is to assume the two situations are exactly the same. In actuality I would expect an even greater amount of leniency in the case of an abortion because the woman is usually in a situation of crisis and irrational thought. I by no means am implying the woman be prosecuted for pre-meditated murder.
If you want to know from me what the sentence would be for the woman or the criminal charges, I don't pretend to be a lawyer so I really can't answer that. That being the case, it doesn't disqualify me from trying to reason through what the scenario might look like.
Now, as much as I am sure you are not going to accept that explanation, I would simply ask that you rebut it which will allow us to logically work through it together.
Fred M
9:38 pm on Monday, September 3, 2012
Anyone ever ask the unborn their opinion on abortion?
Fred M
9:45 pm on Monday, September 3, 2012
I can't imagine when we meet God (those who believe) when we die and Tell God in his presence that abortion is ok with God..I have a feeling he would be angry..And brother, when he gets angry...Get out of his way
Spooner
10:42 pm on Monday, September 3, 2012
Mr Way- as much as you try in a kind of inadvertent way to promote pro-life. . . we still need the law to prevent political candidates like this one from unctioning undue punishment to the afflicted...
http://www.buzzfeed.com/zekejmiller/north-dakota-senate-candidate-voted-to-make-aborti
Robert Way
11:24 pm on Monday, September 3, 2012
Spooner, not sure what you man by your statement that I am trying "in a kind of inadvertent way to promote pro-life". I think it is pretty obvious that not only am I trying to clarify the Pro-Life position but I am openly defending it as well as refuting the pro-choice arguments against it.
As for the link you provided, I just want to make sure that you realize the language of that Bill in worded in such a way that it directs the criminality of abortion the sole responsibility of the doctor that performs the procedure or provides the woman with any means to carry out the procedure herself.
Now, by my own admission I am not a lawyer, and I would need further guidance in respect to lines seven and eight of that Bill to understand whether the language in those two lines would criminalize the mother.
As an aside, this Bill is very similar in language to the one that was on the books in Texas for around 100 years before the Supreme Court "discovered" a "right to privacy" and overturned it in Roe v Wade as explained by the other link you provided regarding the Bill of Rights
http://forloveofgodandcountry.com/2012/02/19/the-social-reformers-definition-of-life-demeaning-the-sanctity-of-life-for-an-enhanced-quality-of-life-roe-v-wade-revisited/
Spooner
12:36 am on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Mr Way- in plan English: you don't address these political issues like Ms Rufinos' in her article link you posted, who also advocates State Nullification. You know what that means? She's saying that the state should ignore the Supreme Court decision. . .just like this North Dakota US Senate candidate is advocating by writing law that has been ruled unconstitutional. . .You know before the Civil War, there was state nullification going on(Kentucky & Virginia Resolutions). So are you arguing that you and others(Pro Life) would go to that extreme to get your political views to be acted on?
Donna Griffin
7:37 am on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Spooner - I think that where you might be missing Mr. Way's entire position is in your reference to the protection of life at all stages (including in utero) as a "political" view. I do not want to misinterpret his well thought out and heartfelt piece so I will welcome his response to you. I find that the definition of "life" has not been "politicized" by the Pro-Life movement, but rather the Pro-Abortion movement. For the Pro-Abortion movement to be successful in its position, it must first and foremost clearly and scientifically provide for me a date certain in which "human life" begins. Without that logical mechanism, the safe bet for me would be that life starts at conception. In the absence of that mechanism, all else is moot, i.e. Right to Privacy, Women's Rights to Choose, etc. because then we either value life in this nation or we simply do not.
Robert Way
10:31 am on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Spooner, I will absolutely acknowledge that in Rufino's third summarizing point she lays out the argument that State Nullification could be used in refuting the Supreme Court's authority to even rule on matters of abortion.
Why is it so "extreme" to assume a State cannot attempt to exercise its right to sovereignty on matters it deems not to be within the Federal Governments enumerated powers? Do we not live in a Federal Republic but instead a Unitary one? Setting aside nullification in regard to the abortion debate for a moment. In general, if I am to believe that you are saying the State Nullification of ANYTHING is extreme, therefore should not be an allowable option to be exercised by the States, then what prevents the Federal Government from unfettered authority over every single aspect of our society?
Spooner
12:52 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Mr Way...well the US Supreme Court does, as well as the Congress. It's called separation of powers that stop the Government( the Executive Branch) from doing what you say.
...with regards to nullification: The Supreme Court has ruled a number of times that "state nullification" is unconstitutional. . .It violates the Supremacy clause of the Constitution that the states upon their ratification gave to the Federal Govt. You want the Supreme Court to make an exception for abortion and accept lets say Texas or North Dakota's state nullification. . .or should we have another ratifying convention amongst the 50 states to make your groups views part of the body politic, like the proposed Rand Paul Constitutional Amendment outlawing abortion period?
Spooner
1:33 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Donna- this life at conception issue is very politicized. . .it's called Roe v. Wade. . .and it's part of the National Republican Party platform, and will be part of the National Democratic Party platform. The Pro Life directives has become part of the Tea Party mantra, for different reasons, whether you agree or not?
...as for when life begins: I thought that was decided by the Supreme Court. . .am I wrong? But you want scientific certainly. . .I wish it was that simple. Would that akin you to: your way or the highway approach to people with different views?
...and talking Scientific. . .what happens to all that science after the baby is born. . .so now it's our turn to use that same science on Pro-Lifers. . . like Ms Rufino's proposal to use the Catholic Church there. . .I wonder it anybody consulted them..and where's the money coming from...the Government(with separation of Church &State?) I could just see the Republicans jumping up and down over that, paying for child care. . .
Donna Griffin
3:44 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Spooner - My point is that there should be NO politics attached to the "cell growth," "zygote," or "human being" developing in the womb until SCIENCE can definitively provide the start point of life. Much to the chagrin of the left, science has arrived at a consensus much like Mr. Way ascribed wherein life commences post fertilization. You see, science deals with evidence and facts. Politics deals with no such thing. If such scientific findings are accepted, then we have to publicly assert that it is OK to terminate life when it is an inconvenience, burden or otherwise impractical intrusion into one's life. As far as "science after the baby is born," are you suggesting if a woman is burdened with a child during their "terrible two's" we legislate her choice to end that life?
mary54
5:00 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Donna Griffin: You say: "If such scientific findings are accepted, then we have to publicly assert that it is OK to terminate life when it is an inconvenience, burden or otherwise impractical intrusion into one's life." Well, what's wrong about accepting that? As I have stated earlier, there are already too many people in the world, so we have to do something about it eventually or we'll run out of resources to sustain humanity.
Yes, an early fetus is a particular instance of a human life, but it has no inherent claim on being brought to term in spite of the hardships its mother may very well have delivering it, or considering the circumstances under which the woman became pregnant (e.g., rape.) People here have stated many feel-good reasons to avoid abortions (e.g., they wouldn't be here, after they had children they changed their position), but I still think that: 1) it's a woman's choice alone, 2) men shouldn't be controlling women's lives by telling them they can't have abortions, 3) there are practical reasons for allowing abortions (e.g., Earth is overcrowded and is running out of resources, the child cannot be adequately supported by its parents, it is not wanted), 4) even though the blog author claims abortion is not a religious issue, the main anti-choice forces and rational are religious in nature (there are a few anti-choice atheists but the number is quite small), so the matter appears to be infringing on the separation of church and state.
Donna Griffin
5:39 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
mary54- Let me get this straight then...you feel it should be legally appropriate for a woman to have the right to terminate a child's life in or out of the womb as a measure of public service in reducing the world's population? How about we go one step further with respect to your "humanitarian" motive and terminate the life of everyone over the age of 70. Afterall, the bulk of medical costs in an individual's life are expended during those final years and after all....it is all about conserving resources in your philosophy. I'll go you even one better since your hostility toward men is pretty evident, why do we not require gender testing for all pregnant women and we can have a government agency determine which of those male "cell masses" should be terminated?
mary54
6:25 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Donna Griffin: No, no, I only support abortions up to the point of viability, to be in conformance with current law.Unusual cases, of course, excepted. Sorry for not saying that but that point, I thought, was made earlier in the thread. Once a person is born, it is hoped that he or she will be able to live a happy life of their own choosing.
Donna Griffin
6:56 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
mary - One can argue, too, that a newborn is not viable because the child is dependent upon an adult for its survival. When does "viability" in a "born" individual end? If you are going to legislate the ability to terminate life at one end of its spectrum, then we are faced with terminating it at the other. Shall we legislate an expiration date on viability...perhaps an age...or shall we have a committee decide grandma's viability? Sure she can knit and bake cookies, but what really is her value in the global sense? Are you opposed to President Obama's position with respect to late term abortion and the authority of a physician to "finish the job" of terminating the life of a child "born" during a botched abortion? Is the intent to kill that child paramount to the act itself having gone awry? I apologize for referring to a full-term cell mass as a "child" but I am unclear as to what else to call "it." Lastly, do you see any value of the father's position in the abortion decision or is he merely reduced to being the sperm donor in this "impractical" intrusion into a woman's life?
BobDee
11:39 pm on Monday, September 3, 2012
I believe the term should be pro-death and not pro-choice...Where's the unborns choice?
sp resident
8:29 am on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
What my problem about this entire issues is, that the woman is responsible for it all. Yes the guy had a great part in it, but at the end of the day, it's still on us. No one wants to talk about the guy's part in all of this, just point the finger at the poor woman and crucify her! Yes she has the womb to carry the fetus , but it is as much of the responsibility of her as of the guy if the fetus is terminated! Society has always hated women and men can do whatever they please! What role does men play in this entire abortion debate, just their comments ?
Robert Way
9:45 am on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
@sp resident - I'd be more than willing to comment on that. I don't think there is an attempt by anyone in this conversation to crucify the woman nor suggest that the guy is totally off the hook for any responsibility whatsoever. It is actually the Pro-Choice position that eliminates the guy from the equation, may I remind you of WBelmarmom's comment much further up the page, "no vagina = not allowed to have a say".
While the role of the guy is not necessarily the focus of my article I would never deny that he should absolutely be responsible throughout the situtation. And while he cannot actually carry the burden of the physical preganancy I would argue that he at least has financial responsibility throughout the pregnancy to support the woman in those things that are expenses as a result of being pregnant, including any loss of income that may result from being unable to work due to being pregnant.
Now I also understand that the guy can at some point forfeit his portion of custody to a child but there is still legal responsibility to support that child financially until the age of 18. I am just not well versed in the legal aspects of custody type laws.
I don't think any Pro-Life male would disagree with me in saying the guy should definitely not be let "off the hook". At the same time I will again admit that I do not know what laws are on the books to address the situation and would ask someone more in-the-know to shed light on whether or not there is.
Robert Way
9:49 am on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
As a further follow-up, I fully reject your notion that society has "always hated women". You can't throw that one against the wall hoping it sticks without substantiating that claim.
marylou
12:08 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
People are going to have sex.Some use effective birth control and unwanted pregnacies don't occur.And when they do,the pro-life crowd will do whatever they can to see that the fetus is carried to term.After that,it seems that they don't give a darn.So,unless they are going to adopt or other wise support all of those children,they should STFU.
Robert Way
12:19 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
marylou, in regard to "After that, it seems that they don't give a darn", are you arguing that not a single crisis pregnancy center nor organization that encourages or facilities adoption is Pro-Life? Are Pro-Choice advocates really the only ones who are concerned with a child after birth of a crisis pregnancy?
Donna Griffin
5:36 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
sp - As an adult woman, I have the privilege to have the anatomy which allows me to bring life into the world. A privilege that many women spend a lot of money in an effort to defy their fertility issues. I find it disheartening and distasteful when potential mothers view child bearing as an intrusion or a burden. Children deserve better and as women (and the purported gentler sex), we really have devolved into animals who would eat their young rather than raise them. I wish we lived in a more sensible and responsible society that would value every human life. We weep at the anniversary of 9/11 because of the loss of life yet we kill millions without a second thought. It's a twisted sense of humanity.
Ric
6:18 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
@Donna Griffin. Gee Donna, most adults have the capacity to participate in human reproduction. So what is so special about yours? I mean why bring it up? I find it disheartening and distasteful when the anti-choicers want to bring us back to the days of back alley abortions. Women deserve better and as a man I recognize it is not my right to force women to do as I decide. Are we to become animals and force women to abortions by coat hangers. I remember those days. I wish we lived in a more sensible and responsible society that would value every human life. We weep at the anniversary of 9/11 because of the loss of life yet the anti-choicers want to risk the lives of millions of women without a second thought. It's a twisted sense of humanity
Donna Griffin
7:42 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
Wow, Ric - Your rhetoric gets angrier and angrier. I attempted to elevate the dialogue by simply stating my position that I consider the ability to bring life into this world a privilege. Being a mother is my single most important role on this earth. I find it tough to stomach when I hear pro-abortion women refer to that "thing" growing inside of them as a hassle. You come across as extraordinarily threatened by opposing views. Why do you want to fight with everyone? You need a hug.
Ric
9:42 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
@Donna Griffin. Funny that you say my rhetoric is get angrier when my last response was essentially using your drama and your words with a little twist. I am at a lost. But then I also think you are distressed by opposing views.
Yes, it is wonderful you are a parent, congratulations. But what does your parenthood have to do with this discussion? You are not unique. And I have never heard any woman referring her pregnancy as that thing. We must travel in different circles.
I am distressed about one issue: Going back to the days of illegal backroom abortions. I am old enough to remember those days. I even knew someone who had one. And you want to go back to those days? Obviously you have not learned the lessons of prohibition. Abortion has been around just as long as liquor even though. Donna, why do you never mention backroom abortions. Do you think they are a myth?
By the way, out of all those I have debated on this issue at patch, I do respect you because you are honest. Most of the others on your side, and many on my side, think they speak the only truth. In closing, if I were a woman, I do not see how I could have an abortion. I am pro-choice because I do believe that decision needs to be made by the woman not by men. I am very grateful my family member survived her illegal backroom abortion. It is a shame she had no other recourse.
Donna Griffin
3:32 am on Sunday, September 9, 2012
Ric - The mere fact that I am able to reproduce is "special." That miracle somehow gets lost in the banter and I think by considering the act of reproduction as nothing more "special" than a bowel movement is what I find inhumane. My instincts tell me that before Roe v. Wade there were not 1.5 million backroom abortions occurring in the United States every year. Add to that abortifacient drugs and that number increases even more. The fact that abortion has become legal and less stigmatized leads me to think that behavior has become more reckless in this regard as well. Before I get everyone posting about how the consequences of pregnancy inevitably fall on the woman and how "that's not fair," I have to tell you that alone should make women super diligent when it comes to their reproductive capacity. If you're 16 years old, just say no! If you're a parent, teach your children cause and effect. If you're an adult woman, you should know better. I am in my 50's now, and I remember back in college abortion was routine among my fellow co-eds. Some had multiple abortions in those 4 years. I do not have a problem with contraception, but I do not view abortion as contraception. I view it as terminating the life of an unborn child. That, Ric, is where we differ.
Ric
10:25 am on Sunday, September 9, 2012
@Donna Griffin. You ran away from the issue of illegal backroom abortions like it was a house on fire. You said nary a word. Yet they were common up to the day Roe V Wade was decided and you and I both know that the rusty coat hanger will return if abortion is ever made illegal or hard to obtain.
So Donna, let me ask you again. Do you want to return to the days of illegal backroom abortions? Or you naïve enough to think somehow women will never use the coat hanger again if abortions is made illegal?
Donna Griffin
7:15 am on Monday, September 10, 2012
Ric - I am more than OK with defending 1.5 million human lives a year from a suction vacuum. I am also in favor of responsible behavior by adults. Women have choices with respect to when and with whom they engage in intercourse (clearly, I am excluding the case of rape). The sperm donors in those scenarios are, for better or worse, the choice of those women. If legal abortion were not a readily available option at virtually every stage of pregnancy, I conclude with certainty that the responsible use of contraceptive devices and the wise selection of those mates would increase therefore reducing the "unwanted burden." I posit that because underage children drink and sometimes die as a result of that drinking, shall we legalize it to permit their binge drinking while under adult supervision in order to avoid any lethal result? Do we as a civilized society ever draw a line in the sand and say that one must be responsible for the results of their actions and that indeed that consequence may not always be so convenient or pretty?
sp resident
8:48 am on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Just a few advice to you gals out there, YOU are the only one to protect yourselves from an unwanted pregnancy, hopefully we don't have the anti-contraceptive police coming. At the end of it all society will blame and point the finger at YOU for the bad decision that YOU and your husband/ boyfriend made. Please don't abort your baby even if the father of the baby and your parents wants you too. Raise the child even if the father and your parents does not wants to be involved, it's all on YOU! Life will be extremely hard as you will be laughed at, judged, and discriminated .Hopefully you will find a great number of people who encouraged your decision to help greatly along the way with food, clothing, shelter, medical, college and to hold your hand along this challenging time, if not YOU may be on your own! Just remember you did a great thing and society will be pleased also your baby!
Fred M
9:46 am on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Marylou, so basically it's about money for you in regards to abortion..Can't afford a new washing you don't buy it...Can't afford a child then DON'T HAVE SEX..You have no value to a life...If most people took your advise, very few people would have kids..
Ric
11:08 am on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
You put out a well thought out argument but the basis of your argument: that your view represents the universal truth is a lie. It is your point of view - not the universal truth.
My late mother was a Roman Catholic and the church taught me all Protestants were doomed to a thousand years in limbo. My late father was a Baptist and that church taught me all Catholics were doomed to an eternity in Hell. Both churches taught the universal truth. Funny how two faiths preach the opposite universal truth? You are the same.
You cannot even be honest that you hold your view because you are Catholic. Instead you play a dance around your Catholicism like a whirling dervish.
I would refrain from expressing my view if you simply urged your faithful not to have abortions. Instead you want laws prohibiting Protestants, Muslims, Zoroastrians, Jews, Janis, Hindus, and atheists among others from having an abortion. That is none of your business.
I do not understand why you as a male want laws to outlaw abortion. The chance you could get pregnant, like mine or your priest, is absolutely nil and none. I do not support abortion – I absolutely do not. But I do support that it is the woman’s right and only the right of the woman to make that decision. I recall the days up until the ‘70’s when abortion was illegal and women were dying from backroom abortions. There is no way we should ever return to that lunacy – even to please any pope.
Robert Way
11:24 am on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Ric, you can play the zealot card all you want, doesn't bother me in the least because it is simply an attempt to distract. Your attempt to wrap my arguments in zealotry and therefore dismiss them does nothing to refute their substance.
Your spray and pray of arguments at the end have all been addressed during the course of commenting by myself and a few others although I will note you are the first to come after me with the "coat-hanger defense" of the Pro-Choice position so I'll gladly start to address that more in subsequent comments.
Something more than a canned ad hominem rant would perhaps make your comments more credible.
Robert Way
11:36 am on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
As an aside, I would definitely agree with you that I do not believe I hold the "universal truth" nor for that matter believe I am one of the arbiters of it. Having said that, how are we as a society supposed to determine what truth is? Is it not through a process such as this where we reason our way through an issue? A process that allows for arguments on both sides to be weighed?
Not once in this entire thread have I chosen to attack a messenger instead of a message. Every single pro-choice argument that is made I take into consideration and do my best to apply reason as to whether or not it leads me down a different path other than the one that leads to accepting the Pro-Life Platform as being true.
Ric
11:47 am on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Robert, you are a clown. The words you responded with actually describe the crap you wrote. Must be hard for you to understand that you do not speak the universal truth but you do spew some real class garbage.
Ric
11:50 am on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Robert, excuse my manners. I forgot you only want responses that agree with you.
Donna Griffin
11:51 am on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Ric...It's time for you to cross your hands on your desktop and put on your listening ears. Your script is haggard and worn and very intolerant of opposing views.
Robert Way
12:03 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Not the case Ric, each and every opposing argument is welcome. I will readily admit that I probably could have done a better job in my initial piece regarding truth, or what is true, or "universal truth" to use your words. Whether truth exists or not could easily spin off into a whole other thread of length significantly longer than this one.
Despite my inability to really convey the definitive notion of truth, I think it is safe to say that everyone in this thread, on both side of the abortion issue would agree that it is a truth that willingly killing an innocent person is morally wrong. Now my attempt here is not to compare that to an abortion, although I use a similar example elsewhere to do just that, but instead to raise the point that some process was used, some exercise of reasoning by society was followed to come to that conclusion.
That is all I am trying to do, use that process to determine if the Pro-Life position holds the same truth for the unborn.
B.Bennett
11:35 am on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
simple answer - if you are not female, we don't care what you think as it is our decision and ours only and none of your business....
Robert Way
11:38 am on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
So I guess you are willing to accept my response to WBelmarmom further up the page where if a bunch of female Pro-life politicians and Supreme Court judges were to overturn Roe v Wade you would support it?
marylou
12:12 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Robert,Women have the right to decide whether or not to carry THEIR OWN pregnancies to term.And many times,it's the sperm donor who wants her to terminate it.I think the term that many use is"get rid if it."So,if a pro-life female politian or judge decides to carry her pregnancy to term,it is her right.While I am pro-choice,I would never tell any pregnant woman or girl to abort.
Ric
12:55 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
It is a shame Robert that since you speak the “truth” that you cannot possibly see the flip side to your positions.
If a bunch of female Pro-Choice politicians and Supreme Court judges were to affirm Roe v Wade you would support it?
Of course you wouldn’t. You and your Roman Catholic church want to impose your Catholic “truth” on all women. As you noted, Jesus did not speak up against abortion even though Romans were regularly aborting fetuses. Of course you could truthfully point out Jesus and the Bible endorsed slavery and more than one pope was a slave trader….
Robert Way
1:27 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Ric, I can absolutely see the flip side to my positions, I regularly take them into consideration to challenge my position and make every effort to work through opposing views.
The problem is, not a single Pro-Choice argument can effectively make the case as to why an unborn human life does not possess the same right to life as a born human life. Every single Pro-Choice argument fails to debunk the Pro-Life notion that human life begins at conception and has intrinsic value (value because of WHAT it is, not because it acquires it through function), therefore human personhood affording to it the same right to life as born human life.
The Pro-Life position draws its line in the sand at conception, the Pro-Choice position refuses to draw that line in the sand somewhere between conception and being born with the cord cut and defend that line using scientific and philosophical arguments.
Robert Way
1:32 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Ric, you said "If a bunch of female Pro-Choice politicians and Supreme Court judges were to affirm Roe v Wade you would support it? "
My point was that just because I am not a woman, it doesn't mean that I can't be part of the conversation. It meant no more and no less than just that.
Nora
1:40 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Robert, pro-choice people rarely refuse to draw the line in the sand or defend it with science and philosophical arguments. Our line and arguments just are not the same as yours. And while you don't think that our arguments hold, we don't think that yours do either which is why we still disagree :)
Ric
1:48 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Robert, if you really can see the opposite view why then challenge both women to your meaningless question about the courts? Oh, I forgot, they are women and you are a man and because of the shape of your "being" you are superior.
Robert Way
1:52 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Nora, I would agree with you because Pro-Life arguments focus on the unborn whereas Pro-Choice arguments focus on the woman. I am going to assume that you would agree with that.
The part I do not understand, is why do the majority of Pro-Choice advocates and arguments not address the unborn. Now, I know that you may say the same thing about Pro-Life advocates by asking why don't their arguments focus on or pay any mind to the mother but I would argue that they do, evident by the posts of Michelle Krystofik's posts in this thread regarding the post-abortive issues a woman and at times a man struggles with.
For Pro-Life advocates, the unborn is the main issue to be dealt with, before it is dealt with, the full attention cannot be devoted to addressing the responsibilities we have as a society to fully support the woman of an unwanted pregnancy through both the pregnancy and her decision to parent that child or put that child up for adoption after birth.
This is not to say it is a "one must be done before the other can" because the support mechanism for unwanted pregnancies continues to grow and I have been contemplating whether or not make known what those resources are somewhere in this thread but out of fear of it getting lost I amy do a totally separate blog post that seeks not to reignite the debate going on here but instead publicize resources women can look to for support.
Robert Way
2:14 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Ric - "they are women and you are a man and because of the shape of your "being" you are superior". Really???? Blatantly false accusation aside, it that really the best you're capable of coming up with? At least @MILITANT ANTI-THEIST accused me of being an inbred further up in the comments section. Surely you can do better than that....
Nora
2:19 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Robert. As you say you do think of the woman, just as we think of the unborn too,
but our conclusions are different. The values(for lack of a better word) that we place on the different aspects of abortion are different.
There is no science on either side that is "better" than that of the other, so then it comes down to what we believe is right.
As for Michelle Krystofik's post I replied to that saying that yes some have post-abortive issues but others do not and feel like it was the right thing for them for the rest of their lives.
Both sides believe they have the best arguments in this discussion. As for more support being needed, I do agree that it does. With a better support system more women who did not really want to terminate might keep their pregnancies. However, the option of having an abortion for those who do not want to continue their pregnancies should still be there. (and then we're back at where we disagree on values and rights and definitions and all that) Honestly I think there will always be 2 sides
Robert Way
3:31 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Nora, I think without question there will always be two sides and would argue that somewhere between the outer edges of both those sides there exists a simple truth which is why this debate is healthy to continue.
In regard to one side or the other having better science, I don't believe either side has "its science". The scientific community as a whole has acknowledged for quite some time that a new human life does indeed begin at conception. Some of the most vocal Pro-Choice Apologists acknowledge that scientific conclusion and instead have focused their arguments around the personhood issue which is more philosophical.
Nora
3:59 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Robert, I don't think there is any simple truth, or rather the truth for you is
not neccesarily the truth for me.This is as you say philosophical.
As for the science, when something is alive is generally agreed on in the way that cells divide and this is the same for plants, bacteria, birds, everything.
There is however much more advanced science used in the abortion discussion, and it is not all black and white. As a p.s I have to say that the term Pro-Choice Apologist is strange, I don't feel like it's anything that needs apologizing any more than Pro-Life? Though it could be a language thing that I just don't get.
Robert Way
4:02 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Nora, "apologist" is just a term for someone that argues for some point of view. A long time ago I too was confused and asked "why are people going around apologizing for their position?"
http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/apologist
uniony
12:02 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Please explain to me how a person can be both "Pro-Life" and believe that the "Stand Your Ground" law is defensible. Early-term abortion is a pregnant woman asserting her right to "Stand Her Ground". Anyone else is a hypocrite.
Murder is legal if it is in self-defense. Past 20 weeks, self-defense is not a reason for an abortion as the fetus is viable and does not need to "trespass" any more.
The abortion debate will go nowhere until pro-choice folks admit that abortion is murder, but justified by self-defense.
Robert Way
12:11 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Easy, I don't remember the last time I read a story that documented an unborn child attempt pre-meditated murder of the woman it is carrying.
I am not so sure your stretch to align first trimester abortions with "Stand your ground" is one that a lot of your Pro-Choice brethren will circle the wagons around you on but I could just as easily be wrong in that assumption.
uniony
12:29 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
The problem with Stand Your Ground is the same problem with early-term abortion - to you, there is no way an unborn child can be a threat to the pregnant woman. To a pregnant woman who is not emotionally or financially able to carry a child let alone raise a child, the unborn child may be a threat. To not recognize that that is the key issue of both abortion and Stand Your Ground, is to fool yourself. The Trayvon Martin case will likely be decided in favor of Mr. Zimmerman, because even though he pursued the young man, he believed that the man had a gun and was a threat. Taking away a woman's right to kill someone who will not leave and will essentially permanently disable her (in her mind) is immoral.
You are SO hung up on the lives of "the unborn" that you don't realize how many children are suffering by being born into horrible circumstances. And you don't realize how many mothers give up their lives (how many fathers give up their lives?) for that "ideal" of "life is more important than quality of life".
Robert Way
1:09 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
uniony - I'd like to ask you to clarify one of the points you made in your last comment where you said "To a pregnant woman who is not emotionally or financially able to carry a child let alone raise a child, the unborn child may be a threat".
Are you saying that the unborn child is a threat to the woman's "way of life" or indeed a genuine threat to her life, i.e. the woman actually thinks that if the child is born that the struggle to provide for that child will kill her?
The second part of your comment is teetering on the notion that there are certain people in society that are better equipped to determine whether another human life should be allowed to live because they may not ever obtain some arbitrarily decided "quality of life". Am I to believe that you would be willing to support an initiative to sweep the nation to find all those children who may be in "suffering" and "alleviate" their pain?
uniony
1:31 pm on Wednesday, September 5, 2012
Yes, I am saying exactly that - the major reason that women have abortions NOT due to a medical issue is that the unborn child IS a threat to her way of life, her livelihood, her happiness, her ability to function as a normal human being. People talk about "what if Beethoven, Einstein, Churchill were aborted"? How about what if the person who will cure cancer makes a mistake, gets pregnant, and drops out of college to have the baby and work in the McDonald's? What if she can't go to graduate school (note: without being accused of abandoning her children) and can't cure cancer? Isn't the life of the mother worth the same as the life of the child?
I lost a very high paying job because I have a special needs son and had to leave work to pick him up from school. I now make less than half my expected salary so I can help my son when he needs it. The government does NOTHING to help me, but luckily I am well off enough and get by - and have a spouse with a job too.
In NJ, there are countless cases of child abuse that are not only indications of how miserable a child's life can be, but how miserable their parent has gotten to physically injure a child. Once that baby is born, what help is there? Are there social programs to provide babysitting so that mother can go back to school? No.
It's easy to be anti-abortion when you only consider one life, the life of the child, and ignore the life of the mother. It is anti-woman to not allow early-term abortions.
ASimon
12:33 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Robert, you have at least acknowledged in your response to me that you and the Republican party, who have embraced your "zygote is a person" view, would view a woman having an abortion in the same way you view a woman beating a toddler to death (or actually asking another to do so). The fact that the Republican party, in their platform, is seeking an amendment to the Constitution to codify that worldview, should serve as a wake up call to all women. While this extreme view has been advocated by Chris Smith for years, never has there been a time where the Republican establishment has adopted it so openly. I take them at their word and as a result will be voting for Brian Froelich. This little peek into the mind of a "pro-life" supporter has only made the choice easier.
John Jay
12:52 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
marylou - Contrary to your belief, not every teen age boy and girl in Manalapan-Englishtown is having sex. Your argument is basically EVERY boy and girl will have sex regardless of parents, religion, morals, education; etc.
Well, your "inevitability" argument might work for YOUR kids -- it doesn't work for mine. My kids have their own brain, go to church, get great grades, play in sports, and are very musically and artistically creative -- they don't drink booze, they don't smoke/take dope, and they aren't whores and/or cads -- they are simply GOOD KIDS.
Planned Parenthood has NO RIGHT whatsoever to come into MY PUBLIC SCHOOLS to push their agfenda on ANYONE children. Period. Their agenda negates the God-given right of parents to guide their children. My kids don't belong to YOU or the STATE. End of story.
"marylou 12:08 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012 People are going to have sex.Some use effective birth control and unwanted pregnacies don't occur.And when they do,the pro-life crowd will do whatever they can to see that the fetus is carried to term.After that,it seems that they don't give a darn.So,unless they are going to adopt or other wise support all of those children,they should STFU."
marylou
1:45 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
I never said that every high school student in any high school is going to have sex.You man not think your's will because of thei way you have raised them,but you don't know for sure.I'm sure that many young people who were raised with the same values you have will or have had sex.Sometimes,they think they know better.My son went to public school.No one taught him that it was OK to have sex and that it was OK to have an abortion.What was taught is that the only method that is 100% effective all the time is abstience.For those who choose to have sex,there are other ways,but none of them is 100%effective.Would you disagree with that? Those public school are for all of our kids,They are not yours alone.
Incidently,my son was also broght up not to drink,use drugs.He graduated in the top 10 of his highschool class and entered college with 29 credits he earned from taking AP classes and passing all of the tests.He played a different sports year round. I'm not 100% sure that he never had sex while in high school,but I doubt thst he had the time,
PP's agenda is to keep people from having children if they don't want them or cannot afford them.Contrary to what you think,they actually do counsel girls and young women on the methods of birth control available so that they never have abortions.And they do offer those who do have an unwanted pregnancy options other than abortion.My neighbor's 17 yr. old decided went to them for an abortion and was talked out of it.
Mattie
4:22 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Not every female who gets a LEGAL abortion is a teen, by the way.
Not every female who gets a LEGAL abortion is unmarried, either. Nor is every female who requests a LEGAL abortion irresponsible, or too stupid to use birth control of one kind or another. Not every female who seeks a LEGAL abortion is a slut or immoral.
Same can be said for Planned Parenthood. The vast majority of women who use their *varied* services are not sexually promiscuous teens sneaking around trying to get birth control (or abortions) behind their parents' backs.... Grow up.
And PP might not have to go to school if ignorant parents like you allowed our public schools to teach comprehensive, *real life* sex education, instead of pandering to religious nutcases who want to live in the 20th century and keep their kids ignorant too. Also, you have the option to pull your kid out of any PP talk or class they hold in any public school. No one is forcing you to educate your kids... much the pity for them.
uniony
1:33 pm on Wednesday, September 5, 2012
Please explain how you know your kids aren't whores or cads. My best friend was a goody-goody, valedictorian, and was schtumping a girl for months in high schol, no birth control, with neither set of parents any the wiser. He was VERY lucky that the worst that happened was the girl starting to buy Bride magazine so he bagged out. You would be surprised I guess.
Sean McCullen
12:57 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Just a question. One I've been thinking about since Rep. Akin's comments of a few weekends ago and one I've not heard discussed anywhere.
Do we really want the DNA of a rapist being passed on?
Robert Way
1:15 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
If I may rephrase your question and then ask for you to answer it...
Do we really want the DNA of physically disabled person to be passed on?
Do we really want the DNA of a mentally disabled person to be passed on?
Do we really want the DNA of a (insert your imperfection of choice here) to be passed on?
That question leads down the slippery slope of "purifying the human race".
Sean McCullen
1:54 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
OK, and I'll await your reply to my question, as opposed to the "slippery slope" non-answer you just gave me.
Question 1: Yes. Why not? A physically disabled person isn't likely to attack my mother, sister, daughter ...
Question 2: Again, sure. Why not? A mentally disabled person isn't likely to attack my mother, sister, daughter ...
Question 3: Let's start at rapist, and we can go from there.
Ball's in your court.
Ric
6:54 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Sean, Robert will not answer you because he will come out as a hypocrite. Instead he will play games with your question. The guy is so full of himself.
When I put forth a question to him based on what he had asked two women, he danced away from answering.
Again, Robert: If a bunch of female Pro-Choice politicians and Supreme Court judges were to affirm Roe v Wade you would support it?
Robert Way
8:31 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Sean, I was simply trying to illustrate a point, not avoid your question. In answering it directly I would say that there is no reason to not let the DNA of a rapist be passed on. Can you conclusively prove that rapists reproduce rapists? No you cannot, therefore your answers to my questions fall flat on their face because DNA can't attack your mother and you make the assumption that if a rapist were to reproduce the result would be another rapist.
And the slippery slope reference stands because it is that mindset that lead people to believe persons of one skin color could own persons of another and persons of a certain "purity of race" could turn other persons into lamp shades.
I "play games with your question" as Ric suggests not to avoid them but to maybe provoke some thought on your part so I don't have to spoon feed you everything to explain why your question is flawed in the first place.
Robert Way
8:40 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Ric - "Again, Robert: If a bunch of female Pro-Choice politicians and Supreme Court judges were to affirm Roe v Wade you would support it?"
No I would not support it because as I have stated before, just because I am not a woman does not mean I cannot have a voice in the discussion nor try to influence policy via the voting booth.
As for being full of myself, I have no such inclination, this exercise has nothing to do with "look how smart I am" or trying to beat everyone in a debate. It is an exercise to try and provoke some reasoned conversation about a topic that is still very divisive. Each and every time I engage in this conversation it forces me confirm or deny that which I reason to be true by taking other people's arguments into consideration.
I have not dismissed one persons arguments in this entire thread, even when a little sarcasm finds its way into my comments I still address each individuals arguments with as much substance as time and space will allow for.
Ric
8:41 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Robert, you are so full of it that your eyes turned brown.
Robert Way
8:51 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Ric - "Robert, you are so full of it that your eyes turned brown."
Thanks for contributing up until this point, it is unfortunate you have chosen to disengage.
uniony
1:36 pm on Wednesday, September 5, 2012
If you believe that the children have to pay for the sins of the father, I guess not.
I am pro-choice, but I don't think the view that "rapist = evil = children of a rapist don't deserve to live" is fair. It is up to the woman if she can live with that. Otherwise, wouldn't we have to kill all existing children of rapists too? Or is the act of rape evil, but if his (or her) other kids were conceived without rape, that's okay?
If you are for a woman's right to choose, you need to let her choose based on her own physical, mental, family, and financial situation. That includes giving her the right to keep a child whose father raped her.
Sean McCullen
1:55 pm on Wednesday, September 5, 2012
Well said, Uniony. I wasn't suggesting with my question that a woman not be given a choice to keep a child that would be born as the result of rape. I'm suggesting the pro-life movement would be better served dropping the argument that pregnancies resulting from rape should also be made illegal. And I don't buy the "slippery slope" response. It's a non-answer. To answer Robert's question: Is there a guarantee that the child of a rapist will himself/herself become a rapist? No. Of course not. So, I cannot "conclusively" say he or she will. But, that said, genetics show that children of people who are predisposed to violent acts are, in fact, more likely to be violent themselves. Rape is as much about violence and control as it is sexual gratification, if not more.
John Jay
1:06 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
uniony -- Are you kidding me? So I am supposed to stand by and HOPE the bad guy that just broke into my house is not going to harm my wife and kids?
Typical liberal ideology -- lay down and submit instead of taking a stand.
Every law since the dawn of mankind permits the use of deadly force to defend one's life and/or family. Morons in England, however, decided to give criminals more rights than citizens.
"uniony 12:02 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012 Please explain to me how a person can be both "Pro-Life" and believe that the "Stand Your Ground" law is defensible."
uniony
1:39 pm on Wednesday, September 5, 2012
You made my point. That unborn child is a threat to the mother. There is no reason to have an abortion unless the unborn child is a threat to the mother's physical, mental, or financial health. That woman is defending her life, and if she has other kids who would suffer due to another mouth to feed, she is defending her family.
John Jay
1:25 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Robert Way -- I bet none of the "pro-choice" people are familiar with the United States eugenics courts on the early 20th Century.
Tens of thousands of people were sterilized from the late 1910s to the mid-1970s.
marylou
5:43 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
John,there are many people,probably most of them who consider themselves to be conservatives,who would love to have parents who neglect and abuse their kids sterilized,not to mention the ones who start having babies when they are teenagers and continue to have them until they reach menopause.You know,the ones that the conservatives while about supporting.
uniony
1:41 pm on Wednesday, September 5, 2012
Of course I've heard of eugenics, and seen recent articles on compensation. You are talking about sterilization against one's will, as opposed to letting people choose.
Ever taken a bioethics class? I have.
AStar Gazer
1:45 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Lets go deeper. Is it okay to destroy embryos? Use surrogates? Test tube babies, otherwise known as In vitro fertilization (IVF)? Is this just humans pushing their ‘pride’ thing and playing God?
John Jay
2:56 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
marylou -- Planned Parenthood has been politically motivated and eugenics-inspired from day 1. According to its own literature it targeted "young women, low-income women, and women of color."
If you wanted to bring in medical college doctors to lecture a class about the biology behind human reproduction and the medical procedures invovled with having an abortion, that's fine with me.
Planned Parenthood has no place in the public schools and should receive no public money. PERIOD. They have a political agenda and they undermine parental rights.
As for your son: congrats. I am glad he turned out the way he did...and please don't tell me you can thank Planned Parenthood for it.
marylou
5:59 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
John,if you don't want your kids to learn the facts about reproduction and contraception,perhaps you should home school them or sent them to a school that ahres your beliefs.I would rather have teenagers who are going to be sexualy active know how to prevent pregnancy so that abortion is not an issue that they have to deal with.And they should know how to prevent STDs,
uniony
1:44 pm on Wednesday, September 5, 2012
Hmm. Maybe there is a BIG reason to target those groups? It's the same reason that free law centers target those groups. Rich white women have no problem being found not guilty of killing their kid. Poor black women are strung up.
Planned Parenthood exists because EVERY rich woman had the easy ability to get an abortion when she needed it, and EVERY rich man had the easy ability to get a doctor to "slip his girlfriend a pill" to induce abortion or cause an abortion through a "check-up".
It's like saying we are targeting poor people for free lunches - uh, yeah, because middle-class and rich people don't need free lunches.
John Jay
3:21 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
By the way marylou -- Here's a nice example of our tax money going to waste:
About 50% of the attendees of the 2010 NJ Planned Parenthood sex education conference were teachers and administrators from New Jersey's public schools. My $250/person my tax dollars paid for discussions about:
* Anal sex toys
* Dr. Eva Goldfarb, professor and chairperson of the Department of Health and Nutrition Sciences at Montclair State University singing "Masturbation can be fun, join the holy orgy, Kama Sutra, everyone"
* Discussions about the different flavors and textures of condoms
* Why 9th grade girls are watching hard core porn...
This year's conference (see: http://sexedconference.com/about-cfle/) costs $325 (for Registration through November 4, 2012) and features such child-friendly subjects as:
* Viva La Vulva: What’s Up with Down There? Female sexuality need not be an enigma, wrapped in a riddle, enveloped by a vulva mystery.
* Real People. Fake Sex. Teens have faster, cheaper, more reliable access to pornography...This workshop is not about whether pornography is good or bad, degrading or empowering.
* You get to play such wonderful activities as: "Fertilization - The Board Game"; "Contraceptive Dominoes" and; "Name that Contraceptive"
...Don't forget the keynote speaker: Fired Surgeon General, Joycelyn Elders! She was fired because she believes masturbation "perhaps should be taught" to schoolchildren.
I guess NAMBLA will be there next year.
Mattie
4:11 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
I would find your posts hilarious (especially the last one) if not for the fact you BELIEVE all that nonsense you are spewing about PP. Let me ask you, "John" when was the last time you actually walked into a real PP building and sat down with a counselor and asked what they do there and who they treat? When was the last time you actually attended one of their expensive seminars where they talk about sex toys and listened to a Viva La Vulva talk? You mean to tell me they didn't bother with discussing the very real and present 'dangers' of sex and or the lack of (reproductive) health care at all, huh? No talk about STDs and prevention or treatments; no describing the different cancer screenings and other reproductive system testing they do; no chat about birth control or abstinence, either? Wow, just sex toys and pornography for young girls....!
Yeah, well unless you can come up with a link to this 'inside information' and it not being to some Ultra-conservative/Christian (sponsored) fear mongering propaganda site... I call you out as a straight-up liar.
See, I'm a grown adult woman, and I have been in a couple of PP offices - both for myself and with other women. I know first hand "what really goes on" there. So I'm calling you out on your bs.
Mattie
4:45 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
from your one link:
"The CFLE is also the publisher of sexuality education manuals used throughout the world. Guides range from how to answer young children’s questions about sexuality to teaching senior citizens about sex ed. Every age in between is addressed, providing sexuality educators with user-friendly, cost-effective lesson plans addressing puberty, healthy and unhealthy relationships, contraception, sexual safety, and much more. CFLE publications are available at www.SexEdStore.com. "
They show ALL the pamphlets and workbooks they provide TO ADULTS to assist in teaching sex education to CHILDREN OF ALL AGES, (the reason there are 'games' and other teaching techniques, instead of plain, boring text to read).
Gee, no pamphlets or mention of pornography for kids or sex toys.... how could I have missed all that??
John Jay
4:48 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Mattie - The topics I posted were literally copied and pasted off the Planned Parenthood's site for their sex ed conference for 2012. Did you not click on the link? Here it is again since you missed it the first time http://sexedconference.com/about-cfle/
Read the agenda and topics slowly. With the ousted Surgeon General J. Elders leading the parade, I am sure it will be more fun than Ringling Brothers!
So, don't call my posts BS since your fury blinded your abilty to see the link.
BTW -- Based on the topics, I was quite serious that I expect NAMBLA to be there one day soon. Holy cow...the whole world is going nuts!
marylou
5:38 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Yes,John the world is going nuts.You proved it.
Mattie
7:30 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
I clicked on that link you just gave me again..... same page as before, don't see any of those 'topics' you posted. Again, this is a cut n copy from the link YOU JUST GAVE US:
"The Center for Family Life Education (CFLE) has been hosting an annual Sex Ed Conference since 1985. What started as a one-day conference for New Jersey health educators has grown into the largest conference in the United States that is exclusively devoted to sexuality education. Participants attend from across the nation and many other parts of the world to network and learn best practices in sexuality education, addressing a spectrum of topics, audiences, and ages.
The CFLE is also the publisher of sexuality education manuals used throughout the world. Guides range from how to answer young children’s questions about sexuality to teaching senior citizens about sex ed. Every age in between is addressed, providing sexuality educators with user-friendly, cost-effective lesson plans addressing puberty, healthy and unhealthy relationships, contraception, sexual safety, and much more. CFLE publications are available at www.SexEdStore.com
Mattie
7:31 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
MORE FROM THE LINK YOU PROVIDED:
. The website is introducing a membership option where members can access searchable, electronic versions of the lesson plans. This option is available when registering for the conference.
The CFLE, led by executive director Bill Taverner, considered an expert in sexuality education, provides keynotes, workshops, inservice training, and other professional development at reasonable fees.
The CFLE is dedicated to the proposition that all people have a right to education that will help them understand, appreciate and take responsibility for their sexuality.
Based in Morristown, NJ, it is the national education division of Planned Parenthood of Central and Greater Northern New Jersey."
John Jay
6:45 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Planned Parenthood in action: killing unborn children based on their gender: http://www.youtube.com/user/LiveActionFilms?v=1q6_Nx3f4EU
What Planned Parenthood does at this this Arizona clinic is not only immoral, it's illegal.
Mattie
7:53 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Another lie. John, YouTube is not a reliable source for truthful information. It's 100 times worse than Wikipedia for reliability and cite-ability. ANYONE can post a video saying ANYTHING they want to. There are no credentials needed. The Youtube BS you linked me to was posted by who-knows-what kind of "organization", funded and supported by who knows who.
Also, gender-based abortions? Really John?
Ok, so lets deal with FACTS not fear, OK?
Something like 95% of ALL abortions in the USA are done PRIOR to the 13th week of gestation. The vast majority of that 95% are done PRIOR to the 10th week of gestation.... gender is generally not known before the 4th or 5th month of gestation.
That means between the 16th - 20th week. Therefore (let's put on our critical thinking skill cap) the 95% of ALL abortions all across America are NOT even thought to be done on the whim of parents who aren't happy finding out they are expecting a boy or girl. Jesus, get a grip and read up on the facts John. You are spreading hysterical (and stupid) rumors based in NO facts whatsoever.
Mattie
8:30 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Another very important FACT you need to wrap your brain around, John...
Planned Parenthood proved (over and over again) that only 3% of their clientele are there seeking abortions. Read that again- 3%.
Of those 3% seeking abortions at Planned Parenthood, exactly O (ZERO) dollars is used from federal funding/taxes for abortions. Again, ZERO FEDERAL FUNDS.
Because of stringent oversight making sure not even 10 goddamn cents of anyone's precious tax dollars should happen to slide over and pay for some poor woman's termination.... MOST planned parenthood offices in NJ don't even OFFER abortion services in their own building! They refer women elsewhere.
They are so paranoid of losing government funding for all the OTHER wonderful and badly needed health care services they provide for uninsured and under-insured women - of ALL ages and ALL colors - that they won't take a chance anyone may misconstrue what goes on in their offices.
By the way, John, you do realize that *males* go to PP clinics too, right? Yes, many of them go there for birth control, STD tests, counseling, parenting classes, etc. Yeah, imagine that... it's NOT just an women's abortion mill after all......
John Jay
6:51 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
So isn't that GREAT, folks? In New Jersey it is 100% LEGAL to kill an unborn child based on its sex.
Sounds like Communist China doesn't it? Do any of these Left Wingers want to chime in?
How come it's OK to kill an unborn child based on its sex?
hypocrites stink
8:06 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
No really when did u ever step into a pp clinic? When I went there the women were kind and informative....THEY PUSHED ADOPTION NOT ABORTION, pyscho John. I don't care WHAT your supposed itinerary says, the REALITY. Is no one EVEF talked to me about my vula or sex toys, for crying out loud! I would have left, you old man-perve! Where the HELL. do you get off acting like you know what goes on in there! Stay away from me an my rights and ALL WOMEN. Dirty old pig. I feel sorry for any daughters you have. Go worry about viagra or your penis or getting men to stand up for the babies they want us to get rid of!! Get a life period.
uniony
7:40 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Grandma who can't fend for herself and a late-term fetus are the same thing - people who could easily become wards of the state. You can't somehow make an early-term fetus survive outside of the mother, the mother has no choice and is forced to provide for the fetus. Grandma can be dropped off at a state agency, or you can abandon her at a hospital - as you can a baby born after 20 weeks gestation.
The point is that any government that does not allow late-term abortions is forcing a pregnant woman to provide for someone who can become a ward of the state.
And regarding making 9th graders "watching porn" we were forced to watch one particular famous extremely graphic abortion film in public school due to the religious agenda of our health teacher. I suppose you can say I'm a hypocrite because I eat meat and know what happens to cows, let alone pigs and chickens, when they are raised to be slaughtered and when they are slaughtered.
hypocrites stink
8:24 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Oh my fricking goodness.....someone push psycho Johns OFF button! Mrs. John.....why do u take his muzzle off after sundown? His knuckles are so bloody please take care of him! Oh wait......its your duty to submit to his superior male intellect. Damn. Well cant you at least go make "little Mr. John" happy? Then maybe he wouldn't have so much time to worry about my PERSONAL BUSINESS!! If that doesn't work please open up MR JOHNS FREE BABYSITTING AND MEDICAL CLINIC FOR GIRLS THAT JUST SAY NO TO ABORTION! DUDE obviously has way too much free time.
hypocrites stink
8:53 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Is it just me or is anyone else tired of seeing these dudes extrapolating from women wanting abortion rights into grandma and toddlers homicide!!! Yes it damn well is a HUGE REACH as well as a ridiculous and inflammatory tactic!! I don't care how many women sit in your camp either....if you are a dude YOU WILL NEVER EVER KNOW what its like to be judged, mocked, discriminated against, and shunned for being an unmarried women with her gut hanging with all the world knowing her shame. Its so easy for you guys to stand on your righteous little soapboxes! You're not down in the trenches fighting to survive! I'm so sick of this crap .....I read this whole page wondering if I will ever see a pro-life viewpoint that actually answers the realities of real life -not just some airy -fairy pompous idealists who know NOTHING -NADA -WORD ONE of what a woman has to deal with in keeping an unwanted pregnancy. And don't hand me that snotty comeback "then keep your legs closed " cuz it takes 2 to make a pregnancy and 9 times out of 10 the guy doesn't want it anyhow!!!
Robert Way
9:22 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
hypocrites - the purpose of using "grandmas and toddlers" as a comparison is to try and get someone on the Pro-Choice side of the equation to define what the difference is between grandmas and toddlers and the unborn. Grandmas and toddlers obviously enjoy the protection of a right to life, what is it that makes the unborn less privileged to that same right?
The comparison seeks to address the philosophical aspect of the issue which is personhood, a topic that is debated by folks that dedicate their lives to both sides of this argument in formal public debate forums so it is not a huge reach or ridiculous and inflammatory tactic.
The realities of an unwanted pregnancy are indeed real and I don't think anyone advocating the Pro-Life position is dismissing or minimizing how real they are. I myself have mentioned society has a duty to fully support women of unwanted pregnancies both throughout the pregnancy as well as after birth much in the manner that such services exist today.
Is trying to give voice to someone that has no voice really standing on a soapbox? If one believes that the unborn are indeed worthless, expendable, blobs of tissue, not worthy of status as persons with an inherit right to life then I guess that person would say it is.
And yell if you will but it does matter that there are women that sit in the Pro-Life camp because many of them actually have walked the path that you speak of.
Commenting
10:02 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
"I made it very clear that people of faith, ANY FAITH, are usually more willing and more compelled to voice and defend their principles.".
Mr Way, is this another of your mind numbing opinions, or can you substantiate the information or cite one of your known theories. You lack credibility.
mary54
10:42 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Donna Griffin: By viability I meant the court-defined viability. Once born, people should be able to live out their lives to the fullest. No committee-determined terminations (except voluntary, a la Kavorkian) in old age.
A married man should, of course, have a say in the decision of his wife to abort or not abort. After all, he will be responsible for the child after birth. The woman, her husband, and their doctor should make the decision jointly. Unmarried fathers are another question. It is easy for them, except maybe for some social pressure, to just step away and leave the woman alone to bring up the child.
Donna Griffin
1:08 pm on Wednesday, September 5, 2012
mary - You still really haven't answered my questions. You are in favor of the legislated ability to terminate life in the womb. You are also in favor of the legislated ability to terminate life outside of the womb. When drawing legislation, there are details which need to be hammered out. To suggest that it is up to the woman, leaves a lot of room for interpretation. Again, two-year olds are a handful and even moreso for a single mother. Should there be the ability to euthanize them? How about a difficult delivery resulting in a child born with a handicap? Would you propose euthanizing the baby outside the womb because it doesn't fit the mold of perfection the parent had anticipated? How about grandma, who may have a couple medical problems, but whose children stand to inherit a bundle? Shall we kill her off too for the greater good? I think you're looking for a whole lot of gray in a subject which I find to be much more black and white. What is human life and does it have value and merit protection? My definition of human life does not include words like "convenience" or "unwanted." Without science stating that life begins on day 91st of pregnancy or ends on your 80th birthday, I'd much prefer erring on the side of caution.
stuffin
10:49 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Continued;
An Eskimo asked the priest; “if you never told me about heaven and hell, good and evil, when I died I would go to heaven, but since you made me aware I will go to hell if I’m doubtful. So why the heck did you make me aware of good and evil/heaven and hell? Sounds eerily like an unborn's predicament.
Religion wanted to control the hearts and mind of the people just like it did in Europe (with the help of governments) prior to the formation of the United States of America which was created by Deists so Americans could have Freedom from Religion, not Freedom of Religion.
Oh yeah, since god determines the time of conception, birth and death, wouldn’t abortion be his accountability for the death of an unborn human when it is aborted. He chooses the mother’s path, the fetus’ path and the all-powerful, omnipresent being that controls the universe.
Please don’t go the freedom of choice, since god prohibits it. OK make me prove it….
John Jay
5:04 am on Wednesday, September 5, 2012
Mattie, why is it OK to abort an unborn child in the US based on its sex? That's not my opinion, that's "the law" is the majority of states. The hidden video shows how Planned Parenthood breaks the law. That's pretty screwed up, don't you think?
As for bias -- are you trying to tell me Planned Parenthood is bias-free? You're very funny.
Ric
8:02 am on Wednesday, September 5, 2012
How they hell can you abort an unborn child? To become a child, the fetus has to go through the birth process.
You are as daft as Bobby Way.
Robert Way
8:18 am on Wednesday, September 5, 2012
Ric - "the fetus has to go through the birth process"
And just when is it during the "birth process" that a fetus magically transforms into a child? Where is that line in the sand? Is it after the unborn is completely outside the mother? Is it before or after the umbilical cord is cut?
You can call me silly all you want but it will serve you better to explain your claim.
Mattie
8:41 am on Wednesday, September 5, 2012
Ok, last time; If you're having an abortion during the LEGAL time frame for abortions, there's no way to know WHAT the sex of the fetus is.... Didn't you understand that in my other post? You can't tell the sex of a fetus for at least 5 months. Once 20 weeks gestation has past, "legal" abortion is limited to other factors, like severe birth defects or medical safety of the woman, etc.
American Women are not flocking for abortions because they don't like the gender of their fetus. That's Propaganda. We don't need a law on the books for every single imaginary reason crazy pro-lifers can come up with. Early-term abortions are legal in this country, and that is based on science- not religion. If your religion forbids it, then don't consider it an option for you or yours...
Ric
8:43 am on Wednesday, September 5, 2012
@Robert Way.
The moment when it is born.
Next question? Or perhaps you want to discuss the right to die with dignity. I am a bona fide expert on that subject, thank you. Heck, even a priest dammed me to hell over that.
Mattie
12:36 pm on Wednesday, September 5, 2012
Robert Way-
The correct/scientific terms for the being in a woman's womb is either "zygote", "embryo" or "fetus" depending on the age of gestation. "Baby" is a non-medical term used by nearly all of us (I'll grant you that) for a fetus that has been born. It is also a common term used for the fetus at all stages of gestation, but technically, Ric is correct as far as proper and/or scientific labels for the pre-born.
uniony
1:24 pm on Wednesday, September 5, 2012
The funniest part is that the vast majority of abortions due to gender have a very strong religious reasons behind them.
John Jay
5:10 am on Wednesday, September 5, 2012
Very good, TP. You can't debate, so you engage in personal attacks and try to libel me. What a desperate attempt.
The burden of proof doesn't fall on me, TP. I already posted my link directly to the source. SO, if you want to prove the actual source is wrong, have a blast!
Doesn't it infuriate you that you cannot defeat people when the truth is on their side?
"TP 11:39 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012 John Jay: Since you apparently have such a large cache of information about hard core porn and masturbation, perhaps you can post the video of Dr. Eva Goldfarb doing the things you allege."
faye wattleton
8:27 am on Wednesday, September 5, 2012
john jay killing an unborn child in a 40 minute procedure is always the better choice than slowly torturing it for a lifetime. take a step back and look at your life and how much better things would have been if your mother had an abortion. clearly you were are and always will be unwanted.
John Jay
8:30 am on Wednesday, September 5, 2012
faye wattleton personifies what the Left does best here: Personal attacks, no facts, multiple violating Patch's policies...simply amazing that people get so angry when truthful facts and videos are made showing how it's LEGAL to abort a child based on its sex.
RE:"faye wattleton 8:27 am on Wednesday, September 5, 2012 john jay killing an unborn child in a 40 minute procedure is always the better choice than slowly torturing it for a lifetime. take a step back and look at your life and how much better things would have been if your mother had an abortion. clearly you were are and always will be unwanted."
John Jay
8:33 am on Wednesday, September 5, 2012
By the way, I know it isn't the real "faye wattleton" posting garbage. It's the same person who has been banned from Patch multiple times.
Thank you for giving me the upper hand, "faye wattleton" by showing people how desperate people like you are on this very important matter.
Mattie
8:44 am on Wednesday, September 5, 2012
It would do BOTH SIDES of the issue well to ignore "Faye Wattleton" and all it has to say one way or the other. Let's do that, shall we?
hypocrites stink
12:33 pm on Wednesday, September 5, 2012
Mr. Robert ---saying that you can appreciate the realities of an unwanted pregnancy is NOT the same as actually going thru it ---its just lip service that sure doesn't do me a bit of good. Cold comfort! And as far as saying what society SHOULD do, well that again is more lip service because they just don't. What they do is judge and judge and discriminate and cast aspersions which only makes everything so much worse. And yes to me your stance I call being on a soapbox, no matter how noble a cause you are defending, because in the end its some of my personal freedom you're trying to get taken away, all the while knowing you will never have to suffer an unwanted pregnancy. Its my body, my fetus, and if I don't want/cant handle it, the law says I can have an abortion.
you seem to be a nice polite dude. I would love to see you and some other nice people really do the right thing, that is, take some tangible action instead of just writing, and open up babysitting and medical clinics (as well as psychotherapy and support clinics) for amen who choose not to abort. I am not being sarcastic or snarky, either. I really mean it. Maybe if enough of these centers opened up all over the country, there might really be a sea change over a course of years, wherein we, the unwed moms would be lifted up and made to feel hopeful and cared for. As one lady said, once that baby's born, the pro-lifers don't give a damn anymore. They got what they wanted-now away, bastard kids!
uniony
1:23 pm on Wednesday, September 5, 2012
That's a very important point. So much time wasted on rhetoric and carefully trying to couch their religious views as non-religious. Why not save those "not aborted" babies NOW!
mary54
2:01 pm on Wednesday, September 5, 2012
Donna Griffin: I've answered your questions at least once, after omitting some details in an earlier post. Now you say: "Without science stating that life begins on day 91st of pregnancy or ends on your 80th birthday". You are just creating strawmen so you can argue a point that nobody here has brought up. I support a Kavorkian-type ending if the person, one or more doctors, etc. all agree it is a reasonable thing to do. No laws or people having no business in it should be allowed to interfere in a woman's right to continue or abort a pre-viable fetus. Quit making up stories about killing annoying little children or old people.
TP
3:29 pm on Wednesday, September 5, 2012
Middletown Patch:
What began has as an editorial supporting a Pro-life platform has now descended into talk about anal sex, pornography and unsubstantiated allegations against a professor at Montclair University. The comments on this blog reached a point of diminishing returns long ago.
hypocrites stink
7:32 pm on Wednesday, September 5, 2012
You said that before.....so go nigh-night!!!
taxpayer2
12:35 am on Friday, September 7, 2012
A 26-year-old Turkish woman, who was impregnated by her rapist, reportedly shot and beheaded her alleged attacker to protect her honor. Nevin Yildirim, a mother of two from Turkey's Yalvac district, faces charges for the killing of 35-year-old Nurettin Gider. Yildirim is at least five months pregnant and claims she was rape-impregnated by Gider. Yildirim told police that Gider, a father of two who was married to her husband's aunt, - threatened to kill her children if she alerted anyone to the crime. The rapes allegedly continued over the course of the next several months. Yildirim spotted Gider climbing up a wall behind her house and grabbed a rifle . "I knew he was going to rape me again," Yildirim shot Gider twice. She claimed in court he was armed at the time. "He fell on the ground. He started cussing," she said. "I shot his sexual organ this time. He became quiet. I knew he was dead. I then cut his head off." Witnesses saw Yildirim walk into the village square, carrying Gider's bloody head by his hair. Authorities arrived on the scene shortly thereafter and Yildirim was taken into custody.
taxpayer2
12:35 am on Friday, September 7, 2012
According to CNN, Yildirim went to a health clinic for an abortion prior to the murder but was turned away because she was 14 weeks pregnant at the time. In Turkey, abortion is only permitted during the first 10 weeks of pregnancy. Anything beyond that requires a special circumstance.
Turkey's abortion debate has now been re-kindled as the public prosecutor's office considers Yildirim's request. Authorities are waiting for experts to weigh in on her mental stability. "The extremity of Nevin's actions show the extent of the trauma the rape has caused," Dr. Gürsel Öztunalı Kayır, Foundation for Women's Solidarity, told International Business Times. "We shouldn't be distracted by the murder; if she wants to have an abortion following months of abuse, she should have the right."
Prime Minister Recep Tayyip Erdogan, however, considers abortion "murder" and wants the practice outlawed. Melih Gökçek, mayor of the capital, Ankara, supports the proposed ban, saying a mother who considers abortion should "kill herself instead and not let the child bear the brunt of her mistake," IBT reported. Women's groups in Turkey consider Yildirim a heroine. The case also resonates in the United States, where abortion remains a topic of heated debate.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/09/06/nevin-yildirim-turkey-rape-beheading_n_1861016.html
uniony
11:40 am on Friday, September 7, 2012
That's pretty funny, don't they get if a woman kills herself before a fetus is viable, the fetus would die too? I mean, really...
stuffin
10:47 am on Saturday, September 8, 2012
@Anonymous; yes god gives us free will. Obey his commandments, 600+ in the bible, or burn in hell for eternity. So I have to DO AS GOD COMMANDS (not as I choose) or I will suffer intolerable burning pain forever. I reject that free will offer from your loving god.
Mr Way's is trying to distance Pro-Life Movement from its religious connections. He states abortion is not mentioned in the bible; therefore the abortion issue is not s religious one. He goes no to say the reason people of faith defend Pro Life is because they believe in the truth, moral truth as taught by their god. Since it is the truth, regardless of where it comes from, it makes their decision non-religious. And thus, Pro Choice people are not inflicting their religious beliefs on everyone else. Mr Way is presenting a flimsy rational at best.
PS, if I do choose to obey god’s rules, I get to spend eternity in HIS HEAVEN. Once again all choice leads to god’s choice, not the individual’s.
Ric
11:25 am on Saturday, September 8, 2012
@stuffin. Robert Way also thinks he is the only person who is smart enough to determine "the moral truth". He lacks the intellect to realize there is more than the Robert Way to look at an issue.
George
11:31 am on Saturday, September 8, 2012
Do you obey all 619 commandments, Stuffin -- including not eating certain foods (such as pork and shrimp) and not doing any work on the sabbath? Is your heaven open only to your religion's version of the holy book?
Robert Way
12:00 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
@Ric - "Robert Way also thinks he is the only person who is smart enough to determine "the moral truth". He lacks the intellect to realize there is more than the Robert Way to look at an issue."
Ric, at no time have I tried to say that I am the determining voice of the moral truth. You can continue to try and refute my positions by attacking me but it doesn't lend itself to the conversation. Is there ANYONE of the Pro-Life side of the issue that you would have an actual reasoned discussion with? I don't think there is because based on most of your responses in this thread, you have spent more time trying to discredit me instead of my arguments.
Not once have I questioned your integrity, your credibility, or your right to argue this issue. You on the other hand have not extended the same courtesy to me. You don't like how I will at times turn questions around on people in an effort to get clarification and sometimes do so to try and get folks to see what it is they are asking to try and walk through the argument instead of just throwing rhetoric against the wall hoping it will stick.
The vast majority of the arguments made in this conversation need to have the onion peeled back on them because the majority of the Pro-Choice arguments are based on false assumptions that have to be addressed first before the actual argument is addressed.
Cathi
10:47 am on Saturday, September 8, 2012
Thank you Mr. Way for speaking for those unborn children that can not speak for themselves. God bless you.
Ric
11:20 am on Saturday, September 8, 2012
Ms. Cathi, why is it that the ancients, including Jews and Romans, aborted unwanted fetus and yet neither god's son, Jesus Christ, nor the Bible prohibited abortion? Even Robert Way in his initial post admitted the Bible does not prohibit abortion. So why would god bless something he had not a problem with?
Are you trying to say Jesus Christ forgot to say something on the subject?
Concerned
11:46 am on Saturday, September 8, 2012
Ric
The bible recognizes that life begins at conception and the commandment thou shalt not kill prohibits abortion. Regarding life in the womb the most recognized reference is when Mary carrying Jesus in her womb meets Elizabeth who is carrying John the Baptist and the gospel states: "baby leapt for joy" in mother's womb Lk 1:41,44
Ric
1:26 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
@concerned. I guess I am not as smart as you because I never read that bible passage. I am not saying you are lying, so would you please cite the specific passage where the bible says "life begins at conception ". And while you are at it, would you mind explaining why Jesus went after the money sellers but not the aborters or abortionists. Did it slip his mind?
PS: For bonus points: The Matthew, Mark, Luke and John have four different birth scenarios for Jesus. Which one is the right version? But first cite that passage.
Concerned
2:56 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
Ric
The fact that the bible verse I referred to in my prior post to you refers to John the Baptist in the womb as a Baby, that is the support for life begins at conception. Now the money changers in the Temple question, Jesus did speak, probably his strongest admonition was against harming children. He said "better you have a millstone tied around your neck and caste into the sea than harm one of these little ones." He had a profound love of children and as defined life in the womb was always referred to as a baby or child. Pretty strong stuff. This all said in our country we have atheists and others who will reject the bible as their moral code. That is why I usually do not present a religious or christian view to support the rights of a baby to live and not be aborted. That is why medical science will shine the light into the question of when life begins.
Concerned
3:00 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
ric,
i forgot the second part of your question about the four gospels and the versions of the birth of Jesus. The gospels are read in conjunction with each other as together as a study, they present perspectives that enlighten us on the time Christ walked the earth. So they are viewed as together and not as contradicting each other. The enlighten us as a whole.
Ric
6:37 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
@Concerned. As I earlier mentioned to someone else, the Roman Catholic Church taught me Protestants like my father were damned to a thousand years in purgatory. The Baptist church taught me that my Roman Catholic mother was headed straight for hell. Unless you can cite me the verse that says either Catholics or Protestants are doomed I’ll say they are both liars. So frankly I have a deep distrust of anyone who takes a bible passage and then falsely claim it means something it does not. The bible passage you cited just means in the womb John the Baptist kicked his mother. Nowhere does it say life begins at conception. Nor does the bible say anywhere that abortion is wrong. Yes, Jesus even said he liked adults but still he never said a word against abortion, a common Roman and Jewish practice even back then.
As far as the testimony of the four gospels regarding Jesus’s birth, they contradict each other. No reading in conjunction can correct that. No judge would allow them to be entered in as evidence.
Concerned
7:11 am on Sunday, September 9, 2012
Ric
Very sorry for the utter nonsense you were taught.
John Jay
11:54 am on Saturday, September 8, 2012
There are organizations out there that will pay compensation to women to have their "unwanted" child and get the baby adopted. Why doesn't Planned Parenthod promote that instead of abortion?
I don't see them informing women of this choice. Am I missing something?
Nora
12:02 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
Planned Parenthood does not "promote abortion", they simply present it as an option along with the other options such as adoption. Why do you hate on Planned Parenthood so much? All they try to do is help people
uniony
3:52 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
Less than 3% of Planned Parenthoods services are abortions.
However, there are definitely militant people involved in the organization who do not see reason. The more organizations that provide reproductive care for low-income women, or better yet, if instead low-income women can get insurance and have procedures at hospitals where they would not be stigmatized by "going to an abortion clinic", the better.
stuffin
12:15 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
@Concerned; But Mr Way is saying Pro Choice is not a religious movement, so how can you defend Mr Way's position by using the bible? That goes against his argument.
Also, could you please provide the scripture in the bible which states life begins at conception? Furthermore, the fetus, not baby, in the womb that "leapt for joy" may have just been shifting and not actually communicating, that is a possibility.
Robert Way
12:27 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
@stuffin, I believe you are asking this directly of @Concerned but just want to make sure that my position is clear from the article in that science has determined that at new human life exists from the moment of conception and I am not making the claim that scripture does so anywhere.
I just wanted to make sure there is no confusion and also point out that I know you meant to say "Pro-Life" and not "Pro-Choice" in your post.
Concerned
2:24 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
Stuffin,
I was answering Ric's question not defending Mr Ways blog.. The proper translation from Greek and Hebrew was not "fetus" it was Baby. The reason Saint John the Baptist moved was that The Christ, Jesus was present to him by virtue of Mary seeing Elizabeth. The point is that the bible describes the child in the womb as a baby thus conception.
Now that said, I believe that abortion will be stopped, not by religious beliefs, or political posturing. It will be medical science that will prove that the baby in the womb is a being with its rights that are indisputable, as medicine is defining when life begins everyday as it makes advances with premature births, and even surgery on the baby in the womb. Some as small as a half a pound are viable outside the womb. The medical science when Roe v Wade was decided is very dated and the new medical science of today and tomorrow will provide society and the courts with a very different view of the baby in the womb.
Nora
2:53 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
Concerned, I will have to disagree on the point that abortion will be stopped because of medical progress. It will be useful for women who are at risk for early miscarriage or preterm labor, but I doubt it will be used to save all conceived zygotes or such.
Concerned
3:10 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
Nora
It is unsustainable to have a society whereby a half pound premature baby is being cared for in one room of a hospital and the next door down the hall a 1.5 or 2 pound baby is having its life ended by an abortion procedure. This is very illogical and a moral contradiction that will change.
Nora
3:29 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
Concerned, I would not argue the termination of any 1.5 or 2 pound baby, nor did the courts at Roe vs. Wade. The weight of the average 12 weeks old fetus is 0.49 ounces.
Concerned
3:38 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
Nora
the weights i used were to exaggerate a point. But your exact weight make the point as well. At the time of Roe V Wade .49 or 12 weeks was deemed the age that a baby in the womb was not viable. Today based on medical science babies are surviving outside the womb even at a half pound and even a bit lower. This is the game changer.
Nora
3:47 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
Concerned, I see what you're saying, but there is also another game changer. Women have come quite a bit further in society today than what they were in 1973, and their will and right to rule over their own bodies will, I believe, play a larger role than it did back then. Who knows, perhaps sometime in the future doctors can extract fetuses and grow them somewhere else. Until that day however, I doubt we will go back to having abortions not be legal
uniony
3:50 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
Concerned, your weights are wrong. Babies born at 20 or 21 weeks at best are 12 oz., maybe a tiny bit more. Saying that a fetus at 24 or 32 oz. is "being aborted" is clearly a crime unless the life of the mother is at stake.
And Mr. Way, yes, life begins at conception, and both anti-abortion and pro-choice folks need to agree on that important point. There are certain religions which ostensibly allow late-term abortions because the fetus is NOT considered alive until it actually leaves the mother completely, as if a tumor was removed. Those religions are wrong and rationalize something which is not true.
Concerned
3:53 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
Nora,
Point well taken. I do not think the USA will prohibit all abortions but I think medical science advancements will make abortions rare and somewhat viewed as uncivilized. So they will be available in limited circumstances and the days of using abortion as a form of contraception will be ended by medical science.
Tom
12:15 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
In reading this entire thread, there seams to be a consensus that we do not have a viable baby/person at 8 weeks but we do at 8 months. As a scientist I need to know exactly what DAY this transformation occurs. As an American I believe in the right to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. Therefore by definition, the stopping of a beating human heart must either be an abortion before this day or a murder after it. I have not brought religion or emotion into this discussion but only logic and law. By definition, this must be an abortion before this day and a murder after it. I don't want to MAKE anyone do something they don't want to do, but until there is an answer to this question there will never be a way to prove who is right or wrong.
Robert Way
1:38 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
Tom, thanks for adding to the discussion. With you being a scientist, I would like to ask you a question. Not challenging or confirming anything you said, just wanting to ask you a question because I myself do not have a scientific background and have to rely on literature and folks like yourself to answer certain things so here it goes.
The dictionary definition of "viable" as it relates to biology is "capable of surviving or living successfully, esp. under particular environmental conditions". The medical definition of "viable" uses it in relation to the fetus and derives from the biological term the notion that "viability" of a fetus is only when it can survive outside the mother's body.
From a scientific perspective, is there any other environment that a human life after birth could be introduced into that it would no longer be biologically "viable"?
Two examples I can think of are underwater and at extreme elevations. I would really like your insight on this.
Thanks in advance...
uniony
3:46 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
Beating of a heart means viable = life? Then if someone is brain dead, you can't pull the plug?
20 weeks is relatively standard, but with significant medical care as well as significant chance of permanent disability. 22 weeks is commonly thought of "survivable with less chance of permanent impairment".
Stopping a beating heart depends on WHY in the US - as in the noted case of brain death, as well as if someone is trespassing on your land or a threat to you. Again, I'm not sure why it is meaningless to some folks that the life of the mother IS at risk when her mental health will be significantly damaged by carrying a fetus to term and raising a child.
There cannot be a specific "day" as we can't even determine the exact gestational age of fetuses right now.
If you go by the "heart beat" theory, that's pretty early, but the thing that has a heart beating could not be considered by anyone to be a human being.
It's very hard, even if one is pro-choice, to rationalize a person waiting months into a pregnancy to decide "you know what, I really DIDN'T want to have a child". 20 weeks = over four months of pregnancy. The vast majority of women know within the first month that they may be pregnant, and are very sure by two months.
I agree therefore that some women seem to be capricious about the subject, but they are the same women you wouldn't want parenting a child.
marylou
6:51 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
uniony,I am pro-choice and I can;t understand why any women who had an unplanned and unwanted pregnancy would wait until she is more than a few weeks along to abort.Perhaps some of these women are in denial.Perhaps some have very irregular cycles,and are naive about the symtoms of pregnancy.Maybe they think that nature will take care of it and they will miscarry.
Robert Way
9:43 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
@uniony - "Again, I'm not sure why it is meaningless to some folks that the life of the mother IS at risk when her mental health will be significantly damaged by carrying a fetus to term and raising a child"
uniony, we need to establish that there is a huge difference between a threat to someone's way of life (which your comment refers to) and a threat to someone's life (meaning an immediate threat via death).
Mental or physical stress is NOT a threat to someone's life, it is a threat to someone's way of life. In this country we have a right to life, NOT a right to a way of life. There are a lot of people that folks encounter beyond an unwanted pregnancy that induce mental and physical stress, financial hardship, and social inconvenience that we cannot eliminate by killing.
When you're behind on the utilities and the mortgage, can't make the car payment, upside down on your mortgage, and have a broken water heater and then your boss lays you off so now you also can't afford to pay for day care for your toddler you can't exactly go your boss to alleviate the additional struggles that have been added to your life because of him.
Again, a threat to one's way of life is NOT the same as a threat to someone's life, Ectopic Pregnancy is the only documented circumstance that I am aware of that is actually a threat to the mother's life, i.e. it is very likely she will die if the pregnancy goes to term.
stuffin
12:16 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
@George, certainly makes you wonder how many cherry pickers are posting is defense of their holy book.
wheres murrow?
3:41 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
Can we at least dispense with the myth that the movement is "pro-life". Sounds nice, but the movement is "anti abortion". If you believe it this strongly, own it.
Concerned
3:45 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
Where Murrow,
Sure the the terms can be Anti-Abortion and Pro-Abortion.
wheres murrow?
3:52 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
no one is pro abortion. The pro choice movement believes in a woman's right to make decisions about her own body. big difference.
Nora
3:56 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
I think what wheres murrow? means is that some pro-life folks might be supporters of the death penalty, IVF etc. I get it, but it's mostly a term used for the abortion debate isn't it. Pro-Choice is by the way a very good term, because pro-choice does not wish to force anyone to make any specific choice, just want the option.
Concerned
3:59 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
Where Murrow and Nora,
Pro Choice is an awful term, as the baby has no choice to life in the decision. Pro Abortion is a better description.
wheres murrow?
4:25 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
^5 Nora... And here's the test... " A woman is 7 weeks pregnant. There is no threat to her health. If it were up to you the woman would
a) have an abortion
b) give birth
c) make her own choice, based on her individual "moral truths" and life circumstances
marylou
6:56 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
Exactly,wheres murrow?And many of these women choose to carry the pregnancy to term.If a young,unmarried woman has the support of her family,who will help her fiancially,help take care of the baby so she can work and get a good education,that; wonderful.But,sadly,many families,even in this day and age,shun her for having sex in the 1st place or not using birth control.Many times,the sperm donor wants her to "get rid of it",too.
Robert Way
9:04 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
The "movement" as you call it also has very strong views on end of life issues as well (elderly, euthanasia). The Pro-Life position is also against the death penalty, just because some Pro-Life people are for the death penalty doesn't mean the Pro-Life platform is, two different things.
Robert Way
10:05 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
@Nora - "Pro-Choice is by the way a very good term, because pro-choice does not wish to force anyone to make any specific choice, just want the option"
Nora, the part that doesn't hold water with that comment is what the "choice" is we are talking about. I am all for a women choosing who to vote for, choosing what job to try and get, choosing what religion she wants to follow, choosing, what flavor ice cream she wants to eat, choosing what house she wants to buy, and choosing any other thing under the sun.
But no, I am not for her choosing to kill an innocent human life, much in the same way society would not grant her the choice of killing her toddler (and yes I know you don't like that example but it gets my point across).
Nobody in this society is free to choose absolutely anything and everything they want to do, NO civil society would, or could allow that because then it would not be a civil society.
Nora
11:15 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
Robert, no actually it does not get your point across. In a discussion such as this, there are always several more or less "right" options and good points to be made on all sides. Your toddler example is completely ridiculous and does not help the debate even if it does provoke. It is like suggesting shooting a permanent coma patient in the head and saying it is the same as the family wanting to take him off life support. The womans rule over her own body and life trumps the early fetus, that is how I feel about the matter.
wheres murrow?
11:20 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
Really ? Ok, read some of the comments on here. How many of the anti abortion advocates on here do you really believe are against the death penalty, euthanasia, war? I'm sure they are all buddhists.
Nora
3:06 am on Sunday, September 9, 2012
Robert, continued to explain further. Using your toddler argument might be good to get the people already on your side of the matter go "yes thats right". However, as for pro choice, the majority of people, me included, do not agree that a 12 weeks old fetus is the same as a toddler even if they both posses human DNA. Surely by now you must know this, just as I know that you disagree. Knowing that you know this, and knowing that you are not unintelligent, the only purpose I can see left for your toddler comment is some kind of attempt to try to ridicule the opposing side. This does provoke me, but not in any way that is at all beneficial for your side of the argument. Do you see what I'm saying here? There is no point in that comment to bring across because from where I'm standing the two cannot be compared. Anyway, with this I bid you adieu for now. I do enjoy a good discussion but at this point I feel like I've made my points and have pretty much seen everyone elses points too. Until next time
Monk
4:16 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
Terminating the life of an unwanted child is what most abortions boil down to. So, if you can live with that "choice", the law says you're OK. But will you be OK after you realize what you've done?
marylou
7:01 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
That's also the choice that the pregnant women or girl has to make.If she decides that she wants to have an abortion,she will have to live with that choice for the rest of he life.As much as the so-called pro-life crowd hates Planned Parenthood,they do counsel women on all options.They convinced by nieghbors 17 yrs old to speak with her parents before she had an abortion.She now has a healthy 3 yr.old,is working,fisishing her education.The "sperm donor"wanted her to have an abortion so he wouldn't have to pay child support.
Laura
7:07 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
Yes
RPtoTR
5:38 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
While I admire your conviction and your "truth" I do not adhere to your position. My personal moral center is with the individual, that personal choices and actions are individual decisions not dictated by government.
Also, your complete disregard for the victim in case of rape or incest is inconsistent with your argument regarding the fetus. To require, by force of law, the woman to carry the pregnancy to term is in effect another violation.
I am not interested in having the government in my pocket book, in my bedroom, or in the womb of my wife or daughter.
I also find it particularly offensive that most of the anti abortion leadership are men.
Thank you again for your reasoned, well argued point of view. I support your choice and value your opinion. I hope you do the same for those who disagree.
Monk
6:01 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
... the wife and daughter who were not aborted? Can you look your wife and daughter in the eyes and say, "It would have been OK if you were aborted because, you know, I'm pro-choice"?
I'm not interested in having a lot of government interference in my life either, but that doesn't mean I want to live an unethical life. And it's particularly odd that you should think men are not qualified to weigh in on the topic. It's not as if the men who are against abortion are the lowlife rapists and irresponsible jerks that are putting women in this position. Gender is irrelevant in this instance.
Anonymous
6:21 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
RPto TR,
Maybe you should read my post above because I have attached a link regarding the statistics on those that actually abort the life inside of them. Rape and incest victims actually account for 1% of the abortions that take place in the United States. The other 93% are having abortions because the life of the child they are carrying is unwanted and inconvenient. So perhaps come up with another group of people to defend because it is the selfish one that is discarding life just because they are legally allowed to. So who is it that has a complete disregard?? I say its the woman who is aborting the fetus who is actually the victim, every single time it happens.
marylou
7:02 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
Excellent comment.I agree.
wheres murrow?
8:06 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
Well stated RP. The author's comments on rape are particularly disturbing. According to the reasoning, a 14 year old girl who is raped and impregnated must have the baby. Unless of course it's an ectopic pregnancy.
Robert Way
10:30 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
@RPtoTR - "your complete disregard for the victim in case of rape or incest is inconsistent with your argument regarding the fetus"
At no time have I completely disregarded the victim of rape. I have gone out of my way to advocate the need for the full emotional, psychological, physical, and financial support of any victim of rape if they do not have those resources available to them from friends or family. Any civil society would do noting less and crisis pregnancy centers provide that support although there probably needs to be more of them.
Take that "My personal moral center is with the individual, that personal choices and actions are individual decisions not dictated by government" to court when you are defending yourself against killing your neighbor because his dog peed on your lawn and see how far you get with that. After all, that "individual decision" is none of the government's business I suppose.
I am really not trying to be abrasive here but having to call out and denounce the "relativist" argument is getting repetitive. We DO NOT live in a society where everyone can exercise their notions of "right and wrong", you are more than willing to have your notions of "right and wrong", but you cannot always exercise them.
This conversation and others like it are trying to use reason to determine what is indeed right or wrong. The same process through which slavery was determined to be a "wrong"
Robert Way
10:45 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
@wheres murrow - "The author's comments on rape are particularly disturbing. According to the reasoning, a 14 year old girl who is raped and impregnated must have the baby."
What you have failed to mention is that at NO TIME did I suggest she has to keep the child and raise it.
That situation is undeniably horrible to have to deal with. Nobody on either side of this debate would say otherwise. But explain to me how two wrongs make a right. Explain to me how an abortion will "heal" that young lady. Explain to me how human life is less valuable as a result of how it was conceived.
If I am to concede that abortion should be allowed except in the case of rape, would you agree that abortion should be illegal in every single other case other than Ectopic Pregnancy which is a genuine threat to the mother's life.
My guess is you would not agree to restrict abortion in every other circumstance so why even bother bringing up the rape scenario except to use the most emotion provoking and least often reason abortion is performed to defend abortion for the other 99% of the time.
wheres murrow?
9:08 pm on Sunday, September 9, 2012
Robert, please don't accuse me of trying to invoke emotional responses after you quote Singer, then time and time again equate infanticide with abortion. I doubt you are familiar with the practice of statement analysis. Those of us that are, recognize your opinion piece for what it is.
Jennifer
11:10 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
I don't understand why this ectopic pregnancy thing has not been challenged yet. I mean, Robert, I left a comment way up at the top which you may not have seen, but I will repeat, there are many risks in pregnancy. If you are going to write an entire article on the subject and then say " ectopic pregnancy is the only risk I can think of, please let me know if there are others...." just open a book or google " complications of pregnancy" or " maternal mortality and morbidity". Just off the top of my head I can give you stroke, embolism, molar pregnancy, pregnancy-related leukemia, placenta previa, detached placenta, hemorrhage, uterine rupture, kidney disease, preeclampsia, .....
Jennifer
11:23 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
I think no one is happy about abortion. I think it is mean-spirited of pro-life people to think that most women who have abortions do it lightly, as if they were getting a wart removed. There is real pain and suffering for the woman who makes that choice.
As to the life-from-the -moment of conception argument, my opinion is that if you do not have a body and a brain, then you are not a person. Just because you could develop a body or brain eventually doesn't matter in the slightest. It is the point in time that we are talking about. I know about partial birth abortion, and I don't like that either. I think an eight month pregnancy is a baby, except - have you ever had a miscarriage or still-birth? I have had more than one, and I will tell you, even the churchiest ladies in my family and amongst my friends never sent a flower, or a card, or baked me a pie. They said they were " so sorry" and that it was " so sad", true, that. But it's not like anyone acted as if I had lost anything....real. Just saying.
Nora
11:27 pm on Saturday, September 8, 2012
This discussion has now reached the point where I feel like I have said all I have to say 5 times over and everyone else too is saying what they have already said many times over. It has been a good discussion, but it is starting to get tiresome.
Thanks all for your inputs and opinions whichever side you are on, these kinds of discussions are always healthy and worth having
Ric
10:35 am on Sunday, September 9, 2012
@Nora. There is much still not discussed such as going back to illegal backroom abortions. Until the day Roe V Wade was decided too many American women were risking an illegal backroom abortion and dying. Why is the anti-choicer crowd avoiding that issue? Is the rusty coat hanger the answer?
Then Concerned, an anti-choicer, claimed that raising a child was merely a bother or an inconvenience. Do all the anti-choices agree with that? Does anyone women agree with that statement? I am also sure that Robert Way, the self-proclaimed expert on abortion, would love to weigh in on these issues. He knows the moral truths, you know.
Ric
10:37 am on Sunday, September 9, 2012
I meant anoymous not concerned.
Concerned
11:31 am on Sunday, September 9, 2012
thanks for not attributing that to me
BBW
11:25 am on Sunday, September 9, 2012
Mr. Way, of course your being raised as a Catholic has nothing to do with your beliefs. Please give us all a break. Biggest flag is when someone drops lines like that.
That and after reading just part of your a letter (article) my advise to you is to stop justifying the ingrained religious philosophy that you say has nothing to do with your beliefs. You would do better to first worry about the rights of the children abused by the church and the perverts that have ruined the life of the thousands who are now troubled adults trying to live "NORMAL" lives. What have you actually done regarding that problem. Let us know when you get in touch with your feminine side so you can speak for woman.
My "Catholic" wife thinks that men who try to speak for what a women should or should not do with her body is nothing more than a "MALE CHAUVINIST PIG" who suffers from "Vagina Envy". Fortunately yours is only a view and not a law of nature or God. An example is GOD gives us a choice, What makes us smarter than God? Life is precious, I say that while I clean my rifle that wasn't bought for hunting (target practice?). You can try to justify anything you want, but fortunately God gave us the ability to laugh at you if we want.
BBW
Jennifer
12:30 pm on Sunday, September 9, 2012
Why do people traditional wait until 13 weeks to announce a pregnancy? In case they change their minds? No. There is a 20-25% chance that the pregnancy will be miscarried. And miscarriages are awkward, because no one knows exactly how to respond. My friend found comfort in telling herself that there must have been something wrong, and she would rather have an early miscarriage than a tragically disabled child. I, on the other hand, was angry when people tried to assure me that " something must have been wrong with it", because I felt like they had no way of knowing what the problem was, so they should just shut up. I also didn't like being told that I could try again and I was really likely to get pregnant in the first 3 months following a " mis". In fact, I didn't like the cheerful, don't -let-this-get-you-down attitude that I met from anyone who knew. But I know people now, after those sad days, who have lost children at a year, at 5 years, at 18.....and I would never, ever try to compare what I suffered in losing pregnancies to what they lost in losing children. And if you are honest with yourself, I think most people would feel the same. No one ever suggested I bury my miscarriages, no one asked me if I wanted to save them or cremate them or memorialize them. They were wanted, but they were just the beginning of a dream, which was not " meant to be" as I frequently heard. So sad for me, but I do have actual, living, children now, and I know the difference.
Steve
8:41 pm on Sunday, September 9, 2012
Jennifer, I think no man could ever fully understand or appreciate the complex mix of emotions, feelings, thoughts and reactions you endured. Nor do I suspect most men posting here would willingly choose to carry to full term a child and give it birth, if such were scientifically possible. G-d and Nature, in their wisdom, instead chose to endow only women with this miraculous and awesome responsibility.
I would never presume to lecture you, nor any other woman -- except perhaps the mother of my own children, and even then more consultation and support than lecture -- regarding this most personal of all decisions. I also believe Roe v. Wade struck the right balance -- a rough compromise at best, given our present state of moral and scientific evolution -- between that decision and society's right to intervene.
Jennifer
9:54 pm on Sunday, September 9, 2012
Thank you, Steve. I think the only person who understands what a woman is going through when she is pregnant, whether she is thrilled or terrified, is a woman who has been in her exact place. Meaning, men can reason, but they can't know. Women may think they understand, but until it is you, you can't know how it feels or what you'd do. I only know what I have done, and I can think about what I might or might not do, but honestly, no one ever really knows until they walk in those shoes.
Jennifer
7:44 am on Monday, September 10, 2012
I will repeat a statement I made near the top: there are vegetarians and vegans who believe, sincerely and with passion, that meat is murder, and that animals deserve the right to life as much as humans. I respect those views, in that I believe those people should never be forced to eat meat, shop at places that sell meat, or otherwise engage in meat-related activities. I do not, however, believe that should try to withold their taxes because of agricultural subsidies or otherwise try to force their views on the country as a whole.
But I myself, don't have a problem with cheeseburgers, and do not wish to have anyone else decide for me what I can put in my mouth.
Donna Griffin
7:50 am on Monday, September 10, 2012
Jennifer - If my faith tenet was one of human sacrifice, would you be alright with that? To make no distinction between human life and a ham sandwich is quite the stretch.
Jennifer
7:55 am on Monday, September 10, 2012
Bottom line for me is, abortion is not easy, cheap, or fun. It does not leave a woman in any shape to, say, go play a game of tennis. It is a serious matter and a serious decision, and people who talk as if the decision is made capriciously and easily, callously, have never sat with a friend afterwards or faced the prospect themselves. It is easy to judge, but isn't the something in the bible about that? Like, judge not, lest ye be judged? Let he who is without sin cast the first stone?
I hear a lot of bible says, and Jesus loves children, but I don't remember Jesus condemning anyone for anything except lending money in the temple. Jesus hung with prostitutes. Jesus was understanding. Jesus was kind. Maybe when your heart boils with venom for the women who should be imprisoned for life, or sterilized or whatever fate you wish on them, you should look in your own heart first. Loving hypothetical babies is not what makes you a good person. Loving others and not judging, being kind. Those are good places to start.
Donna Griffin
8:28 am on Monday, September 10, 2012
Jennifer - Actually, I've sat with 2 friends in college after they've returned to the dorms after having had the procedure. I am now in my 50's, and those friends have dealt with an enormous amount of guilt to this day as a result of their decision. I've never suggested that it is an easy decision nor have I ever suggested that they be arrested. I do not recall suggesting that it is a "religious" decision either. I view the unborn as human life deserving of protection...no less human, valuable or viable than a 10-year-old child. It is that simple.
Ric
8:56 am on Monday, September 10, 2012
@Donna Griffin. GOING BACK TO ILLEGAL BACKROOM ABORTIONS? Back in the days before Roe V Wade countless millions of women had them and too many of the women also died from them. If Roe V Wade is overturned, women will go back to them again. Just like liquor freely flowed during prohibition.
Donna, you dance around the backroom abortion issue. Do you support a total ban on abortions which would surely bring back abortion mills?
Donna Griffin
9:10 am on Monday, September 10, 2012
Ric - I support the limited use of abortion in instances when the mother's life is at risk and imminent death to the mother is likely in the event that the pregnancy were carried to term. The "threat" of backroom abortions does not change my position. In nearly 100 years (1880's-1973), "thousands" of women were "harmed" as a result of backroom abortions. In one year alone by conservative estimates, 1.6 million babies' lives are "terminated" as a result of abortion. It is interesting that the CDC does not even keep statistics on how many late-term abortions occur in this country. Ironic or simply an oversight?
Ric
9:27 am on Monday, September 10, 2012
@Donna Griffin. Only thousands harmed? Did you just make up that number? What is your source – Robert Way and his moral truth manufacturing machine? Time Magazine noted that in 1964 a million of abortions were performed and 99% of them were illegal. Donna, please cite your source - I want to be educated because I remember that era and my recollection is vastly different from you guess.. While you are at please explain your definition of harmed. Does that include death?
Have you read: Backrooms: Voices From The Illegal Abortion Era. I have not but I plan to see if the county library has a copy I can borrow.
http://www.amazon.com/Back-Rooms-Voices-Illegal-Abortion/dp/0879758767/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1347282890&sr=8-1&keywords=Back+Rooms%3A+Voices+from+the+Illegal+Abortion+Era#reader_0879758767
Donna Griffin
9:46 am on Monday, September 10, 2012
Ironically Ric, I got the information from prochoice.org.
Jennifer
9:08 am on Monday, September 10, 2012
Since the majority of America still supports some degree of choice, then I wouldn't say " everyone else" meaning, the people who are so upset about other people's microscopic offspring. They don't have a voice because they don't have vocal cords, lungs or a throat. I actually had the experience of seeing one of my 8 week miscarriages, and even though I was so so sorry and sad, it really didn't look like much. Like a nickel, and that was the whole thing, sac and all. Why is it that when a pregnancy ends spontaneously, it is just a set back, and something to get past and try again, whereas if a woman decides to stop the pregnancy from growing, it is a tragedy to the community at large, and absolutely unrelated people feel emotional about? Double standard. Hypocrisy.
Donna Griffin
9:23 am on Monday, September 10, 2012
Jennifer - Are you equating a miscarriage with the deliberate act of artificially terminating the life of the unborn? Who is stretching the argument here? If that "microscopic offspring" is indeed not human life as science has determined, what is it then? When does that "microscopic offspring" become a life worthy of being born in your estimate? In order to follow your argument to its logical conclusion, you'll need to provide a date certain. Are you OK with the successfully-born child of a botched abortion being euthanized outside the womb as our current President supports? You see, when you accept that life begins at conception, the balance of these arguments need not be addressed.
Jennifer
10:14 am on Monday, September 10, 2012
Maybe you misunderstood me. I said that my miscarriage didn't look like much, even to me, yet I was so so sad. It was treated by anyone who knew of it, even my mother, as a personal sadness, not a dead baby. So why should those same people be all upset about the same 8 week pregnancy that is terminated for a reason? Because for some reason an 8 week pregnancy is only a " life" to some people if it is not spontaneously miscarried. By the way. The majority of abortions occur in the first trimester, when any particular embryo stands a 20-25% chance of being miscarried anyway. So yes, I was sad, but I also knew that I did not lose a child, just the beginnings of a child. What I find hypocritical is the differing reactions to the same age fetus depending on the circumstances.
Donna Griffin
11:50 am on Monday, September 10, 2012
Jennifer - What then is the significant change between unborn life at 8 weeks v. unborn life at 8 weeks and one day? I've never gotten a good answer to that question or any others with respect to a cut-off point for the morally acceptable use of abortion as birth control. Over 192,000 abortions occur in the US after the 12th week of pregnancy. That is a conservative estimate. According to the Guttmacher Institute, nearly 22% of ALL pregnancies in American women are terminated by abortion. If you are pro-choice, do you still not see a problem with that staggering figure?
uniony
12:09 pm on Monday, September 10, 2012
Donna, the problem isn't the numbers, is it? If you are anti-abortion, ONE abortion is too many. And the numbers that the "institute" gives forth - 1/3rd of ALL women have at least one abortion by age 45? 40% of all pregnancies end in abortion? These are crazy numbers - I know many pro-choice people who would never have an abortion themselves, and I know many religious people who are anti-abortion and certainly would never have an abortion.
Do you think that 20% of pregnancies end in miscarriage, then 40% end in abortion (on that institute's page, not your number), and therefore only 40% of pregnancies end in live or still birth? These number are biased - I would agree with the number of abortions, but there are women who have had MANY abortions. When I was a kid in NJ, there were stories of a HS girl who had had EIGHT abortions already. This is just like the sexting and teenaged sex surveys - it's the same certain boys and girls who are "doing it".
You are right about a sad fact, that due to socioeconomic and educational circumstances, far too many women (yet a small percentage of women overall) use abortion as birth control. That is disgusting and disheartening, whether or not you are pro-choice or anti-abortion. That is why "Obamacare" should help prevent abortions, by making contraception more affordable and available.
The significant change occurs around 20 weeks or so, due to maturity of the lungs making the baby NOT dependent on the mother.
Jennifer
1:15 pm on Monday, September 10, 2012
Donna, you are an absolutist and I am not, that is why we will never agree. You want proof that something is " morally acceptable"? I can't prove morality. What I personally believe is that there is a point at which the unborn child's interests become worthy of consideration equally with the mothers. That is probably, for me the point of reasonable viability, somewhere around 22 weeks. After that, even if the mothers life were in danger, I would think early delivery of the child would be the first option. Then both have a shot at survival. That is, if the mother could survive the delivery itself. However, that is what I think. Should it become the governing law? Well, you don't think so. Why are your opinions and beliefs more important than mine? Or the person whose life might actually be in jeopardy?
On the other end of the extreme, I think it is practical, moral, and ethical to err on the side of the pregnant woman's choice in the first trimestr, no restrictions, mind your own business. In believing that, I don't have to, nor do I care to speculate on how many abortions someone has or how aggrieved or cavalier they are about it. I don't have to judge, I refuse to judge. I think the vast majority of women who choose to terminate pregnancies do so with grief . That is not to say they believe they made the wrong decision. But sometimes, they may. That is the flip side of choice - you have to live with your choices. What about wk 12-22? I don't know. How can you?
Jennifer
1:21 pm on Monday, September 10, 2012
And since this debate has been raging for years, and anonymous has given the figure of 51% of people being pro-life, I consider that less than a resounding majority. In fact, since pregnancy itself is only hypothetical to men, I am not sure I would give them a vote at all. I would think we would have to err on the side of choice. Mind your own business, be a good person. Stop thinking so much about the inside of other people's bodies and worry about your own.
Donna Griffin
2:09 pm on Monday, September 10, 2012
Jennifer - The "inside of other people's bodies" is not my concern...only the person developing inside of it that I (and science) see as human life. The morality I explore is whether the incidence of abortion has increased since its legalization - it has drastically by every measure. And has behavior with respect to sexual relations become one of less personal responsibility and caution? I believe it has. I've asked before on this blog about the question of viability. Is a 75 y.o. grandmother viable? I may think so....someone else may not. So when it comes to the argument of viability, there is a whole lot of gray area. When it comes to life, we either protect it or we allow for the free choice of taking it at any stage of development.
Uniony, if you read the statistics, I drew from their interpretation of the data that 40% of "unintended" pregnancies end in abortion. You may wish to review the data a bit more closely before attributing a political spin to it. I believe that the pro-choice website concurs with the institute's findings as well.
Jennifer
2:31 pm on Monday, September 10, 2012
" when it comes to life, we either protect it, or we allow for the taking of it at any stage of development"
Really? Because we don't. We do protect that 75 y.o grandmother, and that 10-year old child you mentioned previously, and Robert's toddler....we don't allow life to be taken at those stages of development. Right now, in some stages of development, the law DOES allow a woman to decide. Is it taking a life? Well, it is a form of killing. But sometimes the rights of one trump the rights of another. Until you can safely remove a fertilized egg and grow it into a body elsewhere, the woman has to have more say in the matter than you. Why? Well, because that is the morality I seek to explore. Look, we are not changing each others minds, and I actually have real children that need tending, so Buh-bye.
Donna Griffin
3:41 pm on Monday, September 10, 2012
Jennifer - The argument is that we currently do not have an expiration date on existing life and we are afraid to confirm the value of pre-born life. To do so would cause us to face what we are really doing when we terminate a pregnancy. Because of the national desensitization toward abortion (first trimester, late-term or even post-delivery) and how abortion has become the magic bullet in eliminating the "problem" or "unexpected" nature of a pregnancy, I am concerned for the type of society that we are leaving for those real children that need tending. They were the lucky ones. 1.6 million children a year...not so much. I wish you only the best.
noexcuses
2:30 pm on Thursday, September 13, 2012
Robert, Thank you for a very well written article. I am a a pro-life catholic, mother of an adopted daughter. I can't imagine ANY circumstance when abortion is acceptable. Abstinence and Adoption are the only options. The reason why you have received such a huge response to this article is that there are millions of people that cannot justify their position on this no matter how hard they try and there are millions more that have had abortions and can't live with themselves. "Thou shall not kill"
Donald
3:17 pm on Thursday, September 13, 2012
Roe v. Wade got it right. Thankfully, we live in a nation of laws. By the way, Roe wasn't even a close decision. It was decided 7-2 (unlike most difficult cases, often decided 5-4).
Monk
4:04 pm on Thursday, September 13, 2012
Human judgments can be highly flawed. Dred Scott v. Sandford was decided 7-2, also. One hundred senators, 435 congressmen, one president and nine Supreme Court justices - 545 individuals out of 300 million - are bound to screw things up sometimes. I believe the argument is over the morality of abortion, not the legality.
Donald
5:33 pm on Thursday, September 13, 2012
Like I said, thankfully we live in a nation of laws, not one based on "Mo(nk)rality."
Donald
5:58 pm on Thursday, September 13, 2012
And by the way, Dred Scott was never explicitly overruled. Rather, it was overcome by the post-Civil War amendments to the Constitution within about a decade of the decision (as well as the judiciary "turning a blind eye"). Such a "grundnorm" constitutional course is available to all those extremists who oppose abortion under any circumstances, but has not occurred after the passage of some 40 years. And unlike the 13th-15th amendments to the U.S. Constitution, an anti-abortion amendment is unlikely to ever carry the necessary mandate from the country at large. That is all well and good.
Fred
5:20 pm on Monday, September 17, 2012
Why in the world is anyone debating this issue in this day and age.... Wasn't this taken to the Supreme Court in 1973?!?! Why would anyone want to go BACKWARDS at this stage of the game?! Here is a perfect example of an unwanted unloved child. http://www.ksee24.com/news/local/Chilling-Details-of-Life-of-13-Year-Old-Charged-with-Murder-170044636.html SO does that mean all you pro-lifers are happier with this outcome?!?!?!? IT IS 2012 - TIME TO MOVE ON TO A NEW ISSUE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Monk
6:23 pm on Monday, September 17, 2012
Fred, if human life has no value other than the one assigned to it by society, what's to keep the standards from becoming completely arbitrary? Do you regard anything as sacred? Anything at all?
The example you cite is more of an indictment of failed parenting and education several generations in the making. Resorting to abortion to address such failures seems pretty barbaric. Now, that's backward!
And the Supreme Court has reversed itself before. It's not infallible.
John Jay
8:53 am on Tuesday, September 18, 2012
Mattie LIED when she claimed a human fetus' heart does not beat at 12 weeks. Here is Mattie's lie:
"Mattie 2:23 pm on Wednesday, September 5, 2012 There is no heart beat to hear before 12-16 weeks. Period. Don't you realize that at 12-14 weeks the actual embryo is the size of this:"
The following 100% factual information proves she lied:
Source: http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/article/002398.htm
• Week 5 of pregnancy (gestational age) ◦The brain, spinal cord, and heart begin to develop.
◦ The gastrointestinal tract begins to develop.
• Weeks 6 - 7 of pregnancy (gestational age) ◦Arm and leg buds become visible.
◦The brain develops into five areas and some cranial nerves are visible.
◦The eyes and ear structures begin to form.
◦Tissue forms that develops into the vertebra and some other bones.
◦The heart continues to develop and now beats at a regular rhythm.
◦Rudimentary blood moves through the main vessels.
Further proof of her lie: The human fetus' heart is beating; the fetus can even suck its own thumb. Illustration of a human fetus at 12 weeks: http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/imagepages/9572.htm
Mattie
10:03 pm on Tuesday, September 18, 2012
Those are drawings, not actual photos or images. And by the way, at the bottom of that page there's a teeny tiny link you can click on called "Disclaimers". When you click on it you are taken to a whole page of disclaiming. For example, that medical site is NOT affiliated with ANY government agency at all... although the titles on top imply that. The owner of that website is a corporation based in Atlanta Ga. and their main business is to SELL medical products and SELL medical DRAWINGS and ILLUSTRATIONS to other companies and medical facilities who use them for various reasons. Yeah, like all those pretty charts and diagrams you see up on doctor's walls, explaining the body organs, etc... that's what they make. It's their business.
Doesn't make them "bad" or "evil" ... but it doesn't make their drawings of pretty, pink, fully formed and proportioned "babies" at 12 weeks gestation REAL either. Nice try. By the way... I've seen with my own eyes what is removed from the womb between 12 and 14 weeks of gestation.... didn't look anything like that drawing and it passed through a thin tiny tube and couldn't even fill a shot glass. Your posts are offensive and crude; and YOU are perpetrating lies. So stop.
John Jay
9:25 am on Wednesday, September 19, 2012
By the way Mattie, here is more information that negates your false claim. Are you going to challenge the validity of WebMD too?
The caption reads:
"Development at 12 Weeks: The baby measures about 2 inches and starts to make its own movements. You may start to feel the top of your uterus above your pubic bone. Your doctor may hear the baby's heartbeat with special instruments. The sex organs of the baby should start to become clear." (Source: http://www.webmd.com/baby/ss/slideshow-fetal-development)
Mattie...I am laughing at you and your falsehoods...
Mattie
11:43 am on Wednesday, September 19, 2012
yes the sex organs "should start to become clear" after 12 weeks. SHOULD START to become clear... you understand that, right? SHOULD. START. to become clear after 12 weeks. The vast majority of ALL abortions in the USA occur by the 12th week of gestation. I don't remember the exact statistic, but its something like 90% are done in the first trimester (that's 1-12 weeks).
The vast majority of THOSE are done prior to NINE WEEKS gestation. I was disputing your ignorant paranoid rant that women have abortions when they don't like which gender their "baby" is. Go back and read your silly claims about 1/3 of the way up from the bottom of this comment section. As for the heartbeat, I'm not sure how many doctors use "special instruments" these days just to hear a heartbeat at 12 weeks... but my doctors certainly never did. Routinely a woman can hear the heartbeat at around 16+ weeks with normal stethoscope-type instruments or ultrasound. Still, none of this changes the fact that one does not have a fully formed nor functionally viable "baby" at 12 weeks, nor at 14 wks, nor at 16 wks, or even at 20 wks.
And to "annonymous".... how dare you call me a liar just because YOU had a miscarriage and it wasn't exactly like the abortion I witnessed. GFY.
George Clark
9:34 am on Wednesday, September 19, 2012
I'm pro life in all it's forms, but must question those that would outlaw abortion. What are we going to do with all the unwanted children? We aren't taking care of the ones we already have. These same people would outlaw or not want to fund birth control.? Are you churches, temples and Mosk, oops, that condemn these things going to set up great big orphanages? Are we gonna look out for them with welfare? don't try to save children only to conquer or neglect them. thoughts?
Timothy McGraw
10:39 am on Wednesday, September 19, 2012
You are all missing the point. It does not matter if the fetus is a human or not or at what point it becomes viable. The point is - it is cruel and unusual punishment (8th amendment isn’t it john jay) to bring a living breathing child into a world where it is not wanted so it can live a crappy unwanted abused life and become a welfare queen or criminal. The problem is actually that there are not more abortions or forced sterilizations. As usual the china men are way ahead of us on this.
Monk
12:07 pm on Wednesday, September 19, 2012
So, abortion is just a tool for societal management, George and Tim? Isn't that the same as eugenics or dysgenics? Who sets the rules on who gets born and who get aborted? Wouldn't forced sterilization be a less gruesome and more effective way to manage society? But eugenics inevitably leads to measures that are unethical since people are classified as superior/wanted or inferior/unwanted. Wholesale abortion or sterilization cannot be justified by rational, ethical people. Resorting to eugenics because the education system is broken is idiocy.
Timothy McGraw
1:55 pm on Wednesday, September 19, 2012
Abortion and forced sterilization are both clearly ethical. Getting pregnant when you cannot even take care of yourself is unethical. In cases of abortion the incubator decides who gets aborted. That is the problem, usually if you are stupid enough to get pregnant you cannot make the correct decision.
Forced sterilization could work something like a drivers license. If you pass a test and can put up a bond (similar to car insurance to pay for damages you cause) to pay for the child until he is 18 in case you default on your responsibility then you can procreate.
Monk
3:21 pm on Wednesday, September 19, 2012
Well, I guess life IS easier when you subscribe to moral relativism! The only problem is that, by definition, a moral relativist cannot expect to get a whole lot of buy in from others. I mean, it's your own discrete, little, moral universe where you make up the rules by which you will abide.
Moral objectivism makes more sense for a society though. It's good for people to agree on a few basic things that challenge us to be better.
Spooner
11:32 am on Saturday, September 22, 2012
John- Bill Ayers...Obama's PAL. . .Getting a little carried away aren't you?
Timothy McGraw
3:31 pm on Wednesday, September 19, 2012
Give santa and the tooth fairy my regards monk.
Monk
4:46 pm on Wednesday, September 19, 2012
Now that didn't come across as very charitable, sir. But moral relativism is childish in nature. If you have a moral framework that's more developed and mature than moral relativism, I'd like to to know more about it and how you square abortion and forced sterilization with it. If you don't care to correspond, you could just let it go without the snotty remarks. (I expect this much of myself.)
John Jay
5:41 pm on Wednesday, September 19, 2012
Timothy - I feel the cruel and unusual punishment is the when a human fetus is dismembered during the abortion process. I used to think otherwise -- but as mentioned earlier, my opinions changed.
I am sure there are scores of charitable organizations that would gladly help women who could not care for a child. Meaning, if the woman who contemplated abortion could give the child up for adoption to parents who have the means to do so.
Sadly, I think this information does not get into the hands of women who are told otherwise from Planned Parenthood -- that is one major reason why such organizations should not receive a dime of taxpayer money.
John Jay
5:45 pm on Wednesday, September 19, 2012
Mattie, to deny medical facts regarding human fetal development makes you appear ignorant and foolish on this board. I thank my lucky stars you are not a teacher or have any kind of influence on vulnerable teens and 20-something women who would be lured into your web of propaganda.
I have nothing further to say to you. You are beyond reason and help when you deny medical facts.
marylou
3:16 pm on Thursday, September 20, 2012
John,do you know how many children who are perfect in every wat are either in foster care or group homes,just because they aren't the "right" race to be adopted?Sure,there are many couples ready,willing and even willing to pay for adopt a blue eyed blond child,not as many who are willing to adopt a health black or mixed race child,and few yet who are willing to adopt 1 born handicapped or addicted to drugs.So,that child the a birth mother gives up for adoption is often not adopted at all.They stay "in the system"until they age out,aka turn 18.
George Clark
7:51 pm on Wednesday, September 19, 2012
Maybe we should say hi to a dream. A Tim? a "common" man?Who was this “crazy” man?Teaching and healing throughout the land.Claiming to be sent by God to deliver his word.This task given to a simple commoner, how absurd.Why didn’t he select a king or a President?Or at least a mansion’s rich resident?Words from these men can go a long way,As we prove by obeying them each day.Maybe send a lawyer, judge or magistrate?For many men have they sealed their fate,But they judge by a different book,Not through the heart do they look,Maybe send a doctor to heal our ills,I’m sure they too wish it was as simple as pills,He’s sent rabbis, priests and cardinals apparently to look,For their heads be buried too deep in their books,Maybe send a teacher and such,Would they concentrate on filling just the head too much?Maybe send the soldier with all his might,Maybe God didn’t want to start another fight?So did I forget any position in life?Who could bring his word without all the strife?Of judging each man by comparing one to another,This can only serve to turn brother against brother,For no one starts at the same spot,From the time we are all just little tots,
Till we turn wrinkled, withered, and gray,Only we can find our way,To a better world of joy and peace,No more pain, we’ve killed the beast,But take if from one of this “crazy” guy’s most loving fans,God knew he had to send a “common” man.For in the end we will see,a common man like he, shall save both you and me.
jorge mas canosa
3:26 pm on Thursday, September 20, 2012
Thank the man in the sky for that!! Imagine the unemployment rate if those unwanted kids had been born and were now living off the dole and stealing cars!!
Donald
11:09 pm on Friday, September 21, 2012
"Abortion is a moral right," says philosopher Ayn Rand. She is the muse for Republican Vice Presidential candidate Paul Ryan.
This first quote is from The Ayn Rand Letter from 1976:
"Never mind the vicious nonsense of claiming that an embryo has a 'right to life.' A piece of protoplasm has no rights—and no life in the human sense of the term. One may argue about the later stages of a pregnancy, but the essential issue concerns only the first three months. To equate a potential with an actual, is vicious; to advocate the sacrifice of the latter to the former, is unspeakable. . . ."
And this is from Rand's essay "Of Living Death," which is available in her book "The Voice of Reason":
"An embryo has no rights. Rights do not pertain to a potential, only to an actual being. A child cannot acquire any rights until it is born. The living take precedence over the not-yet-living (or the unborn). Abortion is a moral right—which should be left to the sole discretion of the woman involved; morally, nothing other than her wish in the matter is to be considered. Who can conceivably have the right to dictate to her what disposition she is to make of the functions of her own body?"
Old Enough
2:46 am on Saturday, September 22, 2012
When it comes to animal nature and the mating season humans are prohibited to interfere. Then as the nesting process begins we again can not interfere, then as they are mature and able to reach the point of independence we are suppose to avoid harming them.
Human beings on the other hand have branded the female gender rights that eliminate a natural conception in the womb caused by a cell activating a egg inside the females body. There are no laws or warnings that say human female in breeding season, or human female nesting, no trespassing until late May. The human body and human life is the most articulate perfect miraculous result in our universe, but yet we are debating when life began or if life is even a definition when the womens egg evolves.
If it is essential for animals to be preserved and protected as they are forming life, why then is it not essential for the woman if she is known to be developing life in her womb? Remember abortion has eliminated many millions of potential lives. The lives that have been aborted just may have included a potential great world leader or a great inventor, teacher, president etc..."Imagine the punishment to our freedom could be due to the elimination of just one womb of the many millions, our times we are living in could be a direct result of that one choice made by one woman, that is how procarious life is on our planet, much like how the tree frog is so delicate to the animal species.
Monk
8:58 am on Saturday, September 22, 2012
So what if Ayn Rand thought abortion is a moral right? And your implication that Paul Ryan subscribes to everything Ayn Rand wrote or uttered is unwarranted.
Abortion is a moral right only in the sense that humans have right to exercise their free will. That doesn't make it a moral good or even morally neutral. Some Muslims believe they have the moral right to stone women to death and behead unbelievers. White supremacists believe they have a right to terrorize blacks and Jews.
You haven't caught pro-lifers in a contradiction. By virtue of their free will people have a "right" to commit all kinds of atrocities. But in a civilized society, free will is guided by laws protecting moral goods, not unlimited choices.
Donald
9:08 am on Saturday, September 22, 2012
"The human body and human life is [sic] the most articulate perfect miraculous result in our universe," as Old Enough writes, would sound like mysticism to most secular philosophers. (But they would appreciate the humor, if not irony, of that articulation.) Moreover, they would not agree that, in general, "it is essential for animals to be preserved and protected as they are forming life."
Spooner
11:28 am on Saturday, September 22, 2012
John- "Hillary Clinton narrowly escaping indictment". . .aren't you stretching things a bit!. . .Naughty...Naughty?
Donald
10:26 am on Saturday, September 22, 2012
As far as what G-d intended, may well-respected religious and spiritual groups in this country -- representing the moral principles of scores of millions of thoughtful, observant people -- are against completely taking away a woman's right to an abortion, and support the current laws. These groups acknowledge the superior moral or religious rights of the mother over the unborn, at least under certain circumstances. Such groups include (among many others) numerous Jews, Episcopalians, Presbyterians, Methodists, Quakers, Baptists, etc., etc. See: http://www.religioustolerance.org/abo_hist1.htm
Donald
11:22 am on Saturday, September 22, 2012
The Lutheran denomination is not on my list, nor are Jews members of "Christianity" (especially as just cartooned by the poster).
Monk
12:41 pm on Saturday, September 22, 2012
Donald, "These groups acknowledge the superior moral or religious rights of [X] over [Y] ..." Really? I mean, are you really prepared to go there? If so, then add all the genocidal monsters the world has ever witnessed to your list. And, no, it's not a stretch to take your implications to their logical conclusions. It's pretty adolescent to argue that something should be permitted since others are doing it. Come to your senses, man. Sheesh!
marylou
6:34 pm on Sunday, September 23, 2012
Well.Joshua,as a Methodist you know that the higher ups of the United Methodist Church do not dictate from the pulpit.And the UMC does not expect everyone to live by what they consider to be moral.The UMC is in favor of reproducutive choice.
Donald
3:09 pm on Saturday, September 22, 2012
With this I leave this topic, much as I began: I am thankful I live in a nation of laws, not one based on the extremist views and obtuse comments displayed here. And Roe v. Wade -- striking a thoughtful balance to a difficult issue -- is the law of the land. For this, I am also thankful. L'shana tova
Monk
8:03 pm on Saturday, September 22, 2012
Thanks for leaving the topic, Donald, since you didn't bring anything to it.
People, can you believe the naiveté of these dopes? Yes, yes, it's a very thoughtful balance to rule that one class of humans have virtually no protections. How disgusting and hypocritical. How on earth can a Jew, of all people, have so little respect for the sanctity of life? If preborn humans have no rights, then no one has any meaningful rights.
Spooner
12:12 am on Sunday, September 23, 2012
Monk- your comment seems to be spinning facts into some kind of a smokey haze. . ."one class of humans have virtually no protections". . .that's not true. The Court recognizes protection for as you put "one class of humans"
http://www.law.cornell.edu/supct/html/historics/USSC_CR_0410_0113_ZO.html
marylou
6:24 pm on Sunday, September 23, 2012
Joshua,If Jews have the lowest abortion rate in the country,perhaps it's because the use birth control when they don't want to be parents.That's what the ones I know do.But I do know that they are pro-choice when it comes to rape or the health of the mother or the fetus.
Jennifer
10:00 pm on Saturday, September 22, 2012
One of the things that really bothers me about the right to life people is that they act as if biology is simple and straightforward, conception starts what will definitely develop into a living child if nature is allowed to take it's course, and the pregnancy, being natural, is not dangerous, merely inconvenient. Even Robert Way, whom I have often seen on these boards and who seems generally well-informed, wrote an entire article on the topic without bothering to research any potential dangers to the pregnant woman. He invited people to share any other than ectopic pregnancy. But he never acknowledged a single one of my comments. So, let me make it more personal with real live examples. And mind you, I am talking about things that happened in WANTED pregnancies.
First of all, at conception, something begins that is frequently disrupted and ends spontaneously for no known reason, or for a myriad of knowable reasons if a necropsy is performed. Chromosomal abnormalities inconsistent with life. Defects in the development of the fetus for no known reason. Dropping hormone levels in the mother cause the corpus callosum to disintegrate before the placenta has fully formed, causing miscarriage. If life really began at conception, then 20-25% of all people die before birth even without abortion. If God makes babies one by one, he Has very poor quality control. (continued)
Jennifer
10:29 pm on Saturday, September 22, 2012
(continued)
But what if the pregnancy goes along as planned? Well. My sister had a 'precipitous labor' - no time for pain meds - and the baby's shoulders were stuck, they cut a 'v' from her vagina into the muscles of both thighs to allow the baby to pass. My best friend had the best doctor, and still suffered a fourth degree tear through her rectum and anal sphincter and required reconstructive surgery so she didn't have to wear diapers. Two of my friends successfully delivered their babies only to develop life-threatening infections and sepsis days after returning home, because the placenta was not fully delivered. Every DAY I walk past a house where a woman miscarried a 13 week pregnancy at night and BLED TO DEATH in her own bed, because the midwife who answered the call told her that miscarriage is 'natural' and her body would take care of it, so come in in the morning. I guess she forgot that death is natural too.
I forgot to mention, my one of my friends with the sepsis lost the tips of her fingers to blood clots. And speaking of blood clots, I struck up a conversation with a guy at a mcdonalds playground who just looked too old and unexcited to be a Dad to the 6 year old he was watching, and he said that yes, his daughter had gotten pregnant in college, and they had convinced her to continue the pregnancy, that they would care for the baby while she went to school. The day after the baby was born, a blood clot travelled from her uterus to her lungs, killing her.
Jennifer
10:30 pm on Saturday, September 22, 2012
Cont)
So to all those who think it is simple, or easy, or black and white, don't you know anyone who has ever had a miscarriage, a complication, a bad outcome? Do I live in a weird alternative universe, or do you?
Miguel Velez
12:50 am on Sunday, September 23, 2012
This entire debate is wrong.
If one side is called "Pro-Life", what is the other side "Pro-death"?
No, the debate is between "Pro-Choice" and "No-Choice". Each woman has the right and duty to choose how and when she will form her family.
Especially in the case of rape of incest. The state cannot force her to live that trauma forever.
She makes these choices in consultation with her God, her partner, and maybe her religious leader. She does not make this choice by consulting her congressman, the local sheriff, or the town council.
This board has become toxic. It reminds me of the Crusades, but not "in person". Many people hide their identities.
In our country we have freedom of religion, which also includes the freedom FROM religion. That means you don't get to tell others how, if, or when they should worship. That's what the Taliban does.
It may surprise some of the "Right To Life" folks to learn that some Pro-Choice folks do not support abortions. But they do support Freedom of Religion and every person's right to Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Happiness.
That loosely translates to "Mind your own business." You do not decide how a woman lives her life.
So the bottom line is this: "Observe the law of the land and the Constitution".
Respect every American's right to live their life in peace without your interference,
and follow those principles you claim to profess. If you don't think women should have abortions, fine. Don't have one.
marylou
12:19 pm on Sunday, September 23, 2012
Miguel,did you ever think that the reason that some of the people who are pro-choice and post comments under flase names are afraid that if they used their real names,the so-called pro-life crowd would come to their homes and kill or injure them?The truth is that they car about fetuses and embryos,not babies,children,teenagers and adults,especially those who dare to disagree with them.
Donna Griffin
3:58 pm on Sunday, September 23, 2012
I do believe that Pro-Choice is a misnomer. It should more appropriately be called Pro-Abortion. For those who choose life, there is no voice in the "Pro-Choice" political movement. It's sole mission statement is the promotion of legal abortion at every stage of pregnancy (late term and post-birth in the event of an unsuccessful late-stage abortion). I would just like some honesty in the nomenclature. If a person is pro-abortion, then please be honest about it.
marylou - Your commentary is disturbing on a whole host of levels. I am hopeful that your paranoia is only something that comes out in your writing and that you truly do not live your life that frightened of people who believe that life begins at conception.
Miguel Velez
5:44 pm on Sunday, September 23, 2012
Donna, unfortunately Marylou is correct in her observation, not paranoid.
Here is a simple search from Wikipedia regarding abortion assassinations.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anti-abortion_violence
and yes, it is disturbing on a "whole host of levels".
All you need to do is observe, and you will become aware of
what others are doing in your name.
Donna Griffin
11:40 pm on Sunday, September 23, 2012
Miguel - Who is doing anything "in my name." I believe that life begins at conception and as such deserves protection. Is there room in your world for that difference of opinion? It's unfortunate again that pro-choice proponents are the least inclusive when it comes to making the choice in support of life. However, it should come as no surprise. Most liberal groups are quite tolerant....of only those who happen to agree with them.
marylou
9:23 am on Monday, September 24, 2012
Donna,my personal belief is that abortion should not be used as a method of birth control. There are plaeny of very effective methods.If a woman is raped,she should use the morning after pill to prevent pregnancy.There are times when continuing a pregnancy endangers the mother's health,even in a planned and very much wanted pregnancy.There are also times when the fetus is unhealthy or handicapped.No one,IMO,should be allowed to dictate that these women must carry their pregnancies to term.However I feel,I also believe that I have no right to tell others what to do with their lives.Many of the so-called pro-life crowd mention adoption.I agree.I have an adopted child myself.He was born healthy.His only "flaw" is that he is not the same race as my husband and I.And many people do considered nbeing bi-racial or any race other than white as a flaw.So,if perfect,non-white babies are hard to place with adoptive parents,they certainly are not going to adopt babies born addicted to drugs or alcohol or severly handicapped babies.
Donna Griffin
10:03 am on Monday, September 24, 2012
marylou - If you believe that abortion should not be used as routine birth control, then why not promote legislation limiting its use? If legislation were passed allowing us to terminate the life of a 2 y.o. simply because the child became an "inconvenience" to the mother, I would hope that people would stand up and fight it and not be denigrated for so doing. I am well aware that abortion is legal in every state. In some states, one can terminate a pregnancy well into the third trimester for any reason. I have a problem with abortion in general but I cannot fathom a fully formed baby being ripped from its mother. Worse yet, a baby "born" of a botched late-term abortion being terminated outside the womb speaks volumes of the insensitivity of our culture and the disposable aspect of "inconveniences" in the form of infants. I think conversations on the subject are beneficial. But the "shut up" attitude of the pro-abortionists is concerning to me.
marylou
10:27 am on Monday, September 24, 2012
Donna,the simple answer is that I am not arrogant enough to think that everyone should live their lives by my rules,or by what I think is "right".There are laws that prevent late term abortions unless the mother's life or health endangered.I read about 1 formerly anti-abortion woman who chose to abort her unhealthy fetus when carrying it for another few weeks would have caused her own death.She had other children at home who would have been left motherless.These situtations may be rare,but they still exist,and I for one,don't think that anyone but the woman and her doctor should make these decisions.
Donna Griffin
11:48 am on Monday, September 24, 2012
marylou - That's where we differ. The "health" of the mother in late-term abortions is oftentimes defined as "mental health." This mental health inclusion also considers the mother's "mental stress." I've had a few kids myself and if mental stress during my ninth month of pregnancy was considered an illness, then I surely was sick as a dog.
marylou
12:00 pm on Monday, September 24, 2012
Donna,yes,we do differ.I don't believe that I have all the right answers and should be able to tell others how to live their lives.I've heard all the arguements that doctors have been wrong and that sometimes babies have been born to women who were told that their fetus was unhealthy,and that women who were told that continuing their pregnancy would result in serious health consequences for them,and all turned out OK.But,those decisions should not be decided you,me or anyone other than the woman and her doctor.
Fred M
11:23 am on Sunday, September 23, 2012
To believe in Pro Choice is to not believe in God...Can't have it both Ways..Just imagine meeting God and telling God that abortion is ok...
marylou
12:15 pm on Sunday, September 23, 2012
Fred,Did you read the comments by "Donald" above?There are many denomonations of Christians that accept abortion,at least in certain cases,as do Jews.And the fact is that all of us answer to God.We do not need people like you to interpret what God thinks.
Fred M
3:12 pm on Sunday, September 23, 2012
Marylou ..People like me? PLEASE let us know what type of people you want. Those denomonations make up their own rules that are not from God..God creates life..People take life...Donalds comments about other religions doesn't mean God is happy with abortion...And let me have my own opinion...We also DON'T need people like YOU getting defensive of people that have an opinion..
marylou
9:28 am on Monday, September 24, 2012
"People like you"= people who think they are the only one's who belive in God and know what God thinks.I think that we all answer to God.You do what you think God would want you to do and the rest of us will do the same.And there are many who don't believe in God,so I' guess they just answer to themselves.It;s none of my business and it'a not your's,either.
Miguel Velez
3:22 pm on Sunday, September 23, 2012
Unfortunately, you're right about the contradictions in the so called "right-to-life" movement. It's ironic that a national movement with such a name has been associated with assassinations, bombings and other activities which some would call terrorism if it were any other group.
On a national basis, they claim to use science when it suits their interpretation. Yet there is a high correlation between those who call themselves "right to life" and those who deny climate change and believe in creationism.
There is also a high correlation with the proclaimed desire for small government. Yet, they call for the government to monitor the reproductive relationships of all couples. A government that can do that, is not going to be small. It may also have tendencies towards totalitarianism.
Finally, they want the congressman and sheriff to enforce their position which is derived from their belief system, but they do not see that as the State enforcing a religious position. They do not see the parallel between their behavior and the Taliban enforcing their shariah law.
All we can do is have patience and hope that this age of hostility will subside within our lifetime. Be kind to your neighbor, even though, unfortunately, not all members of a civilized society are civil. The difference of opinion is why we have elections.